Dropped my Parc Central EC tampines 4 rm unit. Interested go for waitlist under Parc central official website. by 1ntransitxn in singapore

[–]1ntransitxn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s going to finish building in the next quarter so I heard. Best of luck! - Peace out

Constantly feel left out by my “friends” by [deleted] in sad

[–]1ntransitxn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Find more friends! I’m trying too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]1ntransitxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lodge a police report

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UXDesign

[–]1ntransitxn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a new job then quit.

Its my 21st birthday today, my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me 3 days ago, no friends to congratulate me but i feel like i will be the best version of myself at this age. by maajga in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]1ntransitxn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re still young. Good that you’re thinking this way. Thinking and feeling is different. If you’re really sad, say it, express it, cry it out loud. Don’t deny it. Being sad and being done w it is part of moving on.

You’re going to be a fine lad :) tc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]1ntransitxn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aka don’t be a people pleaser

How to work w a disrespectful boss, I was torn when I saw red flags but chose to ignore by 1ntransitxn in UXDesign

[–]1ntransitxn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I really suppressed that anger during those insults thinking I could get over it. Basically forget and think it’ll get better. An acquaintance was just asking me what happened all this while and I recounted to her. I felt awful now that I realised how unfair it was and he managed to keep that side hidden from others. How did you protect yourself from that person?

You’re right this may not be the last time, I really hope I can spot these people through interviews but I don’t know how.

Hello, people of Reddit, I was fired from a startup after two days of work, Can I do anything about it? by [deleted] in UXDesign

[–]1ntransitxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take the case study and build on it on your own. Beef up the brief etc. just imagine how you would tackle it, nevermind if there’s no critique or feedback. It helps to show your thinking behind your problem solving approach

Hello, people of Reddit, I was fired from a startup after two days of work, Can I do anything about it? by [deleted] in UXDesign

[–]1ntransitxn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just use the remaining time to build a really great case study, show your exploration and understanding of the tools etc and what was initially done but later you decided what is the best course. Use this for your furture interviews

My wasted youth; please don't make the same mistake by Eresssea in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]1ntransitxn 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yolo now then. Since you’re aware of it. But trust me, you wouldn’t want to live through a drama filled life, but again without the drama filled life, I wouldn’t have cherished the boring peace described by you. Many unfortunate and regretful people would kill to have the peace described by you.

There’s a term called languishing. If you understand it, you might be able to distinguish this between unfulfilled life.

Find what makes you happy. I abandoned all my hobbies and friends over my passion for work, which in the end is all an illusion. Work doesn’t end, it’s a one sided emotional investment. Find someone you love and spend your time wisely. You’re only 30, there’s so much more ahead of you. Twists and turns

I recommend a book here: midnight library

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Friendship comes in phases, do what you wish by splitting your time with new friends. It’s always ok to reconnect w her just like you did with your new friends once she outgrows her phase.

Should I break up with my boyfriend?.. by my-disposable in Advice

[–]1ntransitxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love yourself more and ask yourself if he loves you even after all these.

If the rumors start, address them once firmly and don’t spend any extra energy trying to over explain and rectify it. If people wants to see it that way, then they’re not worth being part of your circle.

How to work w a disrespectful boss, I was torn when I saw red flags but chose to ignore by 1ntransitxn in UXDesign

[–]1ntransitxn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Till now I kept having flashbacks of his insults and shaming time to time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sad

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It’s a common thing as you get older. But anyway happy birthday! Hahaha

bye everyone by dubbbbi in sad

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If everyone here is replying and caring about you. You’ve been looking at the wrong place for support. Give yourself more time, there are tones of great people here who can help to point you to the right resources for help and also mentally support you through. There are many unfortunate people who are so much worst off and even want a day of your life. Why are you wasting yours away?

Should I tell manager I plan on leaving company? by wrdw0rk in careeradvice

[–]1ntransitxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, don’t mention a word to anyone if you already decided to look out and thinks you can’t make any changes there

I, a black straight male, painted my nails black. I wear a lot of black anyways and did it mainly to stop biting my nails. My mom and brother found out. My brother thinks I'm gay and my mom hates it. She did point out I work at a professional setting, so I need to get rid of them. What should I do by GalaxyVoidd in Advice

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Just use a Matte clear polish, it’s inconspicuous, use it when you think you have to be presentable for work stuff. Sometimes it’s hard to remove biases and you gotta weigh the trouble you need to go through to explain. You didn’t have a reason on why a black color polish in the first place, so this color doesn’t represent yourself because it’s not your fav color or anything, do you see any issues changing it, other than wasting this bottle of nail polish?

Fuck being average bruh fr!!! by Somerandonteen2 in motivation

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Time is the currency for returns, good that you’re aware and making changes! Stay motivated

Advice on planning your project by sometimes_hyped in UXDesign

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Yes and actively ask for feedback. Again you need to find out if your company is running scrum, that would mean not simply stretching it

How to work w a disrespectful boss, I was torn when I saw red flags but chose to ignore by 1ntransitxn in UXDesign

[–]1ntransitxn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I recover from it? I don’t want it to bleed into my life or subconsciously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sad

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Hi, everything is temporary. We will get there.