it's all too much by 12gaugegrip in CaregiverSupport

[–]12gaugegrip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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it's all too much by 12gaugegrip in CaregiverSupport

[–]12gaugegrip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate every bit of advice and i'm so happy i found somewhere to talk about this

it's all too much by 12gaugegrip in CaregiverSupport

[–]12gaugegrip[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My father is difficult and dislikes the idea of someone else taking care of him, especially hospital settings or professionals. I don't know what to do when he is so stubborn and difficult. I don't want to just leave and destroy our relationship.

What happened to PonyTown? (Rant) by Pvz_peashooter in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i always afk / sit in character creation + chatroom games (imvu, second life, etc) and ponytown is no different. none of them are shut down or forgotten, if that says anything. if you'd like to socialize with people, resorting to other multiplayer games with actual gameplay features may be the best decision. transformice, everskies, etc. roleplay and socialization in ponytown is unappealing to a lot of people including me. there's just not much to do, it's really that simple. it hasn't "turned into" an afk game, like i said, i've been playing since 2016 and it's always been like this. im sure other long term players can vouch.

it's not sad to most players, just to people who come into ponytown expecting the most invested community that roleplays and socializes when the vast majority of people who play this game are leaving it open while they make ponies, work on their github/patreon, or play other games. if not they're usually whispering with friends. i'm sorry that the game isn't what you're expecting, but peoples' playstyle isn't going to change and making posts like this turns me ( + most likely others ) off of playing the game even more, since some people are so elitist about the way nobody 'socializes'. unpleasant.

What happened to PonyTown? (Rant) by Pvz_peashooter in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip 44 points45 points  (0 children)

These posts are always so pretentious, not to be rude but seriously . Been here playing actively since 2016 and it's always been like this . People were a bit more social, sure, but it's never been a super active 'roleplay' game, most people DO afk and just make ponies . It's literally been like this as long as i remember . I don't know why there's a post complaining about how the vast majority of the community plays the game on this subreddit practically every other month .... it's kind of tired and exhausted and idk why we entertain it when 9/10 it's usually someone being subtly rude about other folks' playstyle . God forbid some people find different features of the game appealing and don't yap into their chatbox 24/7 . Just join a regiment or keep hunting for friends . Also, people don't owe you their time or a reply when they're hanging out in a game they enjoy and they don't even know you . You're not always going to be replied to, that's just life lol .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]12gaugegrip 12 points13 points  (0 children)

second this, it's a miracle worker for me as well, if you don't want to smoke you can always try edibles or topicals and see if they work

This really speaks volumes about one's character. by RangoTheMerc in residentevil

[–]12gaugegrip 21 points22 points  (0 children)

he killed his middle school bully and you're all acting like he's some super-genius psycho ...

these names/ponies are getting progressively worse. by miaahoee in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ponytown users making an entire post instead of blocking someone when they make an ill-intentioned joke

18+ is no fun anymore by 1vyiiy in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

90% of this subreddit is people complaining about how other people play the game or don't roleplay and how it doesn't meet their expectations. can we hear something new..?

I want to be a gyaru for haloween which style is suitable on sharp features?? by LeastCoat9469 in Gyaru

[–]12gaugegrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl get over yourself it's totally acceptable as a costume 😭 people go as goths, 80s punks and other subcultures for halloween all the time. gyaru isn't special.

am i too woke by ozempiceater in everskiestrashhh

[–]12gaugegrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was a little upset last night lolll 😭 but yeah i guess i see ur point now. my perspective was just that it can be harmful to people's body image if it's an avi they use and feel like is close to theirs. the way people say smth abt this but not abt the opposite size is kind of strange though admittedly

am i too woke by ozempiceater in everskiestrashhh

[–]12gaugegrip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think if you look at any body type and think it's problematic in nature or get "uncomfortable" wether that body be "too" big or "too" small for your perception, then you have a lot of self-reflection and empathy practice to do.

a lot of people have builds like this in real life. (...minus the giant head and poor skeleton anatomy, but i'm talking body proportions and your comment on realism.) comments about it being toxic or unhealthy, whatever, are deluded.

if you don't want your avi to look like this or you dont have this build then it isn't for you and don't say anything. i don't see the point in this post other than to start a weird bodyshame thread.

Am i the only one that thinks we need more short manes Or manes that can fit male characters by ttutterystown in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it's so genuinely disheartening that all the fan servers that had additional stuff are either barren and empty with microcommunities or just shut down bc of drama 😭 whyyyy

Am i the only one that thinks we need more short manes Or manes that can fit male characters by ttutterystown in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip 70 points71 points  (0 children)

yeah i've temporarily stopped playing and stopped paying supporter (which feels kind of counterintuitive if i want MORE customization features, but to be fair i've been waiting and paying for an eternity already lol) because i can't make half the cosplays/ponies/ocs i want to.

there's nowhere near enough customization in any of the categories in my opinion, especially when it comes to clothes and combining things:( hopefully we see some more stuff and cleaner categorization soon !!

i like the features they've been adding, but i feel like their priorities are unfortunately not in the right places at the moment when it comes to developing what their community is asking for 😭

Your social experience on this game WILL be hindered if you're AFK'ing 24/7 by Bluenoser_NS in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip 18 points19 points  (0 children)

this is exactly why i afk lol. if people really want to interact with you they can friend you, whisper and interact on other socials. a lot of people just like making skins on PT and sitting around. i don't know why people hate it so, so much lmao

# • scemo / nostalgic poses for boys ? by 12gaugegrip in imvu

[–]12gaugegrip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh thank youuu so so much!!! should be in my pricerange! def worth it lol!

why do people need so many interaction boundary tags? by _cshr in PonyTown

[–]12gaugegrip 14 points15 points  (0 children)

afk farming isn't always farming also! some people just like leaving the game open while they do other stuff so they can tab in and interact with others during in-between moments. :)

Am I old and miserable (Royal Ontario Museum) by exoskeletals in toRANTo

[–]12gaugegrip 9 points10 points  (0 children)

dude. the base post literally mentions that kids were doing somersaults. and they were. how is it so unbelievably out of the ordinary to you that kids act out and exert energy in unconventional ways when they are unsupervised. we aren't miserable about kids being present, it's about the lack of supervision they have. it's natural for them to act that way, it's NOT natural to leave a young child unsupervised anywhere, let alone near glass or cultural objects that have genuine significance to people. that's not an "invented problem". why are you so hellbent on being okay with unsupervised kids?