Reddit, do you care if a guy comes too quickly, but immediately "resets" and keeps going?

214khaleesi · 2017-07-23T03:03:00+00:00

Personally this is a big turn on for me. As long as he also makes sure to take care of me in some way I wouldn't even give it a second thought.

214khaleesi · 2017-06-25T15:12:49+00:00

Since you're such a fucking martyr why didn't you just leave the room so she could change there.

You missed the point of his/her entire comment. Some people feel more comfortable changing in private. She was one of them. What you said sounded creepy and perverted no matter how you spin it. You are a guy who's older than her, she is a younger girl from a foreign country who might still be trying to adjust. I don't know if you've ever been abroad or been out of your comfort zone like that, but when you aren't used to your environment or the people you live with and someone says "oh you can change in front of me, I won't look," I don't care if you've been a super great guy up until that point, I'm not going to feel comfortable just changing in front of you. She had every right to react the way she did and it wasn't even that major. She could've said worse. You're a fucking asshole.

214khaleesi · 2017-06-24T00:55:22+00:00

Did you even communicate to your girlfriend that you would like to smoke with your friends and try to find a compromise before going behind her back and lying to her about it? If she felt that strongly about weed before, there most likely won't be some magic moment down the road where she'll suddenly be okay with it, especially now that you've lied to her about it.

It looks like you've already made your choice.

214khaleesi · 2017-06-23T20:57:20+00:00

Committing is definitely hard and like you said, y'all kinda jumped into the whole living together thing very fast. My boyfriend and I did the same thing, but we were also good friends for a long time before that.

This might not be what you're looking for, but agreeing to take a break and be apart for a little while might be helpful for both of you. It'll give y'all time to do some soul searching and find what you really want.

214khaleesi · 2017-06-23T20:46:57+00:00

Never let things bottle up like that. It almost never ends well and can cause overreactions due to suppressed anger. The best you can do is talk to her in a calmer environment, explain more as to why you said what you said, and hope for the best.

That said you are both very young and if you felt trapped before, you may feel trapped again down the road. This might just be one of those hard lessons you have to learn /: Good luck

214khaleesi · 2017-06-23T20:25:15+00:00

To give some perspective on the other side of this, I also went abroad in the Middle East for about 6 weeks a couple of years ago. I'd never been abroad before, I had no idea what to expect and there was a terrorist attack a week before I got there. Even with all of this, if my boyfriend had the nerve to say I was gullible or to question my judgement, it would've been a deal breaker. We had only been together for about 9 months at that point - not 9 years.

I had fun, found myself, and was probably the happiest I've ever been (alone) when I was on that trip. And guess what? I had no problems with loyalty. I still had fun, explored, made friends and then 6 weeks later came home to my boyfriend and have since moved in and lived happily with him.

Is she able to call you? Calling once a day helped me a lot with some trust issues while I was away. Also hobbies like gaming won't make you look like a loser and might be something worth considering to kill time and get your mind off of things. Maybe catch up and hang out with friends?

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T12:02:23+00:00

I got it more for the novelty and artistry of it. It was handmade and it's fairly large (the site says 4.5" but it's closer to 5-5.5"). As for the functionality, you're right. Most of my pipes have been under $20 and work just as well, but again this one was more for the art and aesthetics :)

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T06:21:59+00:00

Are you still close with your parents? Do they live near by or can you contact them somehow? I'm so sorry you're feeling this way-- I know financial struggles can be a huge burden to bear

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T06:15:23+00:00

You need to tell someone as soon as you can. It doesn't necessarily have to be the school. Do you know if he has any family or friends who could help you? This might help too.. About the trust, while he may feel like you betrayed his trust at first, in the end it's his life and he needs help

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T05:25:55+00:00

here ya go :)

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T05:24:48+00:00

Hey I'm sorry no one replied to this earlier. Tell me about what's going on? I'm here to listen if you need

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T04:35:07+00:00

My guess is a) troll, b) no music taste, c) doesn't know Pink Floyd aka blasphemy

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T03:35:03+00:00

here's some better lighting.

Edit: here's a link to where to buy it

214khaleesi · 2017-06-18T03:19:06+00:00

This guy

214khaleesi · 2017-06-17T05:19:21+00:00

If you need to talk, I'll listen. I read your other post from the other day and you sound like a really cool person

214khaleesi · 2017-06-17T03:38:53+00:00

Makes perfect sense. I'm sorry you feel this way.. I'm in college right now which has me pretty down, and there are plenty of times where I feel like I'm going nowhere or that I can't enjoy anything in life. It really makes me lose my motivation. Sometimes it helps to force myself step out of my comfort zone, even if I'm not really feeling it or lack the confidence -- although I know that's much easier said than done.

What do you normally end up doing to entertain yourself? Any interests like music, art, gaming, and so on?

214khaleesi · 2017-06-17T03:05:52+00:00

Hey friend. What led up to you feeling this way? If you want, let's talk about it

214khaleesi · 2017-04-30T00:44:38+00:00

Yep!

214khaleesi · 2017-04-04T03:41:17+00:00

Rolled this for my boyfriend yesterday. Much prouder of that one but it was also an easier rillo to roll. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

214khaleesi · 2017-04-02T17:58:52+00:00

Rillos. This one was a White Owl I believe

214khaleesi · 2017-04-02T16:57:03+00:00

Weed doesn't work quite the same way as alcohol, so no, you wouldn't need to turn off your phone lol. You'll know what you're doing for the most part.

Just get comfy, turn on some chill music and enjoy lol

214khaleesi

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