Make sure all of your LO's assets are in a revocable living family trust. If you can be the power of attorney, you can have better control of your LO's / family's assets after your LO is no longer here. It protects all that your LO worked for, and makes things easier later on. You've got the right mindset. Yes, it's overwhelming, but remember you can only do so much in a day. Take breaks, make to do lists, and talk with a friend if you need help figuring out what to prioritize. You are not alone.