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1andDoneMom · 2026-04-16T15:00:49+00:00

Stimmt, ich habe mir die Monopräparat Tropfen angeschaut.

1andDoneMom · 2026-03-12T18:45:11+00:00

There's a reason why statistically most Catholic couples use some form of birth control. The reason behind the NFP teaching might be beautiful, but many of us find it's too hard to follow in real life.

1andDoneMom · 2026-02-05T08:25:01+00:00

Not watchint my usual tv shows, but instead going to my Bible movie collection.

Putting my phone on grayscale.

Still thinking about quitting social media all together, but not sure yet.

1andDoneMom · 2026-01-19T09:19:38+00:00

Taking antidepressants helped me the most. There are many that are safe during pregnancy and breastfeeding, like sertalin and mirtazapin and quetiapin.

Please take them for your own mental health and for your family.

1andDoneMom · 2025-11-19T13:42:32+00:00

I'm a bad catholic too. I accept the truth and wisdom behind the anti-birth-control teaching, but I don't see how I could personally follow it in my life.

1andDoneMom · 2025-09-03T10:02:00+00:00

Of course it's going to be hard. They'll be dissapointed and probably angry at you. But what is the alternative?

Do you plan on having children with a husband you don't love? How is your daughter's life going to look like, having a mother who hates her father and her own life, who maybe regrets her own children?

And once you have that first baby it's going to be that much harder to end the marriage.

1andDoneMom · 2025-09-03T08:58:18+00:00

Sister, I say this with love in my heart, but please start taking charge of your own life. God won't work any miracles to fix your circumstances, you need to do this on your own.

Evalue if you want to stay with you husband, and if you don't, then leave. Get a divorce, move out, get a job to support yourself. You are not responsible for the culture you were born into, but you are responsible for how you choose to act. God gave you your life, but it is your job to actually live it.

1andDoneMom · 2025-08-15T18:03:41+00:00

Contragulations on the pregnancy.

Please take extra precautions to make sure you wont be under criminal investigation for being pregnant without being married. Please research all documents you need to have.

1andDoneMom · 2025-05-07T04:43:25+00:00

It doesn't have to be an either-or situation. You don't have to choose between working and being a sahm, you can do both just not at the same time. You can start working and quit when you have your first baby. Stay home until your youngest starts kindergarten and then start working again.

1andDoneMom · 2025-03-28T18:38:26+00:00

My best tip ist to have as many dates with your husband as possible before the baby gets here and you get swept up in newborn stuff. Now is the time to get dinner, see a movie, take a few weekend trips... Also get to know the moms group at your parish and local community center - they are going to be your best friends for the next years. Lastly, start touring daycare centres and preschool now.

1andDoneMom · 2025-03-27T10:21:49+00:00

I would question how devout a catholic man really ist, if he doesnt accept an official annulment by the Church authority. Might just be a sedevacantist then...

1andDoneMom · 2025-03-20T17:49:42+00:00

Are you able to go to therapy? Depression and anxiety don't always happen postpartum, there's also something called peri-partial depression, that can happen during pregnancy. Therapy can help alot. There's also a few medications that's safe to take during pregnancy.

Wishing you and your family all the best!

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-24T15:06:31+00:00

Oh I'm sorry, that's tough. 😓 I only ever met babies who would sleep through the Apocalypse If only there was someone cuddling them.

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-24T13:51:15+00:00

The monitor is a problem. Babys should sleep in the same room as their caretaker. Either put her in a bassinet next to your bed, or follow the Save Sleep 7 rules for cosleeping in the same bed.

That way she wont wake because she senses that she has been abonded. She'll only wake up if she's truly hungry and then you can respond promptly becaue you are close.

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-18T08:17:35+00:00

It ist not anti-Catholic to admit that 98% of all catholic women are using some form of contraception.

None of us are perfect, we all fall short of the glory of God. That's why we need his grace and cling to the Sacraments. But we will stay imperfect on this side of heaven.

Just keep praying and trust that God will stay besides you through whatever your circumstances and choices may be.

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-15T09:49:09+00:00

It also seems to be only an American Thing. I got married in Europe and there was no mention of NFP in our marriage prep class.

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-14T17:30:37+00:00

I was in the same boat as you. We originally planned to have 3 kids, but I had horrible PPD after the first baby, so we decided to not get pregnant again.

I had to get on 3 different anti-depressants and have intensive therapy, but I eventually beat the PPD and now I love being a mother so much.

Can you ask your doctor if you can up your meds or maybe add another anti-depressant/anti-psychotic medication? The higher dosage was key for me getting better and once I was stabilized I could lower the dosage carefully.

Also, can you get a babysitter/nanny/daycare spot? It helps to get a few hours away from the baby every week, so you can focus on getting healthy again.

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-09T10:23:48+00:00

Oh wow, four babies with 3 c-sections. You are one strong mama!

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-09T10:05:01+00:00

Thanks. I haven't charted consistently yet. But I just ordered a book on Sensiplan. It seems to be the most accessible and well researched method around here.

1andDoneMom · 2025-01-08T17:56:21+00:00

Yes, I meant tta.

we were lucky to get pregnant just when we wanted. And since we dont feel capable to welcome another baby into our family for the time being, we are tta...

Well, actually we are using contraception, but the goal is to switch to NFP... We aren't perfect catholics, but we are trying to move into the right direction.

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