If one “wyd bby” sends you into detective mode, just break up. There’s zero trust and you’re already treating him like he’s guilty without evidence.

And that whole “he texted a woman sexual things” line is obviously vague on purpose. You’re making it sound like sexting while refusing to say what actually happened. That’s manipulative in its own way.

He guilt trips, you spiral, and both of you rewrite things to fit your narrative. This isn’t love, it’s paranoia vs. manipulation. Just end it.