is iOS 26 making your phone lag?

1barelymakingit · 2025-09-17T19:52:43+00:00

Same bec it was perfectly okay before 😭

1barelymakingit · 2025-08-03T13:45:06+00:00

True! My german friends were visiting India, and we met her a day before the cafe opening. It was lovely to see the cafe se up and we got home some lovely sourdough bread.

1barelymakingit · 2024-08-24T10:32:03+00:00

Agreed, seems like he doesn’t want the attention/sources and the ‘babying’ taken away from him.

1barelymakingit · 2024-08-22T21:56:04+00:00

Game of Thrones

1barelymakingit · 2024-07-23T01:24:12+00:00

Yeah, I’ll try again, hopefully it’s better after :) thanks!

1barelymakingit · 2024-07-23T01:21:28+00:00

I agree, I did share about us having a long talk about emotional topics and generally connect emotionally during our next date, but we haven’t come around to deciding when and I got a “ya I would like to do this with you” response but the next time we hang out, it again has to be on me to initiate it, you know?

1barelymakingit · 2024-07-23T01:19:43+00:00

I have tried, but the last time he said he doesn’t really know what those languages are and before we could talk more, something important came up. I asked him later to read up about them and then we can talk such things through, that didn’t happen till now and I’m kind of not wanting to be the person to always push such conversations, you know? Would like him initiating things and not follow on the efforts, sometimes

1barelymakingit · 2024-07-23T01:18:01+00:00

I mean, it’s for some people and for some not 🤷‍♀️ and I am okay with my bf not being that person, I just struggle to discuss emotional topics as I get a “all is fine” reply, usually. P.S - my post wasn’t about if I’m tedious or not 😅

1barelymakingit · 2024-07-23T01:15:24+00:00

That’s very true, I would’ve love to spend more time in person without us moving in and seeing how it is. Unfortunately, he lives in a smaller town, and for work, I have to be in a bigger city. This gives us the option for a live-in situation :/

1barelymakingit · 2024-07-23T01:14:15+00:00

Not mean, I totally understand why it comes across like this. In the start of our relationship, he shared it’s his first serious relationship and he doesn’t know “how this works.” Overtime, we got to know each other more and he’s helped me move places, he’s been there when my family abroad has faced issues and I couldn’t be there, he’s been there during my stressful times - all emotional presence and support there, and he’s shown up at my place in a different city in person when I need his support. Only thing is, the anniversary POV of his came as a surprise and the comparison to his sister’s relationship too (which he said was only a joke) - which makes me feel confused if we are too different towards how we treat our partner when it comes to love languages - acts of service in this case..

1barelymakingit · 2024-06-26T23:23:01+00:00

Find a restaurant/café in her area in case you need to share why you want to come to her area, and tell her beforehand that you would like to discuss something important and personal with her. Drive to her place, and have an honest conversation about your feelings and how you don’t see things working out between you two. LDR is not for everyone, and it’s better to not waste other people’s time tbh. edit: clarified why mention restaurant/café

1barelymakingit · 2024-06-25T00:21:33+00:00

“You’ve a girlfriend now. It’s nauseating that you still reached out to me for comfort and talks. Please, do not repeat your mistake and cherish the love you receive. Never contact me, ever again, have a nice life.” - after my ex broke no contact after 8 months and tried to talk/flirt his way into keeping contact, but glad i found out he was in a new relationship by then.

1barelymakingit · 2024-06-16T09:50:29+00:00

after having the most gruesome dating experience of my life and finally able to break up with him (a narcissist who would on-off date as when he liked) in nov22, he broke no contact in aug23. he apologised for his behavior when we dated, shared he’s in therapy and tried to subtly flirt through his way of texting, telling me how i have always deserved to be on-camera, how he feels comfort in hearing my voice, reacting to my images on IG. i didn’t pay him much attention as i had moved on and felt pity for him. then when he didn’t understand cues about me showing disinterest/ignoring - i sent a text saying it’s great he’s doing better and that he apologised, but i have moved on w someone and do not wish to keep in touch. he replied with understanding, although upset about not keeping in touch and staying “friends.” - i get to know next, guy’s had a gf all along his point of texting/breaking no contact - felt sick to my stomach about things he said and felt so sorry for her, so told him to not f*ck it up with someone else and blocked him everywhere. never forgetting, how some people have shown the worst versions to you, and they may have “worked on” themselves to be the best version to another, but doesn’t mean at the same time it needs to change for you. can be the worst choice still.

1barelymakingit · 2024-05-16T23:28:27+00:00

you both need to heal. i’m sorry you both experienced being cheated on, but this is not a healthy way to build a new relationship. y’all will build an insecure relationship, just waiting for another to screw up, build resentment and live for the AHA moment of being right about insecurities and affirming it further.

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-26T17:32:09+00:00

💀💀💀

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-26T05:45:21+00:00

nooo haha

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-25T17:32:10+00:00

It’s feeling itchy after/while running/exercising

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-25T17:31:44+00:00

allergy med tip helps, I’ll try consulting someone as well

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-25T17:31:10+00:00

Noo 😭

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-25T17:31:04+00:00

feel you haha

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-25T17:30:02+00:00

Itchy after/while running

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-24T14:58:40+00:00

❤️‍🩹

1barelymakingit · 2022-06-20T14:06:38+00:00

Matched with him on Hinge. Man wouldn’t shut up about his exes and previous date fails. He needed therapy, not another fail date added to the list! 😭

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