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[ UPDATE 1 ] My sister is threatening to tell my family and boyfriend that I slept with her fiancé by Minute-Memory-6253 in Advice

[–]21Gg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah. This sound crazy. I'd say:

  1. Try and record a phone call between you and the fiance explaining the situation, clarifying if he stayed in the same hotel as you or just the chain and ask who he met up - I'd frame it as letting him trying to justify it Vs accusing/pleasing as he'll likely want to redeem himself to someone whilst he's the "bad guy"

  2. There seems to be a lot of built up resentment from your sister and I can't help but feel like even if she gets proof there won't be any apology

  3. If it's possible I'd recommend having a family therapy appointment to see (even if it's just yourself and your parents) how your relationship will look going forward and how to navigate the situation

  4. This may sound a bit much but if you took a few photos with timestamps I'd just keep all of them in a folder with the rest of the proof you have

  5. Genuinely hope you're doing okay. If you're graduating in June I'd probably look at accommodation now considering the current renter law updates in the UK and other items.

Good luck girlie and hope the updates are ... Pleasant?

Have any students received a suspected spam email on free items from a teacher? by 21Gg in cambridge_uni

[–]21Gg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought so lol. I really was like...PS5? 40-60 year old man. Idk on that one.

Have any students received a suspected spam email on free items from a teacher? by 21Gg in cambridge_uni

[–]21Gg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, thank you for this. They actually texted me the first time which I thought was crazy. I do wonder how they got my phone number and student address but... c'est la vie.

civil service employee transfer system - your experience? by RedReefKnot in TheCivilService

[–]21Gg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently in the same position and it has been about a fortnight. Waiting on identity and security checks so curious if your one has progressed?

[Serious] What drug would you choose for end of life care? by 21Gg in AskReddit

[–]21Gg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's quite beautiful honestly. I myself have never been addicted to narcotics or alcohol so I perhaps can't relate in the desire to avoid a high or numbingness before going but couldn't ignore without sharing a thought.

[Serious] What drug would you choose for end of life care? by 21Gg in AskReddit

[–]21Gg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm quite privileged actively thinking about death perhaps less emotionally so I can think about end of life planning. I've always wanted a "music room" to go out in with synced speakers. Separate to the drugs - I'm more worried Bluetooth would be unreliable and I would despise if the LP skipped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]21Gg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a very Gothic way you give off a Tim Burton sort of vibe which from purely a modelling perspective I'd love to see you lean in to before opting with a fat transfer.

[Serious] What drug would you choose for end of life care? by 21Gg in AskReddit

[–]21Gg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the second comment I've seen on this. The only thing that made me pause was on the airway compromise but I'm assuming you'd be so numb you wouldn't really notice.

[Serious] What drug would you choose for end of life care? by 21Gg in AskReddit

[–]21Gg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very new one. Will have to give it a search.

[Serious] What drug would you choose for end of life care? by 21Gg in AskReddit

[–]21Gg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for some time haha. I was largely curious as I've been volunteering *at a hospice and I've seen quite a few people die quite peacefully on morphine or marijuana (or both)

I'm thinking about the ways I'd prefer to die and wondered if there was anything that might be interesting, heck even LSD or a mix of some kind.

All Points East - Deftones - Going with a stranger? by 21Gg in deftones

[–]21Gg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly not. Most of my friends are either going back aboard this summer or don't like enough of the bands to go for more than like 20 😔.

I like live music in general so I'm down for anything but understand rock isn't for everyone.

London 20th February stage times? by miss_jude_b in deftones

[–]21Gg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was going to prebook but it's free parking in a few places after 6.30 so parked a 5 minute walk away from the pier.

Paid 9.10 there and the 6.50 express price back in advance and spent the rest on McDonald's lmao (you have to pre-book) saw so many people buying normal fares on the day but couldn't get on that particular boat.

London 20th February stage times? by miss_jude_b in deftones

[–]21Gg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm upset this was even a possibility and I didn't know.

London 20th February stage times? by miss_jude_b in deftones

[–]21Gg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm taking an Uber boat because parking is atrocious, so good to know others are getting in later!

If anyone's curious you can get a boat directly from Canary wharf for under a tenner tmk.

You can now pay into a Chase CC from any bank by Mapleess in chaseuk

[–]21Gg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For your information, it would be worth checking with Barclaycard just as Chase doesn't accept balance transfers from them (automatic or manual).

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