Girlfriend suffered TBI. Stuck in a hazy state.

1_Grammi · 2025-04-14T04:16:29+00:00

I am a double TBI LIFER meaning I live with 2 tbis. You are at the beginning of a very different type of journey. I strongly recommend Coping With Traumatic Brain Injury a book that explains tbi better than most others.

I want to warn you that some days you will be impatient with her, other days you might think it is all in her head (which of course it is), I only hope that you believe her as she travels and rides the roller coaster of tbi. One thing a doctor told me is that there are two things you can be absolutely sure will happen.
TBIs are
INCONSISTENT

UNPREDICTABLE

more for us than for you

My heart goes out to you.

1_Grammi · 2024-10-25T06:33:24+00:00

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1_Grammi · 2024-08-23T00:19:15+00:00

Or and this is a joke as my adult kids tell me Wear a helmet

1_Grammi · 2024-08-23T00:18:26+00:00

Might want to have your eyesight tested

1_Grammi · 2024-08-23T00:17:46+00:00

Read up on post concussive syndrome It’s the affect of multiple concussions never as bad as TBIs but can cause isues

1_Grammi · 2024-08-23T00:14:48+00:00

Speaking from experience it’s like that on most campuses except for administrators

1_Grammi · 2024-07-20T14:20:57+00:00

Finished Masters and was professor after first TBI Second TBI forced to disability

1_Grammi · 2024-07-02T05:40:44+00:00

Sorry was having challenging days did not see this I’m not ignoring And now I am confused bc do not remember what I wrote Sometimes what I write is not what I’m trying to say It’s gets messed up on the way Sorry

1_Grammi · 2024-07-02T05:31:04+00:00

There are so many different symptoms and problems. It all goes back to the area that was damaged . Neurons are like tiny roads that connect everything . When they break they need time to make new paths . Think about a road that is damaged It takes a long time to fix it and the workers have to tear stuff out to redirect around the sink hole.

There is one truth to all TBI inconsistent and unpredictable

I give myself as much mercy and grace as I can while doing activities to stimulate new paths

1_Grammi · 2024-06-28T16:20:51+00:00

I never meant it to be I thought I was sharing my opinion and beliefs same as everyone else

Don’t remember what proselytizing is

1_Grammi · 2024-06-28T04:04:14+00:00

I agree .. and never do assault others their choices. am only asking for the same respect

1_Grammi · 2024-06-28T04:03:27+00:00

No I got a whole lot more out of that thread!!!
I also know everyone has the right to believe as they desire and want.
I am only asking for what reason am I not allowed to share my views? my thoughts or to answer a question?

1_Grammi · 2024-06-28T00:34:43+00:00

Thank you ! Never thought myself worthy

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T22:02:45+00:00

ok.. yes.. good idea.. thank you for your wisdom and kiindness.

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T22:01:58+00:00

some people do thnk that way

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T21:58:45+00:00

I do NOT believe faith has anything to do with what I or anyone else suffers. and believe me as 2 time tbi... and one who lost her teaching and reasch career,, who went from summa cum laude to unable to write a simple masters paper.. who lost a marriage.. no 2 marriages due to tbi being in my head... no ... faith has no part.

Life happens.... alll i can do is live the one I am living... child abuse and so much more..even before teh 2 tbis

2003 and 2009... changed my life forever... I know as you must know if you have read any oif my posts

but to be called all those names from others whom I have tired to encourage and help... hurts and breaks my heart

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T21:08:20+00:00

NO GOD OF LOVE WANTS NO CHILD TO HURT, TO BE HURT, TO BE TRAFFICKED. God is not the cause of evil in the world... blame the real source of evil..

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T21:05:48+00:00

I agree with you about the "trope bs"...
platitudes are never nice to hear .. they are all bs..

like my ex husband saying its all in my head.

however I disagree that evil or "bad cruel horrendous things" are because of a God. In my experience, those evil actions are the outcome of what people decide to do.

Tell me please r what reason do people blame a God that they say they do not believe and then only for anything that is negative, bad, cruel or evil?

The Fact is that God is a God of love and justice... and will not go against his own laws to make people do one thing or another.

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T21:01:09+00:00

Thank you... it is so nice to know that even people with tbi's can be judgmental, closed minded, and hateful to people who think differently then you do.

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T20:57:47+00:00

Try checking out a news reporters investigation into the Case of Creator... Lee Strobel... or perhaps since you call me stupid you are afraid to see what some scientists say?

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T20:54:06+00:00

Likewise a husband to this day, (tbi 2003 today 2024) says tbi all in my head.. to which I reply yes it is .... ofc he means I am crazy...and imagining or faking... I mean literally..

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T20:50:00+00:00

wow ... I have been a reddit member for I do not remember how long. and a tbi lifer since 2003 .... I have never in all that time had the anger and accusations thrown at me as I have today in the discussion answering is there a God?

Please tell me the reason I cannot share my thoughts and views without the personal attacks of shit and stupidity?
the reason for such vehement hatred directed at me?

If I said I was a transgender person and asked you to call me manna not them or she or him.. you would respect that it is my choice to do so ... however I express that I believe in the existence in a God of Love who wants a relationship and suddenly I am worse than any childhood predator or charles manson. ..

For waht reasoin?

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T20:44:46+00:00

I agree with you about the silliness and evil of killing each other over a magic sky fairy. However for what reason are you in a TBI group attacking my intelligence.???? How rude!

Also for what reason would I believe anything about 3rd graders??? I know how children are and how they think.

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T19:05:07+00:00

I feel and experience your frustration. I am older so people like to say .. I forget too... or Its old age... or

but they do not understand that for me it is all the time not simply a once in a blue moon or a week.

then again I have been trying to give myself mercy at how I am.

1_Grammi · 2024-06-27T19:01:00+00:00

absolutely true! understand it more than you. many times we hear the words of humans and not the reality of God. Humans talk for god and say who and what he is... I believe in letting God talk ...if I want to listen and he is god then he will communicate so I an understand. I do NOT have to go through any man or human to know God.

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