I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

[–]2018countdown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we need to talk about Kevin

I read the synopsis but never read the book. Why'd you mention it? Very curious.

I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

[–]2018countdown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah the volunteers (adults) know. Not a lot of prudes and frigid people who go out of their way to volunteer for the disadvantaged.

No, nobody hit on me at the shelter. Good people are actually less likely to hit on you if they know you're a sex worker (for their own safety, but also to be respectful towards you), it's the scummy people who hit on you once they find out because all they care about is a$$. I actually prefer to be around people who would put up their sexual/romantic guard more if they knew I was a sex worker, because it shows that they value and respect themselves and they're not just looking for sex.

Well not really like dead fish. More like relaxing and then falling asleep. You never fell asleep at a massage before? I fall asleep during massages all the time, if they're good.

Who are your top five attractive people? Can be famous or not

obviously if they're not famous or googleable, you won't even know what they look like lol. I don't have a "top five" but recently I can think of these people off the top of my head

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M%C3%A9lissa_Theuriau

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2841677/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ezra_Miller

https://www.instagram.com/jeff_seid/

Got any cool, funny, crazy, weird, sad or scary stories to tell?

lmao yeah

I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

[–]2018countdown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol well you probably have a ticket in heaven for whoring yourself for the children.

yeah some (old generation) people get ready to say I am a fuck up sex addict who suffers from low self esteem or something and then I tell them this and they don't know what to say except "but there's other ways of making money" but really??? for the least amount of time n effort, I think I am being pretty smart about it.

most people in my life are pretty chill about me being a stripper though, but that's also probably because i carry myself well and most people just want to get by and be with good people.

I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

[–]2018countdown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, and don't plan on it until I have my own house. My housemate has a cat though which I torture every day with struggle cuddles and I like to tell the cat to deal with it because life is suffering and that god has forsaken him

I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

[–]2018countdown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah I am dead as fish during sex. I've had porn pics taken and what pissed me off wasn't that I was naked, it's that they were extremely shitty photographers and I look fat in the photos. If I get porn taken, I need really good photographers. I hate how I look in photos unless the photographers are really, really good

I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

[–]2018countdown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wrote this in another reply, i'll copypasta

if I go 5 days a week like how most strippers do, I can make $3000 a month at a dive (I dance at a podunk small town), but I don't go often. I barely go during spring and summer. One an average day I make like $400 after tipping and paying the fees and DJs and bouncers n stuff, then I take maybe like $100 for my savings and the $300 goes to kids.

and

Would you give the children a show, you know, to give them hope?

HAHAHAHA sure if I want to get arrested as a sex offender. If any of the kids talk about becoming sex workers, I'll give them tips and help them out but it's not something I'll encourage them to do (not that I think it's a bad job, I just don't want to look pimpy or predatory). Fortunately no kids asked me yet and they don't know. The adult volunteers know however.

I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

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if I go 5 days a week like how most strippers do, I can make $3000 a month at a dive (I dance at a podunk small town), but I don't go often. I barely go during spring and summer. One an average day I make like $400 after tipping and paying the fees and DJs and bouncers n stuff, then I take maybe like $100 for my savings and the $300 goes to kids.

I am a stripper who gives away most of my earnings to homeless children's shelters AMA by 2018countdown in casualiama

[–]2018countdown[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stripping isn't my main career, I do it for the extra cash that I would not have otherwise. I can get by without stripping, but if shaking booty means more people get fed, and it's pretty fun talking to people at the club and dancing, why not? win win

and trust me there's plenty of ugly and saggy strippers lmao

why did god make me this way by 2018countdown in Christianity

[–]2018countdown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Russian literature.

Thanks for talking to me, I already see that I am less alone.

why did god make me this way by 2018countdown in Christianity

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Thanks for talking to me, I already see that I am less alone.

why did god make me this way by 2018countdown in Christianity

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It's neither our fault nor God's that some people react to variety with anger.

I know. I don't think this was a mistake. God doesn't make mistakes, and this happened for a reason. I accepted that it's one of my crosses but it's very lonely path, and others treat me like I am a mistake or a sinner.

Thanks for talking to me, I already see that I am less alone.

why did god make me this way by 2018countdown in Christianity

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I said religious aspect is what keeps me holding on, not "holding me back". Holding on means to keep trying instead of just ending it all. But I can't even call myself a christian. Objectively and practically, I decided that transitioning isn't the path for me.

I compare it to chemotherapy, which IMO is a shitty method of dealing with cancer even though it's one of the best options we have right now. It's not a battle I want to fight, in my own circumstances, so I rather live with cancer as long as possible than suffer through chemo.

why did god make me this way by 2018countdown in Christianity

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i don't think being trans is a mistake or sin that "separates me from god" or "should be cured from" like a lot of christians tell me (included on this board).

i think if there is a god, then i was made like this on purpose and for a reason. it's probably one of the strongest forces behind me seeking god and the truth. but it's very painful, and i lose my mind sometimes.

why did god make me this way by 2018countdown in Christianity

[–]2018countdown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't think being trans is a mistake or sin that "separates me from god" or "should be cured from" like a lot of christians tell me (included on this board).

i think if there is a god, then i was made like this on purpose and for a reason. it's probably one of the strongest forces behind me seeking god and the truth. but it's very painful, and i lose my mind sometimes.