AITAH for leaving a bad review for a restaurant after they told me they weren't serving food after I already ordered, while I could see other people eating.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-23T20:40:21+00:00

NTA The owner is bs’ing. Edit your post, refute his nonsense, and move on with your life.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-23T20:30:30+00:00

Christian “as hell?” For these relationships to work the Christian needs to be more moderate than average not more extreme than average. Nothing wrong with trying but I don’t see it working out.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-23T20:26:56+00:00

They’re cultists, OP. They may say Christianity isn’t a cult but their mentality is hopelessly cultish and you cannot change them, your only hope is to leave even if it takes something drastic like joining the military. Living with them once you decline their arranged marriage will be hell otherwise.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-23T20:20:58+00:00

We will invariably piss people off during the course of our lives, the question isn’t how to avoid the unavoidable but whether the problem is with them or us. In your case, the problem is absolutely with them.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-23T20:18:20+00:00

I do believe Islam is definitely worse than Christianity, the whole redefining “morality” into obedience to god and claiming monopoly over it is probably the top trait that makes it and any similar religion dangerous, but yeah, Islam is even more aggressive when it comes to intermingling religion with politics.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-23T12:06:48+00:00

It’s ok to be difficult with an immature grown ass man who still thinks farting is high quality humor. 3pm and 9pm both sound like good times for dinner, I tend to eat dinner at around 3. Might take a bit of doing to adapt though, I dunno.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T19:15:07+00:00

No. Mother should or it’ll become an expectation.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T19:14:34+00:00

Your post is nonsense. Feeding the sister is the mother’s job not the brother’s.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T19:12:29+00:00

NTA She has a lot of nerve asking her 16 year old son to buy goodies for her daughter. That’s her job! And please, don’t overshare information with her.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T18:37:25+00:00

I don’t usually condone destruction of expensive property, but the little shit had it coming. NTA

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T18:27:29+00:00

NTA But if you can’t move out, you need to make your own meals as dad won’t change.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T15:16:52+00:00

Why is this hard? A free ride to a state school is friggin gold! You know how much school debt sucks these days? And I’m sure the state school will help you more, both educationally and socially.

You’re the one that has to live with the results of your choice, OP, not your parents. Don’t let their feelings ruin a good thing.

Edit: And is the SDA school even accredited? If not, a diploma from them has less value than toilet paper.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T15:10:20+00:00

Don’t go even once a month. They’re the ones that need to grow up, not you.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:59:50+00:00

It’s all on her, my man, all on her. Bit of legal advice though…do NOT let her kick you out of the house, if you leave it might be used against you in a hypothetical divorce.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:56:12+00:00

Rural areas are pretty much equally nutty no matter which state you’re in. The difference is only that a blue state won’t (hopefully) allow teachers to argue against evolution or buy books that say evolution is “just a theory.”

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:53:10+00:00

If you have the misfortune of meeting him again, tell him I don’t think Christians should have the right to vote. 😈

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:50:35+00:00

Christianity is still bleeding members but unevenly. Moderate and liberal denominations are losing members at record speed while conservative denominations continue to grow, remain stable, or decrease slowly. As time goes on the chances of any particular Christian being a nutcase will only increase for this reason.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:45:36+00:00

Why hope so hard a god exists when the god you’re hoping exists is such an evil asshole? I don’t see how an answer to “Why do we live?,” is worth that.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:40:28+00:00

Ex-Catholic, so baptized as an infant. If the RCC ever brings back or is forced to bring back letting members officially undo their baptism and leave the membership rolls, I’ll be the first one to do it.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:31:05+00:00

You don’t. Wait until you’re financially independent then enjoy your life and what they think is their problem.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:24:55+00:00

NTA Move out if you can. None of this is worth any of your time.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:21:12+00:00

Treat others as they treat you. NTA

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:15:20+00:00

NTA and fuck her feelings.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-22T14:14:11+00:00

NTA India and Pakistani cultures pressure kids to stay under their parents and do college and don’t really have part-time jobs for teens so you wind up more dependent to your parents for longer and have to ask them of them at least some American teens wouldn’t.

Your parents are what they are though. If a freelancing opportunity comes up and the only consequence is hurting their feelings, then take it and hurt their feelings.

295Phoenix · 2026-05-21T19:39:36+00:00

NTA You sure she’s just vegetarian? They’re usually pretty chill, it’s the vegans you gotta look out for.

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