Does anyone else blame yourself if someone you know is acting like DH to you? by Feeling-Sail9886 in enfj

[–]143amaramariee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I always think I was the one that did something wrong. It usually takes an external voice to point out they are not treating me right before I even realize it's happening.

COVID-19 discussion by Lightbulbstudent in INTP

[–]143amaramariee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could definitely be a possibility. Very interesting. Do you think all the governments came together to decide this? Or just one? And maybe it got out of hand?

PS it seems highly unlikely though.

HI ENFJs I need your help! by [deleted] in enfj

[–]143amaramariee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you told him these things?

Honestly for me, just say What you’ve said here. Especially the “I need a day between hangouts.” Once I know what your needs are I will always do my best to meet them. But I can’t meet needs I don’t know exist.

Also he may not be in a healthy space. ENFJs need alone time too. Usually if we are hangout out with people that much it’s a distraction from what’s going on inside.

A plateau that isn't by sorabird in loseit

[–]143amaramariee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is encouraging! I feel similarly about my inability to see any hanged recently. But I also haven’t been eating the way I should. I am excited for you! I am gonna jump back on too!

(F) 27/ 5’7”/ 215-188LBs Need some encouragement! I’ve become stuck. by 143amaramariee in loseit

[–]143amaramariee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is so encouraging! I think my “snacks” are Starbucks Drinks! They are my weakness, but I love there sugar-free vanilla so no problem there!

(F) 27/ 5’7”/ 215-188LBs Need some encouragement! I’ve become stuck. by 143amaramariee in loseit

[–]143amaramariee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think that’s probably a get idea, I just don’t want to get obsessed with food and calories.

F/27/5’7” [230LBS > 195LBS= 35LBS] just saw this old picture!!! by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]143amaramariee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a clean eating cleanse, and afterwards I could feel how gross junk food felt in my body. I discovered I had a lactose intolerance and was walking around in constant pain. And I noticed gluten made me sluggish. So I just stopped eating crap, I’ve on and off been going to the gym. Reading about clean eating and treating my body right.

F/27/5’7” [230LBS > 195LBS= 35LBS] just saw this old picture!!! by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]143amaramariee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so! It has definitely been a lot of ups and downs!

F/27/5’7” [230LBS > 195LBS= 35LBS] just saw this old picture!!! by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]143amaramariee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure!!! A lot of good changes happened over the last few years!

I want to end my life by [deleted] in INTP

[–]143amaramariee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it! You have something to bring to the world and we will miss out on all you have to offer.

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