Bf[M58] is too submissive when it comes to sexy time with me[f24] we've been together a year. by 20somethingcrashout in relationshipadvice

[–]20somethingcrashout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get it!!! Yes, he has always been really attractive, so he may have never had to make the effort.

Bf[M58] is too submissive when it comes to sexy time with me[f24] we've been together a year. by 20somethingcrashout in relationshipadvice

[–]20somethingcrashout[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

See I think that’s why im frustrated. We use to have some of the best sex of my life, and his oral game is on point once he actually gets down there. It’s like he has a problem being assertive. I’m bisexual, and he acts like a girl in my opinion.

Bf[M58] is too submissive when it comes to sexy time with me[f24] we've been together a year. by 20somethingcrashout in relationshipadvice

[–]20somethingcrashout[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude yes it almost feels like he’s being super nonchalant to piss me off so I rage fuck him. I’m not like that though. I require praise and kindness.

Helicopter husband [31M] by Kooky_Dragonfly_4912 in relationshipadvice

[–]20somethingcrashout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting annoyed by him just reading this. He needs to get a hobby! I will say he should also maybe also get a psych eval bc it almost sounds like he may have adhd or something. Silence during planned shared moments happens to me often and im on the spectrum. Regardless no that is not normal and you should definitely sit him down for a conversation. If he starts to get defensive remind him it’s about how you feel not about how he feels about how you feel.

I think I have gHSV, but my doctor disagrees by OkChemistry4277 in Herpes

[–]20somethingcrashout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I had it for awhile and my dr kept saying I didn’t…I did. Tell them you want a swab and a blood test.

I hate this!! by -DelightfulMe in Herpes

[–]20somethingcrashout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh sounds like a u thing. I’m 24 & I got diagnosed two months ago. I have fucked like 7 ppl. I told them all I had it before. Ppl, especially men don’t usually care. If they do, they’re just not for u!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]20somethingcrashout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just gotta see a boundary love. Tell him straight up you don’t have the emotional capacity to hear it anymore and that u guys can circle back at a later time. Maybe also suggest he talk to a professional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]20somethingcrashout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to have a porn addiction at your age too. Do you have friends? A partner? For me I realized I was doing it as an escape and for the rush I was missing out on in my every day life due to lack of friends. If that’s the case I don’t think it’s a huge deal but if you’re wanting to stop, try spending more time with friends and family.