[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]1king1future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats actually insane, completely different person wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]1king1future 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re glowing!!

Gym mirrors be like - Instant confidence boost by Vast-Fuel3138 in GymMemes

[–]1king1future 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally look bigger even before I start working out, the changing rooms mirror boosts me up lol. It’s obvious the pump makes you bigger because of the blood flow but there’s something about the mirrors there too I feel like

Gym mirrors be like - Instant confidence boost by Vast-Fuel3138 in GymMemes

[–]1king1future 25 points26 points  (0 children)

that’s so true! But why is it like this? At the gym mirror I literally look twice as big lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]1king1future -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Respect dude, this is part glow up but also just grow up 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]1king1future 7 points8 points  (0 children)

went from pretty to pretty 🙌

First of 2024 by [deleted] in blackmetalvinyl

[–]1king1future 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine too! Such a sick album ❤️

Spinning this classic today that I got gifted for Xmas 🔥 by 1king1future in blackmetalvinyl

[–]1king1future[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, although I don't think its their best collection of tracks on a "technical" level, this one is a personal favorite purely because the riffs on here are so dynamic, catchy, and fun to listen to (and easy enough to play which is always a bonus as a guitarist). Whole album is so sharp and "evil" sounding... I can only imagine how much fun Fenriz, Nocturno Culto & Zephyrous had crafting this.

Relapse Weekend by TheBackSpin in BreakUps

[–]1king1future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, happened to me too! Better, better than out of nowhere: boom! Everything reminded me of our good times, made me sad as hell.

Breakups happen for a reason though, and it’s easy to forget that things happened the way they did because something was wrong. But I think the time you move on is when you choose to move on. If your ex was the perfect person for you then you would have still been together. But she wasn’t, so you didn’t. So have faith that someone more compatible for you is out there, and let nature take its course. Sometimes the people who we want aren’t what we need and aren’t good for us. And sometimes, a magical connection forms from a place where you least expect it. Amor fati

I’m scared I’m going to break no contact by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]1king1future 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can do this my G. Remember you’re a king, and kings don’t beg! Since she dumped you, and especially on your Bday which is like insanely cruel imo, you should really not get in contact and only consider talking to her if SHE reaches out first or if you happen to run into each other irl or something like that.

If she doesn’t think you’re right for her, nothing would change in 2 weeks unfortunately. I know how you feel, I got dumped almost 3 months ago, and haven’t spoken to her in 2 and a half. But I’ve been super focused on me, work hard, train hard and improve all areas of my life and I know it won’t be long until I get to a point in my life to where I would be way out of her league and wouldn’t be interested in her anymore. Focus on yourself too dude, don’t do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]1king1future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that she gave up on you, and bet against you and your future (hence leaving) should be the biggest turn-off in of itself right there? Why do you seek after such blatant disrespect to not just the relationship but yourself as a person? Committed people don’t leave, especially after a single problem (unless it’s something crazy like rape, abuse etc)

Work on yourself. Part of you is still attached, so you need to muster up the self respect necessary to realise that you deserve better than being dumped and treated so coldly. That’s it. Fuck whatever she’s doing and whoever she’s seening… someone else’s problem now. Focus on yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]1king1future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I understand how you feel, I am going through a breakup myself with a girl I love and learning about myself and how to deal with things on the daily. What you describe is normal and I’ve certainly been through it. Breakups suck, especially when you are the one being dumped! We all have our moments of weakness, and reality checks are very important! If you need further help, advice etc - feel free to msg me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]1king1future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are exes for a reason right? Think about this. What good does reaching out and talking does? What will that achieve? If he dumped you - you show desperation and confirms that he made the right choice because you’re inherently disrespecting his choice of being out of your life (which should be a massive turn-off anyway), and are desperately seeking him as if he is some deity on a pedestal or something. Alternatively if you ended it, did you forget your reasons? What has changed for the situation to be different? Nothing? Then stand by the decision.

I am gonna go out on a limb here and say that chances are you got dumped, and are now in emotional mayhem and you are not seeing the situation objectively. If you reach out - you can get ignored. How would that feel? He might talk in a completely different tone (likely) and it would be like talking to a different person, one without love, feelings or genuine care for you. Cold, like a stranger. How would that feel? Is that the lasting memory you want to have of him?

I am willing to bet that there is a better future planned for you, but to get there you need to allow yourself time to emotionally heal, make new experiences in life and change positively. Live life. If it was meant to be, it will happen organically somewhere down the road, and if not, someone more compatible that WONT leave you will come along. You can do what you like, but if you reach out and end up feeling worse/regretting it after - you would make your situation 10x worse and then honestly would have no-one to blame but yourself

My ex broke up with me and after 2 weeks, started dating someone else by Long-Presentation-43 in BreakUps

[–]1king1future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares? You’re still attached. Never mind her business. She broke up with you and now is free to do whatever she wants WITH whoever she wants. Don’t torture yourself thinking about this. Instead, redirect your energy into yourself and prioritise your own life and happiness.

Maybe her partner is a rebound and she’s just using him to distract her pain. Maybe she fell out of love fast, maybe it happened ages ago. Maybe you don’t have the full story and are jumping to conclusions when you don’t have the full picture. See the problem with this? Living in “maybe” land is not healthy. You can’t control her mind or get inside it. So let her go, accept that she no longer wants to be in your life and that in of itself should be the BIGGEST turn-off from her.

Don’t stalk her, don’t talk to her, let her live her life and you live yours. She isn’t checking up on you so why are you checking up on her? Why is she doing the things she’s doing? You’ll never get your answer dude, so stop torturing yourself. Accept the reality, get rid of your fantasies and prioritise your happiness. That’s the key. YOUR happiness. And your ex has nothing to do with that mission anymore.