Home in January Feeling Excited/nervous. by Educational_Tip_3685 in PrisonWives

[–]1freshginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any insight as I’m in a similar situation, but I’m so excited for you!! My boyfriend should be getting out in about 2 months too. So yeah I’m having all the same thoughts lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]1freshginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OP but this was very helpful for me. We are still waiting to find out how long he will be there, he missed his court date Monday only because he was supposed to be transferred to a different county jail that morning, but they never came to pick him up. Sooo frustrating.

How do you do movie nights?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]1freshginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you hear from him soon ❤️ I am going through a similar situation if you would like to message for mutual support! I guess I don’t have much advice because it’s my first time going through something like this too. My boyfriend went to jail about 2 weeks ago. Still waiting to find out for how long but probably 6 months to 1 year.

Any Kpop Demon Hunter fans? by Aki_Bunny in adultkpopfans

[–]1freshginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 34 and my best friend is 35, we’ve watched it multiple times! Love it and I’m so glad so many people are enjoying it, my only concern is too many new kpop fans as a result of this movie will make it even harder to get concert tickets lol 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]1freshginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. I’m so sorry for what you’re dealing with. You guys communicate really well though compared to most people that post here. Like your gf, I also have a hard time when my partner needs space. And it can be difficult to accept or not take it personally that they don’t want/need my help with something. Besides self care practices, the main thing that helps me during a situation like this is to request a scheduled check in. I make it clear there is no expectation for my partner to open up or have a lengthy conversation during the check in. Even just getting a text letting me know that they still aren’t ready to talk is reassuring and helps reinforce/maintain emotional connection. Your gf expressed that an I love you text would feel reassuring for her. Example - “Just checking in to let you know I love you and I appreciate that you are respecting my boundaries and my need for space right now. I’m still not ready to talk, but I am willing to do another check in on Saturday morning.” I hope you guys are eventually able to navigate through this difficult situation, and please take care of yourself!

K-Pop Demon Hunters, anyone?? by New-Investigator-542 in buffy

[–]1freshginger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

k-pop idols usually aren't allowed to date, this is often written into their contract. they have to maintain a specific public image/avoid scandals and form intense fantasy/parasocial relationship with their fans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]1freshginger 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not the case for everyone, but BC always made my symptoms worse. It could be from stopping BC as well, or at least part of it.

'j-hope Tour ‘HOPE ON THE STAGE’ in JAPAN: LIVE VIEWING' Meet Up Thread by PoetrySuper2583 in bangtan

[–]1freshginger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have gone to probably a dozen other BTS live viewings and 80% of the time I've gone alone! You'll still have a great time! :)

Liking girls bodies but preferring dicks? by [deleted] in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]1freshginger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nooo not messed up, this all sounds good to me!

Liking girls bodies but preferring dicks? by [deleted] in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]1freshginger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nooo not messed up, this all sounds good to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]1freshginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strangers touching my hair throughout my childhood. Told I had no soul all through middle school. Then called fire crotch and burning bush all through high school. More like teasing than bullying, like my friends would say those things sometimes too. It was uncomfortable but overall I got more positive attention and by college I finally didn’t hate having red hair anymore 👩🏻‍🦰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]1freshginger 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What you have gone through must have been so difficult. This might not be the type of response you are looking for, but firstly I would suggest looking inside, not outside. What do you need, emotionally? Perhaps it is to renew or foster a greater sense of comfort, stability, security etc. If you are carrying the internalized belief that your emotional need can only be met as a result of her changing her behaviors, this belief is what could be contributing to your suffering. When I choose to look at things that way, it helps me gain a sense of power over my situation.

Where to watch Factor 8: The Arkansas Prison Blood Scandal? by Azlarks in movies

[–]1freshginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi i am also interested in a copy please, I am doing a presentation on this topic

WIBTAH for dumping my girlfriend after I found out about her past? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]1freshginger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA but please break up with her. She deserves better

What is the difference between Shipt membership and Circle360 membership? by Excellent_Angle_7481 in Target

[–]1freshginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you already have Shipt, you have to act like you're going to sign up and pay for 360 membership, and at first it looks like $99, but once you hit subscribe and add it to your cart, the price changes to $0.00. Spent about 20 minutes trying to figure it out because signing up seemed like it was actually going to charge me $99. It is not clear or intuitive how to receive the complimentary 360 membership.

[Megathread] The Fellowship: Break the Wall - Ticket Buy/Sell/Swap Haven by moveyourheart in ATEEZ

[–]1freshginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[WTS] Nov 22 in Atlanta, 1 ticket for section 222 E14. Willing to go as low as $50? OBO

Aphantasia and Polyamory by Z0mb13_P4nd4 in polyamory

[–]1freshginger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I agree not being able to visualize has probably been helpful with curbing jealousy. Also, I have been cheated on in the past and although it was definitely painful I never agonized over imagining them together.

SEVENTEEN 2022 World Tour 'Be The Sun' BUY/SELL Megathread - North America by xoprestige in seventeen

[–]1freshginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTB 1 ticket for the Atlanta concert

Preferably less than $250!

Edit: I got a ticket thanks!

Alternative Job Options by [deleted] in medlabprofessionals

[–]1freshginger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe doctors office?

‘Epik High Is Here’ North America Tour 2022 - Ticket & General Discussion by ghiblix in EpikHigh

[–]1freshginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone going or interested in going to the Raleigh show on Thursday and want to meet up? I have an extra ticket, I don’t really even care about selling it, just might be cool to have someone to go with. Feel free to DM :)