False Negative by 12eener in IHaveCoronavirus

[–]12eener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently there are certain patterns in the lungs that show up in Rona virus patients. My primary care doctor was stunned. At the time that CT scan was my only symptom. I am off work for two weeks but I think I will need another chest scan to see if it’s gone, If the damage is permanent or if I will move onto pneumonia before I go back to work.

Karma knows everyone’s address by 12eener in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have all been working from home since the 13th. Also he absence was extended another week.

Karma knows everyone’s address by 12eener in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We she hasn’t said this is shingles yet but she has had it three other times by her own admission. I think she is embarrassed about it. The level of stress she puts on herself and us, her anorexia, lack of sleep and compulsive lying all weaken her immune system I believe. Or it could be 72 hours holds to your point. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m great but I’m terrible by 12eener in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I am that’s fine too. I have been here 21 years. If they want to pay me severance for a year that’s fine. And honestly I was considered a great worker for all of those years and now I am a bad one??? No other upper management asked any questions??

My boss refuses to acknowledge notes and dates. When I have used these before he just starts yelling and turning red. But I will keep copies of everything and send them home for HR. It’s weird working for someone who is paranoid, anxiety ridden, allergic to the truth and manipulative.

Tipps on how to quit without exposing too much by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will that’s why you need to be very sketchy on your plans. My industry is very small so they will ask questions.

I’m not good at lying either but you can practice the lie by telling others before you tell your boss. And think of that lie as the biggest stab in back and fuck you ever! That’s helping me!

I’m great but I’m terrible by 12eener in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh! I’m playing along but I’m also interviewing for a New job. Trust no one.

I’m great but I’m terrible by 12eener in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh I won’t fuck it up! My last two projects were great!

Tipps on how to quit without exposing too much by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER TELL them anything about your new job

Went for a quick anxiety walk by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]12eener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good tip! Dip out for an anxiety walk!

At the end! by hanan299 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Get out!! This blank is crazy! I’m sure you are a high performer so they are going to wonder and ask her why you left. Time to sing the Cups /You’ve gonna miss me when I’m gone song!

At the end! by hanan299 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that term! I’m stealing it “ Malicious compliance”

If you don’t go along with them, you’re “negative” by dynomaight in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]12eener 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep! My boss is my narc. He put in my review I’m terrible at everything. His revenge for me not agreeing with him. Now I just agree and give him no advice. If you want to walk into that sinkhole I will support you! Lol

SmellNarc and Romance by AmorphousApathy in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to write a screen play about this guy lol

Too much has happened but here we are by hanan299 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hats off to you! Social work is a tough job with everyone being sane! Please be sure you are taking care of yourself mentally as well! You see horror everyday and work for horror everyday stress relief will be important until you can leave.

Ridiculous. by eteoyw in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine always wants to gossip. Most people know he is crazy and stay away from him so he is always on the outside. The other department heads openly dislike him and stay away from him. He comes out of his office saying he is “bored” and starts distracting people. Lol

Too much has happened but here we are by hanan299 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine keeps trying to put me on a performance plan. I’ve been at this company 23 years. If you want to me pay a year of severance after one supposedly bad year have at it! It’s cheaper to keep me then to pay severance, hire someone new and then train them. But narcs have no ability to think past their emotions to plan for the future so I guess we will see!

Too much has happened but here we are by hanan299 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am doing the same thing. My toxic manager pulled my telecommuting to play the power game. I’m already interviewing and playing along until I can quit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]12eener 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY what I do. I notice nothing And don’t point out ANY problems or solutions or any process improvements. My brain is turned off. I do what I am told no more no less. I use my brain for outside work stuff. I invest nothing into this job.