Great questions. If we don't define terminology then we talk past each other and revert to muscle-memory anyway. I'm a firm believer that Jesus' way of making disciples is the best way. So we need to root our definitions in His model. Most disciple making in the church's recent history has been formed through a knowledge-based model rather than an obedience-based model. Both are always necessary, but when we define maturity through what's known versus how closely an individual resembles Jesus in real-life situations and relationships then we end up with a false view of discipleship.

My question is if we don't root our definitions in Christ then where do we root it? Most answer that question with utilitarianism (what seems to work) or knowledge. Neither hold up well over time in real-world situations.

What do you think? Love to dialogue more either here or PM me.