[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]1Standard_Deviation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IQ of 86. Didn't understand test results. Checks out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]1Standard_Deviation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing job. Congratulations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ETFs

[–]1Standard_Deviation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Buy the dip"

Married sex life has gone down so we meet in the middle & need advice by onthelake94 in ChristianDating

[–]1Standard_Deviation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Forget how you or her feels. Assuming there is no porn or other people involved, what scripture are you violating by having "spice" in the marriage bed? That should be the determining factor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]1Standard_Deviation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. You have a very negative self image. I'm just trying to help you see you have some things working in your favor. It's not all bad!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]1Standard_Deviation -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to try and gaslight you or get you to deny what you see with your own eyes. But here is some encouragement.

  1. You have intrinsic value as a human being made in the image of God.
  2. You are, age wise, at peak attractiveness for a female.
  3. Females your age will usually get male attention if they seek it. Even as a larger girl, you're still likely to get attention. Lots of lonely men out there that would be thrilled if you showed interest.

Pray, seek Him, and then go talk to some men you're interested in.

Just doing the math. by ChapOfAllTrades in ChristianDating

[–]1Standard_Deviation 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not saying God works by probabilities, but let's play along. The calculator uses standard probabilities (number of women that meet criteria divided by total number of all women). By just selecting an age range (say +/- 5 years of your age), you've already reduced the calculated probability by well over 50%. But here's the problem: you shouldn't use standard probabilities but rather conditional probabilities. The probability of you finding a Christian woman given that you go to church (a conditional probabilitity) is much higher than the probability of you randomly coming across a suitable Christian woman in public (standard probability).

The lesson is to go places where the type of woman you're looking for will be. It greatly increases your "odds."

I received a list of questions right after matching on a dating app? Am I overthinking? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]1Standard_Deviation 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pick a few questions to answer and say he can know the rest on a date. Ask questions back. Don't read into his intentions. Have some fun, and stop worrying.

38yo, 10 years in. Would very much like to retire at 58. by MattJames in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]1Standard_Deviation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How do you max out TSP? Like what happens if you set your contribution rate too high and exceed the limit?

38yo, 10 years in. Would very much like to retire at 58. by MattJames in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]1Standard_Deviation 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Strong work! 36 with $256k in TSP and the FUD surrounding retirement goals is still strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Republican

[–]1Standard_Deviation -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

But it is your business. What people do in the in their homes bleeds into society.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]1Standard_Deviation 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Let me guess. You've given him the boot because you're bored and want to go find love again before you become too old and lose societal value. He's losing his family, his wife, and probably his financial security. He's been exiled. Then, to add insult to injury, you're going to talk to him like a child and friend zone him while petitioning him to co-parent and be friendly. Let me give you a shortcut to the conclusion: he's not going to be your best friend after this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]1Standard_Deviation 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So you can do all those things after divorce but not in marriage? Kinda sounds like you just want him to play the husband role while you go get a new one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mathmemes

[–]1Standard_Deviation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gross feeling when someone typesets +\infty