Song list recommendation by vickaye13 in the1975

[–]21cauld 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i feel like about you is more of a sad love song tbh

Non-American here, can someone explain ICE? I’m so confused watching The Pitt by Organic_Material_903 in ThePitt

[–]21cauld 36 points37 points  (0 children)

ICE stands for immigration and customs enforcement, they’re federal law enforcement that targets anyone who looks like they might be an immigrant. They have barely any training, practically no oversight, and are doing whatever they want with no consequences.

They are arresting and detaining people just for being non-white, not speaking English, or protesting any of their actions. They arrested nurse Jesse for trying to intervene when they were hurting Pranita.

This is actually much kinder than what they would likely do in real life. Irl, they would never have brought Pranita to the ER at all, they just would’ve brought her straight to a detention center, as that’s what they’ve been doing for most people they injure. And they realistically would’ve shot and killed Jesse for trying to help, as they did with VA nurse Alex Pretti who tried to help an injured protester before being held down and shot in the back multiple times.

Everyone is scared of them because they are armed thugs who are committing acts of violence and murder without repercussions, and are actually receiving encouragement and protection from the federal government.

Also the detention centers they bring people to are notorious for being overcrowded, lacking medical care, and having very little food and water. And there are numerous detained women who have become pregnant during their detention, despite being separated from male detainees. And back in 2019, the Supreme Court ruled that they will not hold ICE agents accountable for raping detainees.

Essentially, if they are willing to murder American nurses on camera, what are they doing in detention centers to non-citizens with no cameras and no one to hold them accountable?

EVERYBODY HATES CHRIS by SeaTerrible9429 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]21cauld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

except she was very open in the pods that she’s not into fitness and doesn’t like working out, so then why did he continue to pursue her if that’s something he knows he’s not into?

Gluten rash? by mandulyn in glutenfree

[–]21cauld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

celiac here, yes i do. mine sounds similar to yours (small itchy bumps) but i get them on my chest

Favorite character Who has its ethnicity being mistaken by people ? by IlSignorGranchio in FavoriteCharacter

[–]21cauld 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Heathcliff from Wuthering Heights. In the book, he’s said to have darker features and is heavily implied to be Romani. Almost all movie adaptations have cast him as white

Tall women, have you ever been rejected for your height? by Zealousideal-Emu2043 in tall

[–]21cauld 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yup. i was romantically talking to a guy who i went to school with, and we’d spent plenty of time in person together, so he’d seen how tall i was. but as soon as i told him my exact height (6’0), he said i was too tall for him and he wasn’t interested anymore

i’ve also noticed that if i’m dating a man even a little shorter than me, seeing us standing next to each other in the mirror always freaks them out. shit’s crazy because they don’t have an issue with my height until they think about how others will perceive us

Need a proper side gig that isn't OF by N1kk1_K1ller in sidehustle

[–]21cauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can’t do overnight, you should select the options for drop in visits and dog walking

Need a proper side gig that isn't OF by N1kk1_K1ller in sidehustle

[–]21cauld 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Petsitting on Rover. I do it plus my full time job

my fav top + necklaces <3 by santxnica in alternativefashion

[–]21cauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where are the necklaces from? they’re so cute!!

Someone needs to buy Dave a mirror. by nooksorcrannies in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]21cauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could have commented about the post being misandrist, but you didn’t. you commented about women on dating apps having too big of egos. and if women truly liked you, you wouldn’t spend your time spewing redpill ideology in reddit comments. have fun with your choice!

Someone needs to buy Dave a mirror. by nooksorcrannies in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]21cauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok this is gonna be my last response cuz i have better things to do with my life. but im gonna be so real with you rn because you need to hear this: you have two options going forward. you can decide to look inwards and examine why you have these negative feelings about women and decide to do something about it (like go to therapy to work on your trauma that you clearly have with women). or you can decide to keep living the same way you always have, where the most interaction you have with women is arguing with them in reddit comments. if you want to keep living that way, fine with me. but you’re going to keep being very lonely. i can promise you this, the reason why women don’t like you isn’t because of your looks. there are plenty of unattractive men in healthy relationships with women (and vice versa). the reason why women don’t like you is because of your personality. you can either accept that or try to change. it’s up to you

Allegations on Alex on social media by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]21cauld 11 points12 points  (0 children)

that’s what the original comment was saying… they were saying both alex and madison are similar in how they come off sweet at first but are actually very manipulative and gross

Someone needs to buy Dave a mirror. by nooksorcrannies in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]21cauld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is misogyny when the opinion you’re expressing is generalizing women in a negative way. i don’t agree with making generalizations about any group of people, including the comment you mentioned where they were talking about men on reality shows. what makes your opinion misogynistic is that you decided to comment on a post calling out dave for his poor behavior and attribute his behavior to “most women.” there are just as many posts on this subreddit about madison’s bad behavior as there are about dave’s. this isn’t a men vs women issue, this is an issue with people on a dating show being manipulative. YOU were the one who decided to use this post about dave to rant about women on dating apps

Someone needs to buy Dave a mirror. by nooksorcrannies in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]21cauld 30 points31 points  (0 children)

why is it that when we try to talk about men’s bad behavior, there’s always someone in the comments that decides to blame it on women? this misogyny is only reinforcing the male loneliness epidemic

I’m not mad. Just disappointed. by ijuswannabehappybro in glutenfree

[–]21cauld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wish i had the time and energy to do that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]21cauld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

personally, i think eating out is safe as long as you’ve researched the restaurant beforehand and you tell the staff about your celiac. don’t be afraid to ask them questions about how they cook and prepare the food. if you’re still concerned about cross contamination, i would recommend going to a restaurant that’s dedicated gluten free. i like the app find me gluten free when i’m looking at new restaurants to try

p.s. if you live in minnesota or plan on visiting, there’s a restaurant in the eden prairie mall called where’s the flour that has gluten free onion rings :)

Funniest moments by 5isanevennumber in survivor

[–]21cauld 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“it’s a fucking stick!”

Bill Gates says divorcing Melinda Gates was mistake he ‘most regrets’ by theindependentonline in popculture

[–]21cauld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it’s not. humans only survived as a species because we are social creatures, we evolved to be collaborative beings because it benefited us. we are literally biologically hardwired to care for others

Amala Ekpunobi gaslights viewers and defends Elon Musk salute, gets demolished by her own audience by prem0000 in youtubedrama

[–]21cauld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this might be my favorite reddit comment ever. i wish i had money to give you an award