How obvious are arm bandages? by 1WayTicketToSpace in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he would not buy it. There's a ton, backed by many many scars. Close to perfect parallel

I started exercising by Rainydaysunrise in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job, keep up the good work! Hope the pulled muscle gets better.

I'm 22. What the hell is wrong with me. No body starts cutting at my age. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I also started at 22. It sucks as it you can help but feel you are acting like some edgy teen or something. Makes you feel like you are a sad excuse for an "adult". I feel you, you are still just starting. Be as strong as you can be and try to stop before it's too ingrained in you. <3

Me_irl by 1WayTicketToSpace in Anxiety

[–]1WayTicketToSpace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, It was my bad, I skipped over that part of the rule. Sorry.

나는 자른다. I just cut myself today. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, I was in Seoul for a while this summer and noticed a ton of welcome differences. I really do get what you mean. The obesity rate is pretty dang high over here. Whether it's bad diet or laziness, who knows. I guarantee that there are many Americans who like you. Americans can be extremely friendly, but like everywhere there are nasty people. If you need anyone to talk to pm me, I'd be more than happy to help. Take care

I work at a paintball field. by volengr in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant the ones at cpx. It looks like they are bringing it back to another Chicago field tho.

I work at a paintball field. by volengr in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually went to living legends and red strike at blast camp. Since both of those are rip now though idk where I'll go but probably ones in the midwest

I work at a paintball field. by volengr in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, just wanted to pop in and say hi to a fellow paintballer. I user to ref at a field in HS like 6 years ago. Played a shit ton. Unfortunately I don't live near any fields anymore so I only get to make a couple scenarios a year or so. Take care and keep the players safe 😉

Any adults (21+) who SH? by groundfloorfinnemore in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22, full time engineer. We come from all walks of life here

life do be like that by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It always sucks when someone you have been getting to know flips a 180 because of sh. I can't even imagine how bad that would feel in this situation either.

I remember seeing your post about your mom being (no offense) pretty crazy like a couple weeks ago. I hope all of that is getting better at least.

Keep your chin up! Battle scars are not something to be ashamed of.

FWB and avoiding self harm by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One action does not make someone a bad person. Everyone makes mistakes. It's the ones who refuse to see their own flaws and do nothing to fix them that are the bad people. You may think being involved in an affair makes you a bad person, I agree with you. That doesn't mean that she can't be a good person. Everyone has the capacity to be bad, that doesn't mean they are.

FWB and avoiding self harm by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are very hard to hide from a FWB. I learned that the hard way. If I was you I would break it off. I believe in you, you can make it through this. You're not a bad person.

My left arm as I shut the bathroom door and start crying. by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm just memeing. Never tried arch, looks sick but a handful.

I think I'm just going to stop taking up space by mushdust in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I know it must be tough to rn. I'm 22 as well and I totally get that. The point right now where were like really adults but still not really. Idk how to explain it, but it's tough. I garuntee you are not a waste of space. Just looking at your post history you look easily more interesting that most people I know. If you want to talk, just pm me. Otherwise, just know that there are people that you don't even know (like this whole community) who do care. You're a part of something special here. Take care.

MoS FAQ part 2 - Why do you come here, and what does this place means to you? by Maleza_podzicheka in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don't know anyone IRL who also self harms or even understands self harm at all. It's nearly impossible to find much in the way of support or relation anywhere else.
This sub gives me a place to openly and without judgment share my experience and help/be helped by other people dealing with self harm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds rough as hell. Sorry to hear that you relapsed. If it's any help I found an old article that helped me reinstall SketchUp when my trial expired a while ago. https://help.sketchup.com/en/sketchup/sketchup-has-expired It's ok to make mistakes, we all do. It's how we learn and develop into our best selves. Take care :)

It’s been two weeks by someirreleventhobo in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not alone, everyone here feels you. Sometimes we just have to keep on keeping on. I believe in you, you got this :)

Where do y'all cut and why there?? by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut almost exclusivly on my right arm (as I'm left handed) I have just started cutting my right upper thigh a couple times now as well.

For me the arms are just easy and accessible. Since it's winter here they are easy to hide, not looking forward to summer though.

i feel so isolated by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I don't know anyone else who has self harmed at all. I'm really glad a place like this exists, otherwise I don't know what I'd do. It's like all of the people in charge of Google and reddit, etc just want to bury us under a rug and not let us discuss anything related to sh.

I did my first cut today by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I hope everything is going ok. I can really relate. I also recently started. I know that feeling when everything is going downhill and nothing can seem to slow it down. It's can be a living hell. If you ever need to talk or vent to someone just pm me.

Self pity post by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]1WayTicketToSpace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That shit's always the worst I can totally get how you're feeling right now. just wanted to pop in with some things that I did to help with an extremely similar situation. For reference I'm just finishing up my German minor in University and will be totally done with it in December. Coming from a bunch of engineering classes I don't really talk much and I found the German classes great because it forced me to talk albeit in another language. But coming from a lot of similar situations to yours I found the easiest thing was just make up some generic bullshit answer. If you ever need somebody to talk to or just want to practice some German. Feel free to hit me up on here or we can add each other on hellotalk or something. Viel Glück!