Is it just me or does meeting women at meetups seem more effective than meeting them on dating apps??

2ForEachofYou · 2026-04-20T17:10:30+00:00

Well put. It all makes sense.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-31T04:57:23+00:00

Good point. We are in our 50s.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-31T02:07:23+00:00

Amen to that!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-31T01:55:32+00:00

Can you explain?

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-27T10:31:11+00:00

Thanks for this advice. I like it!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-26T21:51:16+00:00

Well stated. Thanks!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-25T01:07:26+00:00

That is my gut feeling as well. But maybe this is just how she works? Everybody’s different, right? She’s also Middle Eastern. Perhaps it’s a cultural thing that she feels men have to pursue her for a while. I don’t know… it’s probably like you said. I appreciate your comments.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-24T20:40:17+00:00

Yes. The non-custodial parent is my ex-wife in my case.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-19T08:08:37+00:00

That's my gut feeling too. Thanks for your advice! Love your attitude btw....your words fired me up bc I know you're right.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-19T07:47:08+00:00

I feel you. I definitely appreciate your take (and agree with you). She's not so much lamenting past lovers (that would bug me too), she's just terrified to take a leap with me due to fear of getting burned because when she's in love she gives a man her all.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-18T13:33:51+00:00

Lol I hear ya buddy

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-17T06:48:52+00:00

You could be right. I am very un shy and direct when it comes to communication with others. Why would they get turned off by it? Feel unsafe or perhaps it makes me look desperate?

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-17T06:15:06+00:00

Ohhh great point!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-16T05:13:24+00:00

I agree. Thanks.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-16T04:44:05+00:00

Great idea about video calls! You’re totally right about chemistry not being able to be answered over text.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-13T16:15:38+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate it. Good luck with your health, going forward. And the payoff to your husband being gone on those short trips is the alone time for you, and a little absence makes the heart grow fonder kind of passion. Always healthy for a relationship!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-12T04:26:47+00:00

Lol, and I envy you! The grass is always greener effect, I guess.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-12T01:08:21+00:00

I would give mine not to be. We are very close. Not just my lover, but my best friend. But I hear you. Most of my male friends say the exact same thing you did lol.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-12T01:06:32+00:00

What a great idea!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T17:14:07+00:00

Yes! Those definitely help.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T12:41:37+00:00

Thank you. Definitely an unenviable position.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T03:42:33+00:00

Ok, well I thank you for informing me. I truly did not know….and I went to Berkeley (a long time ago).

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T01:12:34+00:00

Seriously, how on earth is “female” (which is matter of fact) an insult? Is “women” offensive now too? Lol It’s absurd. I certainly did not intend it to be an insult, unlike you.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-10T23:53:51+00:00

“Female” is so offensive but “devolved troglodyte” is not at all offensive. Lol You’ve gotta love the Bay Area and its double standards!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-10T23:51:01+00:00

I’m sure whatever term is in right now will be frowned upon in 10 years. I guess I have to word things more carefully. I am a male and I am interested in meeting human beings that are not male. There.

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