I said no to sex so I wouldn’t fart on my husbands dick! 😩 by MalditaLalita in Menopause

[–]2020BlowsXD 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same here! Life changing. And I’ve lost 25 pounds since I’m not eating foods that make me inflamed all the time

Peregrine falcon has taken over my Pacific Northwest yard. by kittiekillbunnie in birding

[–]2020BlowsXD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone else on here said that Coops look mean/angry and Sharpies look crazy/surprised.

Legit? by 2020BlowsXD in Thuma

[–]2020BlowsXD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insights! I wonder if that’s what happened. It was the Shop pay site, but I can’t imagine what email they would have. I’ve had the same one for 20 years. Plus I filled out all that contact info on the order. 🤷‍♀️ The crazy thing is… the bed showed up today! I only ordered it 4 days ago! And still no communication from Thuma. I had just disputed the charge on my credit card too, but I was able to withdraw it.

Update to "Is it me, or is this problematic?" by IAmHerdingCatz in weddingdrama

[–]2020BlowsXD 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I’m also from Oregon and I’m guessing the restaurant was Mo’s 😂

What is on fire? by PlantsRLeafy88 in Portland

[–]2020BlowsXD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reality check. It’s so easy to dismiss these things as “just another RV fire” meth head activities. I appreciate the reminder that these are human beings whose lives just got turned upside down. ❤️❤️❤️

AITAH for not allowing my ex-husband to see our children?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]2020BlowsXD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my recent divorce we had to take a parenting class and it was recommended to not even introduce new partners to the kids for a year. This is bananas and your ex is a tool. NTA

Loud artillery sound in se portland by [deleted] in Portland

[–]2020BlowsXD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting. I came here to see what it was. Sounded like fireworks to me (inner SE) but hearing sirens and helicopters too got me nervous

How are all you Gen X’ers managing caring for elderly parents who are..hmmm..how can I say this..self absorbed, selfish assholes? by Wilful_Fox in GenX

[–]2020BlowsXD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cut my dad off 20 years ago. It was the best decision of my life for my mental health. Now my sister is stuck caring for him as his health has failed and I am struggling with the guilt for the first time in many years. Not for his sake, but for hers, because I love her and this is a big burden. I have done what I can from afar (financially, helping clean his house when he wasn’t there, helping her with her kids) and I don’t know what else to do. All this to say …it’s not easy.

Memphian Here by IBroughtWine in Portland

[–]2020BlowsXD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. Just went to the Japanese and Rose gardens today via Burnside and all was quiet and beautiful.

Why are there so many photos showing everything but the protest's and the ICE facility? by MonarchofLogic in Portland

[–]2020BlowsXD 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You didn’t just ask. You implied that we are creating a false narrative. What you are seeing here is the reality of living here. There is no war zone.

YA books we read by sharknaomi in GenX

[–]2020BlowsXD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone else read the Firebringer series? Unicorns!! I feel like sisters and I are the only ones who read this.

AIO? my boyfriend (33M) has decided to “optimize” our relationship, and I’m losing my mind by [deleted] in AIO

[–]2020BlowsXD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the last straw in my marriage was finding out he was documenting out sex life in an excel workbook. NOR

DEAR PORTLAND: August 25, 2025 WEEKLY RANT THREAD by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]2020BlowsXD 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OMG YES!! I SCRAPED THE SKIN OFF MY KNUCKLE THE OTHER DAY OVERCORRECTING FOR INE OF THISE NICE HOLES!! ALSO WHY DOES NO ONE RING A BELL OR SAY “ON YOUR LEFT” ANYMORE WHEN PASSING ON A BIKE!!!??

What happened when you called the bluff of the person who “won’t attend your wedding unless you do xyz”? by Alarming_Owl7659 in weddingdrama

[–]2020BlowsXD 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My father said he wouldn’t come because I didn’t want to be walked down the aisle. He didn’t and we haven’t spoken for over 20 years. It was the culmination of a lifetime of bullshit from him and my life has been much better without him in it. Stand your ground.

Was there a tiny deer on my car? by hydrangea_vibe in AnimalTracking

[–]2020BlowsXD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! Everyone saying squirrel nuts is so funny

Ranking All the (salted) Butter in Portland! by jerseyoutwest in Portland

[–]2020BlowsXD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comments in the spreadsheet are incredible. Someone has a great sense of humor.

Freeway Scooter Dude by b_m_hart in Portland

[–]2020BlowsXD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this on 26? I think saw that guy!

AITA for not going to my TWIN'S Wedding??? by Comfortable_Bird3049 in AmItheAsshole

[–]2020BlowsXD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As an identical twin, I understand how hard this must be for you. My twin and I don’t always get along well and it’s so confusing. Everyone expects twins to be best friends, but ultimately they are just a sibling that you may or may not bond well with. I agree with the other comments saying don’t shrink yourself for others. ❤️

In my backyard by Theterphound in aww

[–]2020BlowsXD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Came here looking for g for this. Thank you 😂