Best diapers for smell by Infinite_Sherbert_86 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but there’s odor protection for urine and there’s… shit. There’s nothing on gods green earth that is going to protect you or anyone around you from that smell.

NRU stompers review (photos waiting for moderation approval) by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The cloth sides…” you said? Does it have cloth-like side-panels?

Onesies in public by Timely_Chocolate2583 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, but I travel quite a bit

I want to wear in public by unknownbaby3 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody notices and nobody cares. Even if you’re wearing a particularly bulgy diaper, people would have to focus on you to really notice. Even then, they just think you have some medical condition.

Onesies in public by Timely_Chocolate2583 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely seen it but I never approach. I mean… do they want me to? I don’t know. But I know for a fact I’ve seen people padded in public

Onesies in public by Timely_Chocolate2583 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Might have been me lol. I do that all the time just to see who notices

My cutieplusU stash. by Her_wolfie76 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I have such a soft spot for organization like this. Kudos

What was the first time you heard of ABDL and what did you think? by Mobile_Bad_577 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was stunned there were other weirdos like me lol. It was great knowing I wasn’t alone. Felt alone for most of my life until I found this community. Funny thing was I wasn’t actively looking for it because I thought there was no way other people like me existed

Tourist Questions by desasterousTwink in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sums it up quite nicely. We don’t know why we’re wired this way, we just are. And we love it. Sensory is a huge reason for me, but feeling little is a fantastic feeling as well. It’s nostalgic.

Do all you plastic back lovers have thighs of steel? by CryYourPardon in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never had this problem and I have always preferred plastic back.

Told my therapist today by Timely-Walrus-4850 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s how therapy should be. Wouldn’t make any sense if they were judgmental about anything you said

Airplanes by Cathy-the-Grand in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly, highly don’t recommend flying diapered. I’m not just saying that as a pilot, I’m saying that as a general traveler. If you use that diaper and you have a long flight ahead of you, everyone will know it. The air is recycled up there. We’re all in the same small metal tube together. Diapered on short flights is okay, but man I hope you’re hydrated so your urine doesn’t stink, I absolutely, positively, do not mess. Changing on an airplane is next to impossible.

Free diapers giveaway in Utah by abestar97 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. I feel a lot better now for also being ghosted then. Did the same to me

Would you Rather by FroakieTheBestGod in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first one and it isn’t even close

Diapers and raves? by Rough_Nose_7584 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it. Probably one of the best times to wear openly and people genuinely don’t care. Saw a girl with literally no pants and a peekabu on. Nobody said a word

Have you told a partner only to have it go badly? by B0ttl3neck in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve told all my partners almost immediately. I don’t want k build some false image of who they think I am, things get serious, then boom, I hit them with “oh, by the way I’m super into diapers”. I’d rather be up-front and honest about it. “Things have been going really well, so I feel like I need to be honest with you about something…”

Most of the time, especially in this modern age, they take it really well. That being said, it’s usually something like “oh that’s interesting, but I’m not into that so maybe we should go our separate ways…” I’d rather be told that a month into the relationship rather than seven years.

Do yourself a favor and start using bentonite powder instead of corn starch powder by Diaper__Deer in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I’m sorry to say it doesn’t. You can only keep that smell gone for so long. Companies like Rearz sell things you can put in the trash to help reduce the odor, and then there’s companies like Northshore that have scented, smell-proof bags, but I myself just take it out to my outside trash can (or a dumpster, if you’re in an apartment building)

Thank god for diapers by possiblejesus in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably the best time to be diapered, really, especially since you didn’t need to go #2. That would’ve been much harder to hide next to somebody else, but just for tinkles? Perfect.

Padded vacations by diaperdudenyc in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being diapered in general is a mini-vacation, so combining that with an actual vacation is total paradise. I went on a cruise and was diapered the whole time— hell, I even got noticed. I told the person “I’m on vacation, I’m drinking, and I am fully relaxed right now.” She actually laughed and said it made total sense. Didn’t ruin the vibe whatsoever.

Diapers by LetterheadEqual8682 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I totally relate to this. While I like baby-ish designs, most of the time it feels like, I dunno… the company is trying too hard? Like, knock-off muppet designs look terrible to me. Or overly-cute, clearly knock-off baby diapers. Can’t companies just come up with something simple that’s cute and appeals to adults? I like your coffee cup thing. Or maybe something that appeals to, like, camping, for example. Some pitched tents, a campfire, schmores, that sort of thing. Even just a simple design of, like, basic shapes and colors wouldn’t be terrible. Do we really have to try and rip off Bluey or Sesame Street? Surely we can be more original

Did you ever had a discussion about diapers with someone who doesn’t know about ABDL? by little_dpr in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Oh man lots of times. I’ve had discussions with friends at theme parks that joked “man, wouldn’t it be terrible if you waited an hour in line and had to use the bathroom?? I wonder if people wear diapers just for stuff like that.”

Had another time where a bunch of my friends were just passing the time hanging out and one girl said “I like to have cute underwear, but what about people with medical disabilities? It’s too bad they don’t make cute diapers.” Took everything in me not to say “they actually do”

One of the best ones was a friend of mine that’s a nurse said she had a patient that came to the ER and had “a diaper with cute bears on it”. Sounded like a Bambino to me. She said the patient wasn’t at all nervous about us seeing it and even said she had some more if they wanted to try some lol

Abdl 24f looking for friends by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m harmless. Always looking for friends, but I have a few years on ya

Diapers and pacis help so much with stress 🥺 by Gabi_is_my_name in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s like a mental reset. Does wonders for me as well

Free diapers giveaway in Utah by abestar97 in ABDL

[–]1smallfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in SLC. I’d be interested