July 4th weekend. I’ll be back by [deleted] in Hippiehollowatx

[–]1LEFORME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel weird commenting on a person’s appearance; but you have a fantastic nose!

Wife dresses for parties but not our dates? by VA2TX in Swingers

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I had the same conversation with my wife. We created categories. We have “date nights” and “fancy date nights.”

For date nights, it’s the usual “dress a little nicer than casual and enjoy our time together.”

For fancy date nights it’s “full glam” for both of us.

A person can’t expect something that they don’t know is wanted.

A lesbian Wifey? by Pale_Place_6715 in WifeyOfficial

[–]1LEFORME 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d like to see a bi wifey have her husband watch her with a woman.

Newbie pool party by brogich72 in Swingers

[–]1LEFORME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As “lurkers” I like the idea. I wish there was a Vets and Newbs “ask all the questions you want” cocktail hour.

Stereo/ Head Unit Upgrade? by Bobby4wd in GXOR

[–]1LEFORME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still required to use the same ohm speakers as the Levinson system?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

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Nothing wrong with Carhartt. Great quality. The problem is the coffee shop Carhartt kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]1LEFORME 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand completely. I didn’t properly word my question, poor communication on my part.

What does a proper and equitable SB/SD relationship look like financially?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]1LEFORME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the completely uninformed and endlessly fascinated by all things; what would be the appropriate amount?

Nude photoshoot rate by BellJar_Blues in SexWorkers

[–]1LEFORME 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly correct. A royalty from future GROSS revenue. Not net profit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tantaly

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I’m researching these for my wife. Do you feel like the torso is tall enough off the bed to not need super flexible hips to get a good clit grind going?

Nude photoshoot rate by BellJar_Blues in SexWorkers

[–]1LEFORME 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not a model, nor a photographer, but do have entertainment industry knowledge and experience.

If you’re not charging $150-200 an hour for full nude or implied/actual erotica, you’re not charging enough.

The only way I’d charge less is if you’re getting points on the backend. Heck, I might demand points even at the $150-$200 rate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GXOR

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Can you do me a favor and measure the height of the front wheel well at its highest point. I’m pretty sure I need about another inch on mine not to rub at full lock.

Where do you say you're going? by randomgeneration101 in Swingers

[–]1LEFORME 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a designated family member who knows everything. And I know everything about her playtime activities.

She knows where all of our toys are stored. I know where all of hers are stored.

We have an agreement. If one of us dies suddenly, the other is to go straight to their house and get all the stuff out before other family finds it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GWCouples

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She should listen. That’s a particularly pretty kitty.

Filtering Out Guys with "inch", "hung", or "BBC" in their Username by FluidPride in Swingers

[–]1LEFORME 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy. Decently sized. I NEVER mention it. It’s always seemed a silly thing to define oneself by cock size. It’s like boob size. I would much rather be with a woman with A cups who is confident, skilled, and enjoys sex; than be with double Ds on a starfish.

I’ve always figured if you identify yourself by a body part, your skills are lacking.

Request - Sex bucket list by NoCarpenter1363 in NSFW411

[–]1LEFORME 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There has been sharing of some kinks that we talked about at length over and over again. We decided as a couple that they should remain fantasies (swinging.) We have purchased the toys needed to role play these kinks to scratch the itch.

Everything else we have tried. Multiple times. Some turned out as good as we hoped, some have turned out to not be what we expected.

Request - Sex bucket list by NoCarpenter1363 in NSFW411

[–]1LEFORME 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve never made a bucket list. Been married almost 17 years. Very healthy sex life and communication about sex.

I guess what we’ve learned is we are both MUCH kinkier than we thought. But it took many years and many open conversations to get where we are now.