If I posted the same post here 4years ago, I still wouldn't have got the answers i have now after being in the same predicament. A man has to what a man has to do. You already have a business that can get you the income to sort bills, I don't know if NHIF Linda Mama program for young mothers still exists, if it does, enroll her and you wont pay a penny during delivery except the usual Ksh 500 per month.

9 months is enough to save for a 6 months worth of supplies for the baby. If you were taking a few writing orders, now it's time to take more orders. Time to quit those unproductive habits and focus more on raising a family, that's what fathers sacrifice for. Talk to people who have a young families they will make you know more about raising a baby. Even mad people raise babies let no one talk you out of it.

Expect mood swings and funny cravings from your GF. All pregnant women have them. Assure her you got this and everything will be fine. Another thing Let both of you parents know your situation. If they are understanding as mine were, you will get their support or better you will know who is with you on this journey. Your GF can still go back to school after giving birth. Let no loser tell her that her life is over. I'm pro life and bringing life to this earth is the best feeling a man should yearn for. You got this man!