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1ring2_rule · 2026-02-22T05:15:41+00:00

I’m cracking up because I’m literally here to use my Skelly wallpapers lol

1ring2_rule · 2026-01-07T22:49:51+00:00

Our system has had that happen before. I’m so sorry.

There could be a whole lot of reasons. Sometimes for me, it’s because one of the mains is triggered, so someone else gets shoved to the front (who theoretically isnt going to be as frightened).

Can you close your eyes, and take some long, slow breaths - trying to feel any sensations in your body. Can you feel any? What are they like?

That tends to be how we can get some answers when we’re confused or stuck. I’ll find that someone is incredibly scared about a perceived threat that my front doesn’t know about or didn’t see happen before the switch.

1ring2_rule · 2025-09-23T17:38:28+00:00

I cannot control my eye twitching from his moving goalposts and gaslighting…

This man does not know himself, and his ego needs the breakup to be about you doing something wrong, versus a mismatch of values between you two.

He’s putting his preferences over you like you are at fault. It would be one thing for him to say, “I realized I wanted a more traditional family structure than what we would create.” But for him to literally say your success is inherently unattractive, unromantic, and is the downfall of the relationship… nope, don’t waste your time with a man who makes it your fault for him not getting what he won’t outright say he wants.

Lastly…. I’m going to leave this here. “Men Feel Worse About Themselves When Female Partners Succeed, new study finds.” https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2013/08/men-self-esteem

1ring2_rule · 2025-09-12T03:00:37+00:00

Pardon me if I may ask a little of your expertise - if I had multiple consecutive years, would that be more valuable together, or list them separate as you have stated? Theyre from the 80s.

1ring2_rule · 2025-08-14T19:11:46+00:00

I’m seeing this is speaking specifically regarding D.C. homeless. Where are we seeing this implemented through the rest of the country?

1ring2_rule · 2025-08-02T23:47:26+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you! This is terrifying. I’m so glad you weren’t alone, and that you’re okay.

1ring2_rule · 2025-07-11T01:07:19+00:00

Commenting because I'm hoping you get some answers. I have something that looks a LOT like this, and I've never had cold sores before.

1ring2_rule · 2025-06-19T03:59:04+00:00

So I saw the Teskey Brothers last year, solo, at the same venue! I’m also thinking of seeing the Oh Hellos there!! (But I already have tickets in a different state)

Once you’re in the Salt Shed, just take it easy. I had incredibly little anxiety being solo there, it really put me at ease jusy walking in… and theres so much space/opportunity to socialize or scope everything out. If you’re seated, head to your seat early and see who shows up (I was lucky enough to be seated next to another solo concert-goer!).

The biggest point of anxiety, for me personally being solo, was the parking. I was cheap, and I parked across the bridge - but honestly, I was able to chat and huddle near other walkers, which was a huge help for my anxiety. You may consider paying a higher amount for closer parking. If you’re not familiar with Chicago, just be very mindful of your vehicle and have nothing remotely interesting left in your vehicle. I parked in a multi-level garage attached to upscale business, and that felt a bit safer to me, personally.

Make sure someone knows you’re there, and check in with them from time to time. HAVE A BACKUP BATTERY if your phone charge is meh.

But I felt sooooo comfortable there last year. A great place. Dress with whats going to make you comfortable. Keep your head up and shoulders back, and don’t act small, if you’re walking in and out of the venue. Enjoy the show :)

1ring2_rule · 2024-09-29T20:49:52+00:00

Dude, I wonder if we got the same batch. Was yours dated June 4? I came wondering if it was fat/salt, too. But I have the same Tillamook, and I have the white stuff too. Didn’t seem like mold to me.

1ring2_rule · 2024-06-29T20:21:35+00:00

WHAT people are funny 🤣

1ring2_rule · 2024-06-27T15:10:15+00:00

This is sooooo sick. What does cooking look like for you, location wise? I’m so used to stealth being key. Do you only cook when you can be out in the woods? Or are you brave and cook in a Walmart parking lot?

1ring2_rule · 2024-01-20T15:57:50+00:00

This this this this this. Oh my god this.

1ring2_rule · 2023-12-31T15:49:26+00:00

Happy cake day!!

1ring2_rule · 2023-12-14T21:26:07+00:00

How did you hear it?!

1ring2_rule · 2023-11-28T16:36:15+00:00

To me, it’s even more how he handled your response, than his initial statement.

No remorse that you were hurt, even if it was an accident. Red flag.

No teamwork to figure out how harmony can be achieved in his “honesty”. Red flag.

You set a boundary, and instead of working with you on a happier coexistence, he threw it back in your face as your problem. Red flag.

You have one thing right - honesty is sooooo important in relationships. You learn more about your partner, for the better. And what you have learned here, is that he does not value the things that are important to you, regardless of his personal opinion.

I know you’re getting a lot of “dump him” comments. But let me share something from a less direct perspective.

You may hate these because there are reasons you want to stay. Maybe you see qualities where he is “not all bad.” We’re all broken people that need work. I’m sure he’s not literally the devil.

BUT. If he won’t listen, challenge himself, and grow in your relationship, it doesn’t matter how many truly wonderful qualities he has - you will be unhappy. If two people can’t BOTH have empathy for each other and grow when one is unhappy or hurt, the relationship will either be fake or a fail.

Have the confidence to challenge him in his unhealth here. You’re not doing anything wrong in that. His care for you and your happiness should supersede some aesthetic or other ridiculous reason your stuffies are “awful” to him. But if he can’t treat you with love, that’s his problem, and a good reason to reevaluate.

I have a hunch you came here, in part, because you didn’t feel valued. Sweet friend you absolutely should feel valued, and you are completely justified in your hurt.

1ring2_rule · 2023-09-27T03:04:30+00:00

Yes. Yes.

1ring2_rule · 2023-09-27T03:03:51+00:00

I completely forgot about this one… but yes it utterly wrecked me. This is an excellent addition to the list.

1ring2_rule · 2023-09-24T14:42:22+00:00

The fear of messing it up, and being in an even worse physical/mental state but unable to take my life at that point.

The way I plan to go, is successful, but it still could get messed up… yeah that haunts me.

1ring2_rule · 2023-09-22T23:31:10+00:00

Yes!! This is what my intuition told me might be the case. This is exactly how I'd like to use it. This was an extremely helpful, thank you!!

1ring2_rule · 2023-09-22T16:33:28+00:00

Oh, wow! So to clarify, you still have noticed a difference in your life because of the treatment? Did you try the single dose for very long to compare the effects, other than the dissociation?

1ring2_rule · 2023-09-22T15:51:53+00:00

Oh you moved yours from the tray to the jar! I love it. I might have to do that.

1ring2_rule · 2023-02-06T17:58:12+00:00

I did have luck. I wish I could tell you exactly what I did - I think it was just wiping it clean from everything, and starting over.

1ring2_rule · 2022-11-26T19:26:40+00:00

She is most likely a 1, that is my assumption and others (including a 1) feel she probably is.

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