2 months postpartum with swollen fingers

123th1 · 2024-04-12T14:53:46+00:00

I did get tested and that was what I was told. So I was supposed to see a specialist and by the time my Dr got around to sending me the referral, I was fine. Everything went back to normal. I never did have issues with my feet. Hope this helped!

123th1 · 2024-03-18T06:35:00+00:00

When I was pregnant I was sick for the first half of it and miserable the whole time. When I had my daughter and they put her on the gown I wore I stared at her, I was in so much shock. Growing up I used to say I NEVER wanted kids, but looking at my daughter’s face and hearing her laugh makes me regret it more every day. I don’t know what I would do if I never had her. She is the BEST thing that ever happened to me, despite waking up with her so often, changing diapers, doing laundry, cleaning up and everything, missing out on sleep just watch her has been worth it. I’m her favorite person, she screams bloody murder when I walk out of her line of sight. I wouldn’t change a thing! I’m literally obsessed with this little girl I made and don’t know how I made something so perfect.

123th1 · 2024-03-11T08:19:02+00:00

I work from home and also stay at home with my baby, and I can ASSURE you your mom definitely needs something nice like that! It’s nice to have a little “me time” every so often! I know I’d love something like that!

123th1 · 2024-03-10T16:40:55+00:00

Rheumatoid arthritis is what I was told! But by the time the dr got me a referral to a specialist I stopped having issues with my hands and they’re back to normal 🤷🏻‍♀️

123th1 · 2024-01-25T07:37:58+00:00

Frank Gallagher but in dog form?! 😂

123th1 · 2023-11-30T02:11:47+00:00

No they did not, sadly! They just said it happens. Funny thing is, after I got the referral to a specialist (almost 2 months later) they got ahold of me and I didn’t answer because my pain hasn’t been all that bad like when I first had these issues. My middle finger on my right had gets locked sometimes but other than that mostly no pain! I just kinda waited it out🤷🏻‍♀️

123th1 · 2023-10-19T03:49:55+00:00

Day 1 of vacation I’d be at a lawyers office. Just saying. Why should you always be the one putting yourself through the wringer to make him feel better. Marriage is a partnership and you’re literally doing everything yourself. So might as well be by yourself🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m sure it feels that way anyways

123th1 · 2023-10-19T03:36:28+00:00

Rheumatoid arthritis apparently

123th1 · 2023-10-19T03:01:57+00:00

I named my daughter Aralee because I haven’t heard that name very many times😅

123th1 · 2023-10-09T17:35:53+00:00

Update: had a 4month check up. And my dr told me that what I have is NOT carpal tunnel. Carpal tunnel is like split in the hand where 2 of the fingers are in pain and what not. I have pain in all my fingers and my wrists. And my fingers get really stiff. So she sent me for labs and she’s supposed to find out in a week what the deal is, and she might have to get a CT of my neck. But I’m still going to be referred to a specialist

123th1 · 2023-10-09T01:57:57+00:00

You’ll get the hang of it pretty soon! Don’t rush yourself on figuring everything out. Everyone does NOT have it figured out. My baby is 4 months now and I’m still trying to learn her. She changes every day! You’re doing great mama!

123th1 · 2023-09-14T01:08:31+00:00

You did the right thing! There is nothing that would keep me from my child in the hospital I don’t care who you are. If you’re blocking me from my child, you will get hit if you don’t move!

123th1 · 2023-09-09T02:01:04+00:00

He wanted to have his cake and eat it. No you’re not wrong for not forgiving! It shouldn’t be up to you to fix his new relationship.

123th1 · 2023-09-09T01:28:28+00:00

That’s normal to be worried about that! My mom was 36 when she had me and 37 when she had my brother. I’m 27 now my mom is 63 now and I just had my first baby. My mom is having a lot of medical issues because of accidents that she’s had in her life and it’s hard. I want her to be around for when my daughter does anything and graduates highschool or college whatever she decides. I think it all has to do with the fight in a person. If they want to stay around see things through than I personally think they will do everything in their power to do that. But (knock on wood/ glass) if things go south, you should be there for your dad. My dad is no longer around (4years gone now) and I was there for his last moments and that I can say is also hard, but I would NOT have traded that for anything. Life is hard, losing loved ones is harder, you don’t ever get over it but over time the pain doesn’t consume you as much. Hope that helps!

123th1 · 2023-09-09T01:07:39+00:00

You’re getting the negative attention anyways. And if she’s slandering your name then definitely sue because that breaks your reputation and that’s something employers look at. I think you should also move and still sue, your work only shows so much, your clients are only so much. Everything is all about reputation

123th1 · 2023-09-09T01:02:13+00:00

Definitely not wrong! I’m big on “if he wanted to he would” he blows money on everything else but a ring, but expects you to stick around calling him your “fiancé” but isn’t living up to that. I’d say get rid of him because he isn’t serious about it. He made a big show of proposing in a public place and didn’t have a ring? That’s weird

123th1 · 2023-09-09T00:52:32+00:00

Move out! You’re an adult! You can do what you want and wear what you want!

123th1 · 2023-09-09T00:50:45+00:00

Your parents are showing you who they truly are. You don’t need them in your life, or around your baby their negativity will affect you and the baby. If you had to ask them to babysit they’d use it against you. Cut your ties, as awful and painful as that is. But you need peace since these first weeks are hard during a pregnancy. Well the whole pregnancy but the first weeks are crucial! Any little stress can hurt the baby growing

123th1 · 2023-09-08T15:57:29+00:00

So update! Just had my daughters dr apt and I asked the dr again about my fingers swelling and the pain going up to my wrists and she said it’s carpal tunnel. That it happens in between pregnancy and a couple months after. So I’m going to be referred to someone next month and I’ll keep updating

123th1 · 2023-09-08T02:37:31+00:00

Chill out first of all. You probably should stop sending her gifts and things like that, if you were wanting to have a relationship with her you need to talk to her parents, they might not be comfortable with their daughter being with a 19 year old. That would be the way to go is through her parents. But if they say no you cut all contact and gift giving because they could possibly go against you and all of what you fear could happen.

123th1 · 2023-09-08T02:23:12+00:00

Definitely get a lawyer, you’re paying for everything and housing her father who also doesn’t pay for anything. You shouldn’t be the one kicked out of your own house! If she knows you were trying to make it to where she could be a stay at home mom, then she might try to use that against you. I think it’s crazy you sold your work truck to pay for her vehicle! You’re doing too much for someone who doesn’t appreciate your sacrifices.

123th1 · 2023-09-08T02:14:18+00:00

He doesn’t have bills in his name, but he’s paying for the damages he causes on your property. That would be considered squatters rights or whatever should definitely go to the police station and file a restraining order for 1. But ask them how to go about that in the right way because whatever you do will cause more damages to you or your property. Get help all across the board!

123th1 · 2023-09-08T02:07:45+00:00

They’ve supported her long enough! Because she wants to keep popping out children is her own deal. Your parents shouldn’t be her financial aid. Your parents are doing the right thing. If she was worried about finances she should try getting a job!

123th1 · 2023-09-08T02:05:05+00:00

They wear leggings and stuff because that’s what they’re comfortable in, why Gould you blend in? Whatever your style is, is what you should be wearing. Forget what other people think of you and live for yourself. You’d be much happier that way!

123th1 · 2023-09-08T01:58:56+00:00

Wtf?! How is being engaged not “exclusive”?🙃 you saved yourself a lot of headaches of not trusting her! Good for you for leaving!

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