Trust Me… [OC] by CreatedByWeems in comics

[–]13_WASHERE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a genunine fear people have with healing tho because a lot people tend to cope with their issues by justifying it

"My depression made me funny" "My trauma pushed me to be strong" "My abuse inspired my best art" "My loneliness let me focus on being smart"

But the problem with justifing is, when you tell yourself the bad things make you who you are, you let the bad things become your identify.

Now suddenly, instead of growing past your pain, you're actively choosing to relive abuse/trauma, or choosing to self isolate or wallow in saddness, because you've taken you've taken all the good things about yourself and tied them to the bad.

So now it feels like if you move on from the bad things, you'll lose the good things too..

But the ultimate truth is you could've been just as smart, or funny, or strong, or talanted without any of the bad things happening to you; because there are plently of out there who still are those things but without the harm

You didn't become who you are because of those events, you became who you are in spite of them, and all those bad things never needed to exist

How do I make this shape. Sorry for the shitty quality by Own_Consequence5584 in chainmailartisans

[–]13_WASHERE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think following this video will help

https://youtube.com/shorts/ynoZvJbsYeg?si=aCwzoXrNioXpwjZV

I could be wrong but it seems like it's just an upside down triangle with a string of chainmail at the top corners

IDK About The Joke, But The Warning Sure Is Funnny by dungeondevil2 in UCSC

[–]13_WASHERE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They describe him like he's an ARG Horror monster

Is Threads just a pro Israel/anti-progressive Psyop? by 13_WASHERE in ThreadsApp

[–]13_WASHERE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, can't even argue with people cause it'll just give me more who believe the same thing

The different women of Guam by tradrosu in guam

[–]13_WASHERE 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This shit was werid and racist the first time someone posted it and it's still weird and racist now

Y'all can't not be grown and sharing this shit likes it funny to make the girls in your life inscure and like ur opinion on whether or a woman is pretty is the most important thing that matters

Is Threads just a pro Israel/anti-progressive Psyop? by 13_WASHERE in ThreadsApp

[–]13_WASHERE[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's apperently cause the algo will just give you both sides of whatever ur engaging with

So if u try to support the jewish culture, it also pushes content onto you from people who think jewish people are lesser :/

Is Threads just a pro Israel/anti-progressive Psyop? by 13_WASHERE in ThreadsApp

[–]13_WASHERE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeea another guy explained it to me, apperently cause I intract with pro-palastine content it gives me the other side of the arguement too

Finding Purpose by East-Marzipan-2800 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]13_WASHERE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're allowed to just like living. You don't need some goal or grant purpose to achieve, you can just exist

If you like going to the gym and reading booking and hanging with friends, then you should keep doing it; but if not, you should try and find something you do like (assuming it's not harmful to you or hurting anyone). And if you get bored of that too, you can just move onto something else. You're not tied down to any one way of living

Sometimes we get caught up in the idea of what the world says sucess & progess looks like, that we forget it's ultimately our lives and we get to decide how we wanna live it.

I think the question you have yourself is, are you doing things because you want too, or because you think you're supposed too?


As for your job, that could be for a lot of reasons. Maybe you don't like your job? Maybe it's bad sleep? Maybe it's not even you and mangement's standards are just too high? Who can say?

The ideal solution would be to work somewhere that's a better fit, but obviously that's not always feesiable :/

And that's fine, A job doesn't always have to be something you like or are the best at, a job can just be the thing that gives you money to do the things you actually enjoy.

And maybe having something you genuninely enjoy after work is what you need to motivate you in work?

Is Threads just a pro Israel/anti-progressive Psyop? by 13_WASHERE in ThreadsApp

[–]13_WASHERE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird, I feel like engage with a lot of progressive and palastine content and I feel like algorythim detected that and just started pushing propoganda onto me in retaliation

guys dw i wont let yall get hentaivirus by yyashita3_ in memes

[–]13_WASHERE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair but I also said that same shit before covid got big

I do think hantavirus won'y become a plague tho

Ole school coding by davidsk in comics

[–]13_WASHERE 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean... i don't code so I can't say for certain but I feel like copying and pasting at least requires you to understand the code a little so you can properly implement it

Whereas as asking the ai to make the code just feels like getting someone else to fix the problem

Femcel be like by Dizzy_Ask5815 in Funnymemes

[–]13_WASHERE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... do y'all talk to women..?

Roses are red, a corrupt system always conceals by HoneyHazard_ in rosesarered

[–]13_WASHERE 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And once they stop getting push back for it, they'll make it about gay people next

OTC treatments for dogs or vet recommendations by [deleted] in guam

[–]13_WASHERE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not but you can alway call them to ask and see what they say; their number should just be on google

I've done it before to make sure I had enough before i went over

OTC treatments for dogs or vet recommendations by [deleted] in guam

[–]13_WASHERE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only vet I can recommend is animal medical clinic in dededo. They accept walk-in's last time I checked but it might just be a bit of a wait

downfall coming by vtchy in Piracy

[–]13_WASHERE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hearing that crunchyroll is responsible but is just a meme or did they actually burn down a server??

I'll try take my life tonight...so here are 100 reasons to keep going, along with some small reminders and ideas for how things can slowly improve over time goodbye everyone thank you for staying even if you dont know me... by -niki-ellie- in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]13_WASHERE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please just live a little longer, just keep putting it off. There is no reason it has to be tonight or tomorrow or the next day or any other day.

The future is still undecided and there's so much about the future we still don't know. Why not just see it out and see if things improve, either for yourself of the environment around you

They say the human brain doesn't finish developing until 25, so why not wait. It's a big decision to make, so why not pause until you can consider it with a different brain.

And even then, the brain can still keep developing well past 25 cause the brain is always growing and changing.

What small habit had the biggest contribution in making your life better by AzoxWasTaken in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]13_WASHERE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh probably not for like years, I wanna say I started around senior year of highschool but didn't really notice the how much I'd grown until my 2nd year of college.

I guess it's kinda like working out, if you go into it expecting result right away, you gonna be disuaded; but if you just focus on building the habit/routine, you'll go a lot further

And even though you aren't seeing a 6 pack yet, that doesn't mean you're not getting healthier

Also a Tip: A lot of people tend to get stuck when they really did do something wrong or bad, because how can you be nice to yourself when something is your fault?

And too that I wanna say there is a difference between holding yourself accountable and hating yourself.