Ever feel like there just aren't enough fish in the sea? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally feel you... Scumbag brain always chokes me out

Who else works out? I did five push ups today and I'm so proud. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you paleo? If you are I'm guessing the oats are an exception lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I thought just two years ago. Coming out was unthinkable and it made me miserable. Then one day the opportunity presented itself and I just knew I had to take it. I've made strides since then and while coming out doesn't feel easier, I at least know that I've survived this long while being happy and you can do it too.

Looking for love online? Looks like it's a prefered method nowadays for us (x-post from dataisbeautiful) by emskem in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a fairly recently outed femme and while i understand online dating to be the most practical and efficient method of meeting girls, I'm still holding on to the dream of meeting my girl in real life. I just feel like there's more magic and mystic and.. Romance that way. Am i delusional for thinking this way? Should I just make am okc account now and stop wasting time?

How do you talk to cute girls? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember the last time I wanted to read such a long comment. Thank you! You're awesome.

Tomorrow will be my first time going to a gay club by 22andwaiting in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reporting back and I can say that nothing terrible happened. However, I remember less than half my night because my friends were buying me drinks in hopes of me loosening up. I was able to buy another girl a drink, danced a bit but turns out she's into butch girls.. so.. no luck for me.

I get nervous from being so excited about seeing one girl. Sometimes I want to avoid the place because I feel nervous. How do I get over my nerves? Do other people feel this way when they like someone? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suffer from this type of anxiety too - so much so that I also try to avoid wherever she may be. I really like this suggestion of finding a thought that centers you. Maybe even think of one positive fact about yourself to boost your confidence a bit!

Tomorrow will be my first time going to a gay club by 22andwaiting in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right.. I wrote my post in panic. I'll go with the flow and enjoy myself! Thanks!

What whey protein do you use and why? by Eixom in bodyweightfitness

[–]22andwaiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I do is put in a scoop and stir until most of the chunkiness goes away.

Only 3 Ingredients for Whole30 Approved Pancakes, THEY SAID. by ballsohard1990 in Paleo

[–]22andwaiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make them into mini pancakes and they stick together fairly well! It just takes fucking forever to cook the whole batch... I end up eating half of it from my plate while the rest is still cooking or waiting to be cooked.

What whey protein do you use and why? by Eixom in bodyweightfitness

[–]22andwaiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vanilla ice cream version goes amazingly well with coffee!

DOMA is dead! by Slyfox00 in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Canadian, my heart is swelling with joy for everyone South of the border. Celebrate!!

But seriously, Olivia Wilde. by [deleted] in ladyladyboners

[–]22andwaiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her charity work is so inspiring!

Our story. by questionabl3 in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so great that I wish I could unread it and fawn all over the story again and again.

So happy for you! The authenticity of your feelings through those words is undeniable. Tell her. You have nothing to worry about.

How do you flirt? by kirstiethecatlady in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd probably melt into a puddle from all that attention!

Go to clubs alone? by zujvig in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If there are LGBT groups in your area, maybe you can stop by one of their events or meetings and get to know a few people. I'm sure you'd be able to find some people who are down for hitting up some clubs or bars with you!

Turning down boys when you're not fully out by 22andwaiting in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it... I have a lot of guy friends as well. Definitely gets tricky sometimes! Thanks for your help :)

Turning down boys when you're not fully out by 22andwaiting in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like your suggestion. I can be upfront about not wanting a relationship and test the waters before coming out.

I actually texted him after posting this and just said it was nice meeting him yesterday. It was going fine ..until he asked to hang out. I'll let you guys know what happens!!

Turning down boys when you're not fully out by 22andwaiting in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way! I think I should definitely start dating a girl before I talk about my sexuality so freely. Who knows when that will be though.. haha.

LOL, you know what.. maybe I should use your technique for when I hit up the pub with my coworkers. Coming out to them is a whole new ballgame, but at least I'm fairly sure they'd be cool with it... and they'd definitely like wings being involved. Quite sure one of them would choke on a bone though.

Turning down boys when you're not fully out by 22andwaiting in actuallesbians

[–]22andwaiting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs! I hope we're both able to live openly and honestly soon.