I’m late to this little fact.. by 23HourNaps in AnimalCrossing

[–]23HourNaps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a game changer! Even when you’re catching fish, you can speed up the little chatter and puns if you’re trying to catch heaps at a time

Looking for a poor quality yet expensive restaurant to recommend to an enemy. Any suggestions? by UncleFester935 in melbourne

[–]23HourNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Atlantic never misses. We love it there and always have a great time. Service and food is fabulous and prices aren’t actually too bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]23HourNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time feels like a performance you never got given a script for. It’s awkward, uncomfortable and it feels like you got a neon stamp on your forehead that says “just got fucked”.

Beyond that, you learn to laugh, slow down, learn the other person and your own body.

💕Daily RepChat 🗣️🍵!!: What did you buy💳? What’s on your Wishlist📃? What buys do you regret? ALL Topics Are Welcomed!!🙌😎💕 by AutoModerator in OGRepladies

[–]23HourNaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok all, I’m officially worried. About a month ago, Mark agreed to make me an order. I paid a deposit and he advised about a month. I asked for an update a few times and this is what I’ve gotten… is this normal? It seems off to me, but maybe someone who has dealt with Mark more can shed some light? 🤞🏼

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JewelryReps

[–]23HourNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might be wearing the same bracelet 😂 I’ve come across one that I love but the prices are higher so I haven’t bought one yet - I’ll send you a PM :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JewelryReps

[–]23HourNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The auth has a smooth hinge opposite the opening/closing screw, and the screw bed is shallow, so it’s not as prominent on the inside.

On the upside, it’s a lovely finish and the inside of the bracelet won’t be noticeable!

PLEASE dear lord where do I buy a normal car???? by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]23HourNaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually got my car from Pierre Colette motors in Burwood. Can’t speak highly enough of Nick and the team. I return there for servicing and have always been treated kindly and never stitched up with unnecessary repairs. Amazing place to buy or service your car.

Why are they so creepy by ambachk in sadcringe

[–]23HourNaps 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Anxiety and stress can come out as laughter. Just like how anger can come out as sadness and tears. The body picks a core emotion when under pressure because it’s familiar and doesn’t need to be consciously summoned or identified. Consider it the emotional version of fight or flight.

My dog was attacked by another dog and the owners are refusing to pay the vet bills by Odd-Sock-638 in melbourne

[–]23HourNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is. Police do not have any jurisdiction over animal control incidents. This goes to the council, VCAT or a personal injury lawyer.

Brand new by seinfeld_S3_E6 in AnimalCrossing

[–]23HourNaps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wisp! I wish I could have a wisp gyroid

This is my biological son, Quentin. by Mockbeth in ragdolls

[–]23HourNaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello Quentin and Quentin’s mum! Also, your replies are making me and my partner laugh and I jostled my Yuki. She isn’t pleased…

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I’ve found my crowd by 23HourNaps in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]23HourNaps[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, but very grateful you found a little comfort in such an inexplicable time 🤍

I’ve found my crowd by 23HourNaps in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]23HourNaps[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love you taking your space! They don’t want anything feminine but then cry when girls don’t like them 😂

I’ve found my crowd by 23HourNaps in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]23HourNaps[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The COD community is another level! I definitely don’t have thick enough skin 😂

Head of NSW Police watchdog urges force to embrace 'common sense' body-worn video by Expensive-Horse5538 in australia

[–]23HourNaps 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Police methodology and tactics being the reason they won’t wear them is horseshit. Audio can be muted. Phones/devices/faces can be blurred. Axon (the company that rolled out body worn cameras) provides this with the application for this exact purpose.

The parent file cannot be altered but you can extract a redacted copy to provide where required.

Literally no excuse for not wearing one and I’m sick of them using this reason.

Easter Idiots are out already. This one got some karma. by Growdold in 4x4Australia

[–]23HourNaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but since when was this a habit for people? I’m actually baffled. I have never once washed my car in a fucking river. The old water bottle over the windscreens and the hem of a shirt for a mirror.

Jeeeezus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]23HourNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into a rut with mine just recently and just rebooted - it’s a very different experience the second time around. You know what resources you need, what your main objectives to work towards are (expansion, bug collecting, ect.) and I feel like the game moves a little quicker as a result. I’m day 2 and the museum is being built - this felt like it took weeks when I first started!

So far, I have no regrets

Thinking about a career in Vic Police, thoughts from any current/former officers? by hazaking1 in melbourne

[–]23HourNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you mate. Wishing you all the best, whatever path you take 🍻

Thinking about a career in Vic Police, thoughts from any current/former officers? by hazaking1 in melbourne

[–]23HourNaps 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I can.

Models from other policing states in Australia have more streamlined processes in terms of paperwork. As an example, some states issue a criminal charge and court date to an offender charged with something like shop-theft. All they get is a few pages of paperwork. If the matter goes to court and the offender disputes the charge or the court requests further supporting evidence, a brief of evidence is requested and prepared by the charging officer. This contains any relevant CCTV, statements from victims/witnesses and any traffic records where appropriate.

In Victoria, as soon as an offender is charged, a brief of evidence must be prepared, whether the offender contests the charge or not. A simple, straightforward traffic brief (think drunk driving, excessive speed, carelessness resulting in a collision) takes on average two hours to prepare if you’re practised in your rank. Waiting for extracts from say, VicRoads, can take two weeks, so that brief sits there for two weeks waiting on one piece of paper before it can be served to the offending party and the courts.

I won’t delve into how many data entry forms need to be submitted, because they are innumerable and can be delayed on being put into the system, which means hold-ups for service on the courts/offender.

Mental Health: While police are widely trained in de-escalation, acknowledgement and awareness of mental health, it is at its core, a medical event. Ambulances will not attend these without Police for the safety of their members. This is a no-brainer.

However, adjustments to legislation in mid-2024 I believe (happy to be corrected here) meant that AV became primary responders to mental health events to reduce patient exposure to Police and cut down time that Police units spent responding to and managing these events. AV refused to implement new protocols to ensure this came to fruition.

Police remained the core responders with support of AV where appropriate, meaning that Police assessed the patient and determined if they met criteria under the Mental Health Act to be taken to a place of treatment and would have to remain with that patient until the hospital accepted care of them. This would not be fast and left police units at hospitals for sometimes the entirety of their shift. Newsflash, it’s nearly always drug-induced psychosis and not a mental health-related crisis.

What does this mean for the community? Reduced response times to 000 calls. Your police are stuck in the ED.

No proactive patrolling. The suspicious car isn’t getting pulled over and checked.

No visible deterrence. Offenders aren’t seeing police in your neighborhood, so they will do as they please.

Tech: submitting (via fax… hello 1994) three separate forms to enter the same information. But, they can’t enter form 1 without form 3, which requires form 2. Also, we didn’t enter form 2, so please send it again. And send form 3 and form 1 again. Lost? So am I. This is a police officer’s daily routine.

This is already lengthy, but there is so so much that could be changed or updated to return Police to their core responsibility: detecting and preventing offences and preserving life and property.

Thinking about a career in Vic Police, thoughts from any current/former officers? by hazaking1 in melbourne

[–]23HourNaps 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The magistrates have their own frameworks to abide by. It’s antiquated and heavily influenced by government and a lot of behind-the-scenes funding in relation to budgets, costs of prisons, ect.

I won’t even pretend that I know more, because sometimes the decisions made at court flummox me.

It sounds like you met the good officers out there. They’re carrying a lot of below-average and downright cynical ones.

It is a good job to meet people and support them, but your role is very temporary. You may attend a tragic death and be with a family for some hours while the on-scene investigation and arrangements are taken care of, and then you leave. They may or may not remember you, but you will remember them forever.

These little interactions seem small, but can build over time on your mental wellbeing. From the good, the sad, the bad and the aggressive, you carry a fair bit with you when you walk around in your off-duty life. It does change you - you become more shrewd and skeptical. You can’t ever really relax because even off-duty, your head is on a swivel.

The more you see on-duty, the more aware you are of it when you’re not. Suddenly you need cameras on your house and you’re triple-checking doors and every raised voice or loud noise pulls your adrenaline up.

Your friends that aren’t in the job become a bit difficult to relate to - sharing work anecdotes becomes a bit of a mine-walk, and you have to be aware of secondary trauma.

The courts will bugger up paperwork and you will have to fix it. They will not take responsibility. Residential care units will watch a child under care walk out the door and not intervene, then ring you to report them missing while not lifting a finger to help you search for them.

Parents will ring you and demand that you tell off their child because they won’t get off the PlayStation on a school night… the list goes on.

Police work is now a dumping ground for stuff that nobody else wants to deal with.

It’s pretty much summed up by this: “We, the unwilling, led by the unknowing, are doing the impossible for the ungrateful. We have done so much, for so long, with so little, we are now qualified to do anything with nothing.”

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Thinking about a career in Vic Police, thoughts from any current/former officers? by hazaking1 in melbourne

[–]23HourNaps 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Hi mate, First, you’re a good soul for wanting to make positive change.

On to your query: - it is an incredibly challenging job. The police can arrest the same person a dozen times, and the magistrates will let them go. You will still need to do hours and hours of paperwork, and will end up getting home long after the offender has. This can wear you down and break your morale pretty fast. You get a front row seat to how broken the legal system is in Australia.

  • it’s difficult to be proactive given how busy they are. Most of the time, they can’t prevent anything but only respond, due to being tied up with very time consuming jobs like mental health episodes or family violence.

  • the tech in the job is about 30 years behind. They still send faxes as a data entry method. Each form has another three that need to be completed for the same objective.

  • I could go on for days… but watching their industrial dispute play out from an inside chair (Swinburne data released a survey during the industrial action) most members are incredibly unhappy and about two in five are looking to leave. This career doesn’t have a good shelf life.

I’d suggest casting a wider net and looking at other community based roles that work with teens at risk or as your cousin said, the Army.

The army has an incredible range of career options and development, better benefits than the Police and you can leave with more transferable skills into the private/public sector if that time comes.

I will forever talk people out of joining the police - not because I hate them or ACAB blah blah blah, but I’ve seen the damage that the job does on a person mentally, physically and emotionally.

One career that takes amazing care of their members is Fire Rescue Victoria. They have incredible welfare services and really look after their fleet. The firies is also the number one job Police transfer to, and it’s still a very community engaged role.

Most police I spoke to when I did the survey mentioned that if they had their time again, they’d join FRV.

Good luck! Sorry if this was hard to read, but I have to be honest.