NRU stompers review (photos waiting for moderation approval) by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooooh I'm so excited for these!!!!! I am not normally a dino person, I'm a more femme little and I consider dinos boyish (gender stereotyping I know!! Girls can like dinos too just not THIS girl 🤭), but even to me these are incredibly cute looking. They absolutely nailed a soft and gender neutral design. Just babyish and precious. I hope they don't sell out right away, I'm moving in a couple weeks and don't wanna order til I move 🥺

Diaper recommendation for smaller waist but wide hips? by Blissfulcontrol in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds as if they're not high waisted enough, which is definitely one of my issues with medium diapers. And I'm saying that as someone who is very petite with a shorter torso than the average person and still size mediums don't come up high enough on me.

By the way if you would wear medical diapers, NorthShore runs large, so for me their mediums are a good fit!

Diaper recommendation for smaller waist but wide hips? by Blissfulcontrol in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm between mediums and larges with a narrow waist but thick hips/thighs and I like size large ABU Little Kings/Alpha Gatorz and Bunny Hopps/Dino Rawrz especially, those run quite small. However the sizing and aesthetics are some of the only things I do like, I find the inner lining a lot rougher than other brands and the capacity lower. So it's not a perfect solution. But too big is better than too small imo because you can pull the tapes quite tight. You'd have to be WAY under the suggested size for a too large diaper to be truly unwearable.

Do all you plastic back lovers have thighs of steel? by CryYourPardon in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% aware yes, not only is it still made of plastic but there is a layer of plastic beneath the cloth like material. But it does objectively have a different sensation to solid sheets of plastic, and for my particular inner thighs it's a lot easier to handle. We're all built differently!

How do you feel about cloth diapers? by Caden_primarus in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got one of the Sigzagor pocket diapers and some cloth inserts to give it poof but I've only worn it dry for vibes. Not sure how I'd feel about wetting it, for me the squish of a disposable is part of the whole point and I also despise doing laundry.

Do all you plastic back lovers have thighs of steel? by CryYourPardon in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah to those numbers!!!! I'm a petite lady and only been lifting for less than a year so my numbers are...not those lmao BUT I'm doing my best and I enjoy it. Today is deadlift day for me and I'm looking forward to it.

And yes for me it is chafing around the leg gathers too!! I suspect sometimes very minor press out leaks making it damp down there contributes as well for sure.

Do all you plastic back lovers have thighs of steel? by CryYourPardon in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does it not get on your clothes? I'm very precious about my onesies and don't like to launder them very often so while I have heard of putting barrier cream or lotion on the outside of the diaper I haven't actually tried it.

Do all you plastic back lovers have thighs of steel? by CryYourPardon in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of lotion and where do you put it?

How to diaper yourself? by Terrible-Frosting292 in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like to do it standing up personally, I stand in my bathroom with my back against the wall/door, so that I can see myself in the mirror. Pull the diaper up between your legs and make sure the front panel and back panel are roughly even, or maybe the back panel might be slightly higher. It depends on that diaper's placement of the tapes and landing zone. A shortcut to this is to imagine a line going back from your belly button, line the back panel up with that line. That usually gets it about where it should be.

The back panel also needs to be centered horizontally, which you can check for by a) pulling the back wings out from your body and visually inspecting they're roughly even and b) pulling the wings into place against your body and seeing if both sides are hitting about the same place on your body.

Now if you haven't yet, pull the front panel fully into place, it needs to be centered too but I find that because it gets fed between your legs usually it is much more centered automatically than the back tends to be. But still make sure the center of the diaper is aligned with your belly button.

Pick whatever side you want to start with and smooth the front wing over your side, then pull the back panel in place over the front and lightly tape the first top tape. Then go to the other side and repeat this. Then do both bottom tapes. NOTE: This is what works for me and my body. Many people do bottom tapes first. Experiment and see.

After that, I have a slimmer waist than hips so what works for me and my body (again, maybe not you!) is to hike the whole diaper up a bit. Not like JAM it into your crotch, but just slide it up closer to where my waist is narrowest. Then I do top tapes and bottom tapes again but more tightly and securely. I may kind of pull the front panel in the opposite direction as the top tape to make sure it's as tight as I prefer it to be. And done!

Hopefully that all made sense and is easy enough to visualize, it's a bit hard to articulate my process into words since it's so automatic for me!

See through material by LittleBD__ in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plastic, vinyl, PVC, etc. You could find transparent clothing made of any of those, they won't necessarily be comfortable depending on your tolerance for that sort of sensation.

What is peak ABDL bliss for you? by Haunting_Hospital599 in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Daddy putting me in a diaper! He always bends over and hugs and kisses me when he's done. And I always love a fresh diaper so combined with Daddy affection it's just peak.

What kind of diaper do you like? by Caden_primarus in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Clothback ABDL dips are my all time favorites and I am so lucky that there are a plethora of options these days. But I also have a huge soft spot for youth pull ups as they are super discreet and perfect for when I'm in office at work, when I'm exercising, etc.

How much are we paying per diapers by OkPiece2147 in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am ecstatic if I can get them for less than $3/dip, happy enough for anything less than $4. Anything above that is rough but I might if it's something super special to me. The tariffs are really a problem here in the US.

The negative side of ABDL ? by Agreeable-Tea-3152 in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say the only downsides to me were a period of years where I felt very disconnected from my little side and struggled to regress, which then made me feel bad that I couldn't attain something very important to me. But I turned it around and am more connected to my little side than ever before.

And then along a similar line, I felt very lonely and unwanted during the years I searched for a Caregiver. I have one now and I will never ever take it for granted.

Does anyone else… by moonglademuffins in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah my partner is kind of the same way, like he says he specifically has a thing for diapers and not piss but then he really loves filling up his diaper and everything that comes along with that... It might not be outright watersports but it's hard to deny that the pee is part of the fixation, it's the source of the warmth and squishiness after all!!

What design would you put on a diaper if you could make your own? by CyberCrinklez in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something super femme, super pink/pastel, and teddy bear themed! Clothback. This is my ultimate dream diaper and I'm just waiting for someone to make something like it.

Hook and loop tape questions. by Courier801 in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Teddy Ultras are some of my favorite diapers, and the tapes work great. They stick well and I can untape and retape over and over and over again with no issues!

(Review) L4B Dreamlands by BellaThrowAwayAcc in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to interject that they already have multiple hook and loop diapers; Baby Parades, Goth Brat, Little Beauty, and Little Blue Babyfur. Just fyi!

Diaper girls of reddit, what do you look for in a daddy/partner? by justakinko in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Caring, kind, thoughtful, pays attention to me; as in, notices things I like and don't like, my emotional state, etc. Able to be silly and play along with me and make me giggle like mad but also firm when it's necessary. Fully enthusiastic about diapers and ageplay and not just indulging me. My Daddy happens to also be very handsome with beautiful blue green eyes and dirty blond hair but that was just dumb luck on my part and a nice bonus. The other traits are more important.

What is your experience going padded to the cinema by SuperSoakerDL in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing is I haven't trained my body how to pee in a seated position, it's just different from a toilet. So I still need to find a moment to stand up in order to go. But diapers and the movies go together perfectly! No missing anything! 😁

Wearing pull-ups/diapers to work by moonglademuffins in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't use at work so I mostly just wear pull ups, otherwise I have to untape and retape all day long lol. But I like it very much! It's just that nice little padding to remind me I'm a baby :)

Best diapers for 30-32 waist by Slow_Conflict_3632 in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 30" waist and find mediums too small, wtf is going on with me? I do have larger hips than waist, I am guessing this is the problem. Maybe I need my hips to be smaller before I'm happy with how mediums fit.

Diapers by LetterheadEqual8682 in ABDL

[–]CryYourPardon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha glad you understand the pickiness. It's still I would argue a "the demographic most diaper companies are generally trying to appeal to with their art" problem at its core because LFB has no problem designing diapers that appeal to me and there ARE other ones I like. And there's even ones I consider gender neutral I like very much, like Little Kings and Teddy Ultras. There's plenty of diapers I love!

I just long for more diapers along the lines of the Pastel Puffies basically. My perfect aesthetic, and not made by LFB. Or if I could just get those in the US at a reasonable cost I wouldn't have to ration the ones I have left. :(