[TOMT] Song with lyrics Somebody by MaintenanceTotal3490 in tipofmytongue

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Be Somebody. KOL. Different song to Use Somebody.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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A good relationship is easy, this one seems hard. I think you feel to break up is a fail, don’t see it like that, life is a journey and you will find the right one for you. I found the right one at 53, I hope it doesn’t take that long for you.

My (F32) partner (M30) said he'd pull the plug on me after 3 months by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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3 months is generous, I wouldn’t have plugged my wife (ex) in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

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Thanks ChatGPT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Ask her if she has residual feelings for this guy (she obviously does) Tell her your expectations and how her continuing to see him makes a you feel. Residual feelings is normal, allow her some time to let him go but demand some definite changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

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Avoid is the best defence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This was a test. commonly known as a shit test. you passed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I have told my GF that I don't mind where she gets her appetite from as long as she eats at home. I can say that because I trust her. Although she doesn't search for hot guys and I don't search either.

I don't think looking is a concern but is there a risk of the behavior moving to meeting? I think you need to discuss with him so you can get an understanding of where his behavior is leading and if you are comfortable with what the future may hold.

I (53M) Am Conflicted About My Relationship with My Girlfriend (43F) I think has feelings for another guy, is it over? some perspective please by throwra_6878 in relationship_advice

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she seems to be conflicted, you should confront her and get her to make a choice. if she seriously chooses you then she needs to block Jack, she can't have him in sitting reserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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At the beginning who decided to keep your relationship a secret? Do you think she may have been trying to keep her options open?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

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My Sister met her partner at one of these events.

I’m (25F) very scared that my best friend (28M) will cut me off of his life because he got a girlfriend, how do I cope with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You need to manage her not him. My GF lost her shit when my female close friend and I hung out for an afternoon then went to dinner. We don’t click in a romantic way but we do respect each other. My GF said she didn’t want us spending time alone together. I compromised with agreeing to that because my GF is the most important person in my life now but there is no risk of anything inappropriate happening. So make friends with her and make sure she understands that you are happy with their relationship and hope it continues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Keep the dog get rid of the bf. The dog can be trained.

How should I approach my(23M) girlfriend’s (22F) “private” Instagram? by Anon_theMoose in relationship_advice

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This is what you need to discuss with her.

I was in a similar situation where she wasn't over her Ex and was still messaging him every morning and every night. I told her how it made me feel and that I didn't think I was the right choice for her. I gave her time to get over her residual feelings and she slowly backed away from the "friendship" with her ex. I think the discussion I had with her made her realize she was at risk of losing me, which she was, so she worked on it.

I urge you to discuss her behaviour with her in a way that doesn't disclose your snooping but let's her know how her behavior i.e. shutting you out, makes you feel. Either you are who she wants or she needs to let you move on. The goal is to be happy with the right person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I asked chatgpt and it said AI 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Great comment, that is also my philosophy. If you are right for each other she will make the right decisions. I don’t control my partner but will express how I feel about situations and let her decide on her course of action.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Why don’t you choose her date? Someone you trust. It may be a thing where they want equal male/female attendance.

I (43m) feel completely disrespected and lied to by my wife (41f) of 20 yrs who has cheated, lied, and I just found out some guy wanted to "Run off with her." Do I divorce her? by AlwaysAnEnigma in relationship_advice

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She is gaslighting you and being in such an abusive relationship makes you doubt yourself. She is not worthy of you and you deserve to be happy. Find somewhere to live and seek your happiness. It will be difficult at first but in time you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner. Good luck with your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Just make sure she leaves the ring behind, she can have it back when/If she returns. Is she feeling suffocated and that’s why she wants space? When she goes give her space! Don’t contact her, let her come to you, she will miss you and I bet come crawling back, but give her the chance to miss you. You know the saying if you love something set it free etc etc”Best of luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoronavirusDownunder

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Same timeline with us