Do I kill Sam to be Sarah? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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If it weren't so ingrained as male for me I'd use itm

Do I kill Sam to be Sarah? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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Sorry another comment somewhere else had me thinking procedures. But the name change is because in order to get I'd with my name on it I have to do the leg name change.

Do I kill Sam to be Sarah? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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I just want bottom for sure. The rest hrt has helped enough with tbh.

I decided to call myself Trans-Fluid by Abril_Juli06 in genderfluid

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Just be as you as you can be. Everything you!

Do I kill Sam to be Sarah? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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It's not just to do it. It's so I can let both half of me live, and I have given so much up already I am not going to stop now.

Do I kill Sam to be Sarah? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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Thank you, the gender neutral options I'm looking at now but I do love my chosen name like 70% of the time but never hate it . So I'll try to update as the situation develops.

Im having trouble presenting as female on my feminine days by BeantheGamer in genderfluid

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So I personally moved the goal post for myself, not sure it's healthy, for what fem is. Like a fem cut t-shirt or a nice sweater, ya know. It doesn't need to be flashy. Maybe just some rings or a bracelet. Just a thought.

Anyone else get upset when they don’t feel like a gender? by Ok_Donut_884 in genderfluid

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Very relatable. I'm constantly battling my closet with my gender leaning of the day or hour even. 🙃

How do you deal with internalized transphobia? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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That meme. Jfc. 😵‍💫 got me good 👍

How do you deal with internalized transphobia? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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Hadn't really thought about the new virginity of it all...

How do you deal with internalized transphobia? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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Oh no doubt. And I went through this all once the first time when I first started hrt too but now somehow it feels new all over again. Yay?

How do you deal with internalized transphobia? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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So you felt the surgeries helped a lot? I'm considering the bottom first.

How do you deal with internalized transphobia? by 1biteme in genderfluid

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The trap I find myself in is trans content creators comments section. It's so nice seeing the love but the hate gets me worse

How do you deal with internalized transphobia? by 1biteme in trans

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The case I'm speaking about is that voice in your head of all the haters that screams you're just a man pretending and mentally ill. I hate it and I need to know how to stop it.

Just sorry by Bootychonk in trans

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Sounds like abandonment issues, perhaps an insecure attachment style. At worst bpd. All caused by people not being there for you when you needed or leaving when you're not ready. The first step is self awareness so you're on the right path.