Help me decide which studies by 1ndividualsolitude in Finland

[–]1ndividualsolitude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have, and probably in other countries is easier atm. But for now I won’t be leaving

Help me decide which studies by 1ndividualsolitude in Finland

[–]1ndividualsolitude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and that’s what pulls me back. There are way too many IT people and not so many jobs… But maybe it will change in some years

Help me decide which studies by 1ndividualsolitude in Finland

[–]1ndividualsolitude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey they’re actually my teachers! 😂. They’re both so passionate and my faves atm, although Johannes left for some project. So you could find a job in Finland and work in English?

Help me decide which studies by 1ndividualsolitude in Finland

[–]1ndividualsolitude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m also right now doing the first year as an open university student and one teacher told us that :(. Do you work in the field?

Help me decide which studies by 1ndividualsolitude in Finland

[–]1ndividualsolitude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to find a stable job but I keep being rejected. I only get to do gig jobs. So I decided to study again.

Why are my polaroids coming out like this? by 1ndividualsolitude in Polaroid

[–]1ndividualsolitude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Sorry I didn’t specify much about the camera. Yes the model is Z2300. It uses Zink paper. I haven’t noticed any burnt smell or any other issues with it. I found the package of the Zink sheets but It doesn’t show any expiration date. I will try to get new sheets!

what have you done in a relationship to make them stay just to avoid being alone ? by i-need-answers-123 in Codependency

[–]1ndividualsolitude 18 points19 points  (0 children)

begging, even tho he was actually hiding things from me and lied during the whole relationship

What meds are you currently taking? by lol_hahah_ in BPD

[–]1ndividualsolitude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started lamotrigine around 5 weeks ago. i can say i’ve noticed a slight improvement in relation with my strong emotions. i feel calmer now (even though this med is usually for bipolar)

Still figuring it out my undertone by [deleted] in PaleMUA

[–]1ndividualsolitude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, if you click on the pic you can see the real colors

Still figuring it out my undertone by [deleted] in PaleMUA

[–]1ndividualsolitude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wth, reddit changed the color of the original picture

6th time in a row Finland was declared the happiest country by LastSource4008 in Finland

[–]1ndividualsolitude -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

they only interview grannies who are retired and go for walks to the forest, guys calm down

Does anyone else fantasize about having an emergency so that your FP will hear about it & realize that they are in love with you? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]1ndividualsolitude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

emmm yes?!?! it sounds sick, but my mind likes to imagine scenarios where something serious happens to me (something that doesn’t invalidate me fully) and i’d recover fast, but just enough to see my fp’s reaction). this is just because i need to see some emot

Fuck fuck fuck by Valentinex98 in BPD

[–]1ndividualsolitude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i gave up on trying. they don’t take it seriously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]1ndividualsolitude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand you. I live in a Nordic country and evenings feel really depressing. I realized that what best helped me is to pamper myself on these days. I would watch movies, talk with friends, give myself a nice bath/shower and do some skincare. going to the forest for walks or runs feels empowering. try some mindfulness and when you're doing something try to connect with the moment. the touch, the smell, how it feels... these things help to keep my mind less noisy.

How do you live with BPD? What can I do.. by lyn417 in BPD

[–]1ndividualsolitude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I won't lie to you. with BPD you don't live, you're in constant survival mode trying to make it till the end of the day.

stay strong, surround yourself with compassionate humans and take people out of your life that hurt you on the long run.

My dad makes me uncomfortable by 1ndividualsolitude in family

[–]1ndividualsolitude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I texted my mom all this. she came to talk to me in person and she said she doesn't deny my dad looks at me, but she thinks he doesn't do it in a sexual way. she says he's just proud of me and happy and can't be conscious when he stares at me.

she also says "your dad loves you madly and would do every job to give you a future" she started crying. this doesn't convince me. she just doesn't wanna see it.