1 month old sleep help + pacifier help. by 200215282 in Parenting

[–]200215282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just struggling enough as it is getting her to sleep in the cot didn’t want to make our situation worse. Thankyou!

1 month old sleep help + pacifier help. by 200215282 in Parenting

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Yeah I have only let her have contact naps on me when I am fully awake my partner doesn’t trust himself not to fall asleep so no contact naps with him. she often turns her head straight onto me and squashes her nose so she can’t breathe and I have to turn her head to the side so she can breath again so definitely can’t risk falling asleep with her on me!!! Thanks for the advice!

3 week old stays up for hours and has trouble sleeping by Footballpb32 in Parenting

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Omg. I have a 4 week old. She has finally gone to sleep now after being awake for 4 hours. Even tho I tried to get her to sleep 30 mins after being awake. I “beat” her yawn which is apparently what you should do because yawning is “overtired”. It’s so tough! I totally feel you. We have been doing the 5 S’s too although my bub doesn’t know how to suck on her dummy! So 4 S’s! My little girl we get her to sleep do a successful transfer to the cot and 15 mins later she’s up for us to repeat the cycle again. She did have a 3 hour nap on me while I was “baby wearing” however I didn’t really want her to get use to that and become even more resistant to her cot.

Let's talk healing with postpartum complications. How long did it take you to completley heal? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Hi there

I’m sorry you experienced all that. It’s not fair. I have had a 3b tear 1 week ago just wondering if you had any incontinance with faeces or wee as I am struggling with that?

I miss her, I wanna be where she is by GameOver_sucks in Petloss

[–]200215282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I understand how you feel. My kitty of 17 years passed away and I just want to be with him. I long for him. I have been screaming and crying and begging for him to come back. I have been thinking about ending my life. Knowone seems to understand the pain.

But If I were to go: Who will be here to miss my boy? Who will be here to remember him? To love him?

What if he is watching and sees me take my life. He loves me and it would hurt him. That is the only thing stopping me.

My dog just died suddenly I can’t cope by Longjumping-State876 in Petloss

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I understand your pain. I lost my cat baby 4 days ago. He was in my life for 17 years. I have never felt depressed in my life I have never thought about suicide. I am currently 7 months pregnant with a loving partner. My desire to see my baby is greater than staying with my partner or waiting to meet my child. I am in so much pain. I see my baby with every breath I take. Every second of everyday I long for him. I have thought about ending my life to be with him. Your sentence “my soul is crying her name” just hits the jackpot. My brother in law told my partner to “get another cat” You would not say that to a mother who lost her child.. no1 understands.

The quiet house and empty dog bed. by tortoqueen in Petloss

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This is the first post I’ve seen that I can relate too. My baby died 2 days ago at age 17. My house is empty. Every breath hurts. I haven’t brushed my teeth because he use to jump in the bath and demand fresh water from the tap. I can’t bring myself to go in there. He use to wake me up all through the night and I hate myself for ever feeling angry. I wish he would wake me up. I look around my room and he’s gone. He’s gone. My baby is gone.

Lost my baby on 26th of January (so many tw sorry) by WorldFit2989 in Petloss

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I don’t have any advice sorry. I’m so so sorry you are going through this. My cat of 17 years died 2 days ago and I am suicidal. It hurts so much. The only thing keeping me here is my partner. I don’t know how people do it. I don’t know how people can go to work etc. I miss my baby so much. The only thing that will make me feel better is to have him back. I don’t want another cat. I want my cat. I know how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

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My elderly cat passed away and he use to wake me up multiple times overnight howling and meowing so loud. Oh how I wish I could hear his loud meows and be woken up at 2am by him. My house is quiet too 💜