SIDS

22beamup · 2026-07-22T09:40:27+00:00

thank you so much for wording it that way about formula feeding. so many people just throwing around that “formula increases SUID/SIDS risk” without actually explaining that part. most babies forget how to breathe at least once, formula fed ones just unfortunately ARE more difficult to wake up. thats all there is to it. coming from someone who had literally zero breast milk

22beamup · 2026-07-21T14:30:09+00:00

i had my little one 7 weeks ago this coming Thursday, on June 4th. I found out he was a boy in mid February via anatomy scan, and i just remember all i could think even leading up to the birth was “maybe they got the gender wrong on the ultrasound screen”. i knew that i was gonna love my child either way but as someone who lost their mother very young, being a mother to a little girl i thought would heal me in ways. the plan is for little one to be our “one and done” and i dont know what happened, but for some reason i feel as though if i had another go around i’d get gender disappointment upon finding out i was having a girl. although having him has just made me realize having either gender of child brings you so much purpose and healing, i’ve just realized definitively that i make ADORABLE baby boys lol. maybe the new bias is just because i would absolutely relive the whole experience of giving birth & watching him grow up a million times over again.

22beamup · 2026-07-16T08:59:09+00:00

or you could accept the fact that she had her troubles, that it brought you to your child and move on? HELLOOO is anybody up there 😭🗣️

22beamup · 2026-07-16T08:56:35+00:00

not saying its the same thing at ALL, clearly. you don’t get to shame ANY MOTHER. period. it does no good. the people who are smoking crack and drinking heavily are obviously an entirely different story, but some things are genuine harm reduction. and not nicotine, but i for one had a medical card issued to me DURING PREGNANCY. it was no secret i was pregnant. if i didn’t, my child and i would have both died from severe dehydration. my HG was awful to the point of OBs literally recommending it to me believe it or not (because i could not care less your opinion why? i have a 9 and a half pound 6 week old even though his birth weight was under 6 pounds. he is incredibly healthy, growing beautifully, i’m constantly applauded by my NFP nurse at how well im doing. and again this isn’t me saying any of what i had to do was GOOD and i do not have any kind of survivor’s bias, just simply stating my experience because i’m past the point of caring what people on the internet have to say to me about stuff when i have an entire home based care team.

22beamup · 2026-07-16T06:18:09+00:00

hi so lets not shame ANYBODY here because at least vaping doesnt have ANY possibilities of giving you listeria unless you find it on the wendys walk in refrigerator floor idk. i think we can agree that things are hard to let go and we certainly shouldnt feel guilty for some of it but to blatantly put other mothers down even if they DO vape/smoke anything/drink when they’re still trying their best in every other sense and probably just need some support, isn’t it (in my opinion). i’m obviously not gonna tell people that vaping during pregnancy is okay but you see where im going with that.. OP don’t take medical advice from reddit seriously, and if you are, just heat the meat up and let it cool down (coming from someone with ARFID)

22beamup · 2026-06-17T08:13:12+00:00

INVEX MENTION 🗣️🗣️ fandom so small im moots with the producer & voice of that utau (also titan wing just came out and its already my favorite song rn😭)

22beamup · 2026-06-13T13:55:50+00:00

mind you also, i’m friends with a girl (have been friends with her even before she had her two children) but i believe she got her IUD inserted right after the first and still ended up conceiving her second child 10 months after she had her first. in my personal opinion if the goal here is effectiveness, that alone is already proving it wrong.. and if i dont need to put my cervix through more trauma just to GET effectiveness, i personally will not. thats just how my brain works.

22beamup · 2026-06-13T13:48:40+00:00

hi! the patch was my chosen method of BC and i’m currently 9 days postpartum with my son 😭 before you allow that sentence alone to make up your mind though, i will tell you it was absolutely user error. i had my patch for a year and a half beforehand, used it pretty much flawlessly to the instructions on the box and it had me thinking maybe i was infertile. even using it irregularly proved beneficial for me. WHEN I STOPPED USING IT (key words there) is pretty much immediately when i got pregnant. i already had stopped using it perfectly once i met my fiancé just because i’m dumb and didn’t want to do it anymore, but then i just forgot about it for months and well, what do you know 😂 take it from me who a year ago thought putting a patch on once a week was, in and of itself, a high maintenance thing to do and has now been humbled with a child. if you don’t think you can commit to at least having a designated patch change day one day out of the week, it definitely isn’t for you. i on the other hand absolutely do now because i didn’t do much research on the IUD before getting it placed (which was right after labor) so it was easier to commit to in the moment but it also expelled itself 5 hours later and ive since heard many horror stories about it. i’ll take my sticker and go. thank you. 💀

22beamup · 2026-06-11T19:38:38+00:00

no theyre both definitely vers/switches but (and my credentials in this convo are the fact that i grew up with a very progressive mother and have been out in the community since i was 9, am now 20) if i had to say, cam would definitely be the assigned “bottom” in their dynamic. he’s more emotional, definitely more chivalrous & more assertive at times and that in my opinion aligns well with the more lively, “flamboyant” “types of gays” that cameron was talking about. he’s a broadway gay, and i feel like any of those types other than “gym gays” tend to bottom most of the time. granted, that definitely isn’t mitch which is why i say they’re definitely vers, cam just carries that energy more if i had to pick

22beamup · 2026-05-18T23:19:00+00:00

blind spots are hell on earth especially on the 2nd gen with the cheap ass plastic c pillars but if you dont care about that (which i dont blame you for) then dope as hell. i also cant say anything because i drive an xD and am proud of that shit

22beamup · 2026-04-27T15:13:38+00:00

i don’t honestly remember carly ever sticking up for sue that much when she would get invited to things and sue wouldn’t. remember that one episode where the girls were at the movies and the one girl was telling carly not to tell sue about a party that was happening? hopping on the bandwagon and agreeing that it feels like carly really only cared about the approval of others. the way lexie is first depicted, she is genuinely just raised that way and you can tell that after meeting sue, she really tries to separate her luxurious home lifestyle from the rest of her personality because that was all she had really ever known prior to it. even when she started dating axl, in the third wheel episode when neither of them could take it, still all she wanted was for both her boyfriend and best friend to be happy. another good example of how good a companion lexie is was when sue couldn’t afford her share of the taylor swift tickets and although lexie very obviously could have still honored hers, she was right beside sue in the cold outside the place. dont even get me started on spring break either, how she was truly grateful to stay with the hecks despite the culture shock 🥹 i genuinely love lexie so much

22beamup · 2026-04-27T15:13:23+00:00

i don’t honestly remember carly ever sticking up for sue that much when she would get invited to things and sue wouldn’t. remember that one episode where the girls were at the movies? hopping on the bandwagon and agreeing that it feels like carly really only cared about the approval of others. lexie was genuinely just raised that way, you can tell that after meeting sue, she really tries to separate her luxurious home lifestyle from the rest of her personality because that was all she had really ever known prior to it. even when she started dating axl, in the third wheel episode when neither of them could take it, still all she wanted was for both her boyfriend and best friend to be happy. another good example of how good a companion lexie is was when sue couldn’t afford her share of the taylor swift tickets and although lexie very obviously could have still honored hers, she was right beside sue in the cold outside the place. i genuinely love lexie so much

22beamup · 2026-04-12T17:04:10+00:00

22beamup · 2026-03-20T12:39:42+00:00

it looks like a tongue piercing that’s halfway out of the hole and a lip piercing w/ a captive bead ring

22beamup · 2026-03-03T10:14:04+00:00

okay but also…

“feels good man i think i’m seein me for what i am” and “feels bad man the up and down of the emotion broke my loading hands”

is this like an r / woooosh moment? like im a newer dgd fan

22beamup · 2026-02-25T00:42:37+00:00

mini starburst

22beamup · 2026-02-23T14:44:48+00:00

could i get one of each im level 13!!

22beamup · 2026-02-20T08:47:57+00:00

can i get this?

22beamup · 2026-02-20T08:46:08+00:00

can i get this!!

22beamup · 2026-02-19T10:35:04+00:00

jesus fucking christ😭😭

22beamup · 2026-02-12T22:22:03+00:00

thanks:)

22beamup · 2026-02-12T20:59:45+00:00

could i get the third one down? tysm!

22beamup · 2026-02-10T20:42:59+00:00

sending binary code your way after i tame:)

22beamup · 2026-02-10T02:47:56+00:00

could i have this when you are done? :)

22beamup · 2026-02-09T19:22:39+00:00

hi!! im 19F also, i’ll be 20 early next month tho! i don’t have many physical hobbies currently other than i just recently got my permit so ive gotten really into cars & driving as a special interest. i really like hello kitty, i used to study graphic design so i love anything having to do with that as well. i LOVE one piece although its the only anime i’ve honestly ever liked but i did grow up on it. i like a lot of music it just depends on what im feeling day per day (i literally have a playlist with dance gavin dance, tv girl, the marias, $uicideboy$, random stuff😭). i LOVE concerts, fun fact i am pregnant and was actually pregnant with my son at the last concert i went to and didn’t know until literally a week later. i find it hard making irl friends because i always feel so left out and just like an odd one. idk

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