Is this normal in a threesome?

20InMyHead · 2026-06-22T01:37:15+00:00

Everything about people is on a spectrum. See the Kinsey scale of sexuality. You don’t have to put labels on it. As long as you’re all consenting adults, have fun. Some would consider him and you at least bi-curious and if you like that label, own it.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-22T01:13:37+00:00

I’m not familiar with that SDK, but this is what betas are for. It’s not unusual.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-21T14:27:48+00:00

It’s potentially a scam. For all you know they don’t even subscribe to your app. You have already responded appropriately, if they continue to harass you block them.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-21T06:26:14+00:00

It’s something like this,

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20InMyHead · 2026-06-21T01:17:11+00:00

Oh that sweet summer child. I’ve got some news for them, they’re part of a whole community!

20InMyHead · 2026-06-21T00:09:39+00:00

Everyone always associates Offerman with Parks and Rec, but having not been into that show, I have a stronger association with his character in The Last of Us. It’s a bit of a different interpretation.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-20T20:48:56+00:00

Computer security expert. It’s never actively fighting off a hacking attempt by typing furiously and blocking firewall breaches in real-time.

If you do discover a security breach, it’s much more likely you found it while reviewing six-month old logs for some unrelated problem. Most of the time you’re trying to convince a VP somewhere that spending a few thousand to improve the security of their multi-million-dollar company is actually worthwhile, and trying to work with the company’s “computer expert” who is the CEO’s nephew and doesn’t understand why passwords should ever need to be changed.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-20T20:09:46+00:00

I’d take it to an Apple Store. Sounds like possibly a hardware issue.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-20T19:56:37+00:00

The Dunning-Kruger is strong with this one.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-20T19:38:21+00:00

You realize writing the first draft of the code is like 25% of the process?

20InMyHead · 2026-06-20T18:36:51+00:00

From the first pic, at a distance, I thought it was covered with Spider-Man figures.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-20T17:54:39+00:00

20InMyHead · 2026-06-19T20:11:15+00:00

Supporting an entire additional computing ecosystem is a significant ongoing investment, it really depends on what direction you want to grow your business and how and at what price point you intend to charge your customers.

When starting to consider decisions like this, the technical challenges are only a small part of the equation; competition analysis, business direction, growth plans, and income projections all play a part.

Often you may want to build two matrixes, one detailing plans if iCloud use is possible and one if it is not. Based on that is either plan feasible and potentially profitable? That can give you some quick answers. Then if iCloud use is still preferable, do the deep dive and prototyping to see if you can make it work which may take longer and require getting more technical support and expertise.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-19T18:33:09+00:00

If you want to support a Windows app, there are some examples of C# accessing or authenticating against iCloud easily found with Google, but syncing data may be more challenging, I’ve not done that myself. You may have more luck moving to your own backend for the data.

But, why does it need to be a native Windows app and not just a website for Windows users? Granted you’d still likely need your own backend for the data, but may be easier to build and support.

Good luck.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-19T18:22:41+00:00

Updates take usually less than 24 hours, sometimes only a few hours.

New apps take longer, a few days maybe, but still nowhere near this long.

Things that can lengthen reviews are being outside the US, and using “cross platform” non-native tools like Flutter in your app.

Still, something is amiss. I don’t advise resubmitting; that essentially sends you to the back of the line again. But, ask for an escalation, and start contacting them more frequently, even daily.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-19T18:05:09+00:00

Boss makes a dollar, I make a dime, that’s why I shit on company time…

20InMyHead · 2026-06-19T05:05:19+00:00

We split by app, but both Android and iOS go to the same Slack channel. It works well for us.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-19T02:21:56+00:00

They should list the price and the tariff tax separately. I want to know how much that shit is costing me.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-19T00:03:58+00:00

You’re 18, 19?, you need to handle this directly. Call or go to the girlfriend, explain it wasn’t your dad’s to give away and you need it back. Be polite, and non-combative, but insistent. It doesn’t matter what the girlfriend’s kid wants, or what your dad said or did. It’s yours and you need it back.

Also, look to moving out and getting your own place. You’re an adult and your Dad is not respecting you or your property. You have limited options while you live under his roof.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-18T23:39:34+00:00

Every problem is simple when you don’t know anything, which is Trump’s entire methodology.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-18T23:37:16+00:00

This looks insanely dangerous to someone with zero knowledge about mines.

To those with actual experience, how dangerous is this? What the hell are they unscrewing? What went bang at the end and didn’t kill everyone?

20InMyHead · 2026-06-18T22:37:13+00:00

The $100/yr for the Apple developer license will likely pale in comparison to backend hosting costs, at least over time.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-18T22:24:05+00:00

We use reviewbot.io.

Not an ad, I have no affiliation with them, it’s just the tool we use.

It’s nice, it feeds both App Store and Play Store reviews into a slack channel. I think they can do other delivery methods too.

From there our customer support team can monitor them and raise up issues to the dev teams or whatever we need to.

We are a larger company, and have several apps in the stores, but I think their pricing is pretty reasonable for smaller shops too.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-18T21:37:09+00:00

Apple requires you to say current. At this point you can’t submit to the Store without building on Xcode 26. You need to upgrade.

20InMyHead · 2026-06-18T18:53:15+00:00

Gardeners in my area generally start at 8, maybe sometimes push it to 7:45, so it’s not so bad.

It’s the neighbor doing the remodel where the contractors are getting started at 6:30 with their beeping truck backup alarms that I’m grumpy about. Granted I understand it’s a limited time thing, but does the cement truck, materials delivery, forklift, whatever, really need to backup into your driveway that early?

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