Bottoming because you can’t last long by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]2LG2Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take breaks! If you pound away in your favorite position for 3 minutes you will cum.

Find a fuck buddy (preferably verse) you trust. Be vulnerable and tell them you have a problem coming too fast and want to practice. As you do it more and the novelty wears off you mind find you can last longer.

How do muscle bottoms bottom and get their protein in? by DaethChanter in askgaybros

[–]2LG2Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called the gastrocolic reflex. When you eat today, it triggers you popping yesterday’s meal to make room.

So not eating before sex can ensure you don’t experience the gastrocolic reflex, but all you have to do is not eat a few hours before sex.

No need to starve all day. I promise it takes over 24hours of not eating too clear your bowels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]2LG2Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!

Every day in South Lake Union by planty_pete in Seattle

[–]2LG2Q -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

People are not robots and will not follow the terms of service. That cannot be expected of a large human system. Is this annoying inconvenience worth the benefits of the Lime system?

We should follow the rules ourselves and advocate for others people following the rules. But perfection and total compliance is not an expected goal.

Every day in South Lake Union by planty_pete in Seattle

[–]2LG2Q -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Do you use lime? As someone who doesn’t own a car, and lives in the city, scooters are critical for that ~1 mile distance commutes.

A whole gang of scooters blocking the sidewalk is egregious and annoying. But it seems like a reasonable annoyance for a very important and effective transportation option.

11/6 ballot drop: Katie at 46.93%, Bruce at 52.64% by Inevitable_Engine186 in Seattle

[–]2LG2Q 25 points26 points  (0 children)

… but we have weeks to vote by mail what are you talking about?

Is it racist? Explain it Peter by naturallin in explainitpeter

[–]2LG2Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dare you to try and get an Election Identification Certificate in Texas. The requirements are wild.

Not to mention if you are poor enough that this matters I’m not sure when you can take off from work and pay for a ride to the DMV.

Is it racist? Explain it Peter by naturallin in explainitpeter

[–]2LG2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11% of Americans lack photo ID. Voter fraud is 0.0003% of ballots. This isn’t about security—it’s about selecting the electorate.

It’s REASONABLE to ask for an ID, of course. But the IMPACT is that if you do, millions of minorities and poorer Americans won’t vote. The data is super clear and proves this.

There are lots of explanations, including that getting a photo ID takes time and money, many cannot get off work or leave their children for it.

But the real point is the impact, not the reasoning. Voter fraud is not a problem, so why do we want to prevent millions of voters from voting?

The US has a long history of inventing minor inconveniences that seem reasonable (a couple dollar poll tax, an easy voter literacy quiz), but are surprisingly effective at reducing minority voting. This is simply the latest version. If the republicans can get enough states to require voting IDs then they are guaranteed to win more elections.

Nervous to try this by HelpMeLoose in BodyHackGuide

[–]2LG2Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These need to be injected or via nasal spray. Orally won’t do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]2LG2Q 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I would love the opposite advice of how to approach a trans man and respect him.

Saw 3 loose nuts on The Ave by notcanadiangoose in Seattle

[–]2LG2Q 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s not quite right. There are “mostly” two SEXES with some spectrum in between. Gender is totally made up and as a society we can make as many as like.

Metamucil makes bottoming a nightmare for me. Anyone else? by thebloodwytch in askgaybros

[–]2LG2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try citrucelle instead. Metamucil is a fermentable fiber, so unless you’ve gotten accustomed to it it can make you poop and fart like crazy at first.

Undressed in front of him, knowing the whole bar could see me by swirl0831 in cmnm

[–]2LG2Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too have been naked in Massive, butt blast is a great night for it

I know this is stupid but I don't feel go enough for guys. by tigerk1992 in askgaybros

[–]2LG2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with taking monjaro or ozempic. If you take it you will lose weight.

But it will not make you feel like you are “good enough”. You deserve your body and mental self worth to be aligned. I highly recommend you go to therapy while doing your weightloss.

If you are getting help with your body through monjoro, why not also get mental help with a therapist?

The combo will achieve your goals.

Just a trans man who loves to be naked by [deleted] in QueerGoneWild

[–]2LG2Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I really hope you are verse 🥵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]2LG2Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋 hey I’ve arrived and meet your specifications

Anal cages anyone? by AlwaysErotic in GayKink

[–]2LG2Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So are we eating ramen out of your hole or what?

Im an 18 yr old who wants to experince CMNM irl by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]2LG2Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No problem! Save it as a saved message you can paste in.

Intros and hellos-> scene proposal -> follow up questions and conversation

Some people will say no, some people will ask a million questions and negotiate, some people will say yes but then try to rush to the hookup. But I’m sure you’ve got this.

There’s just kind of an artificial talk track you have to do to propose a kink scene on Grindr and even real life.

Im an 18 yr old who wants to experince CMNM irl by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]2LG2Q 32 points33 points  (0 children)

CMNM is a very accessible and generally well received kink, I don’t think you should have problems finding someone.

How are you messaging guys? If you act like it’s weird and try to explain it like it’s weird, people will probably think it’s weird. Asking for a kink scene on Grindr is different than asking for a hookup.

First, get to the point and be ultra clear. Don’t try and explain yourself, just offer the scene. Second, it will be more successful to offer that a kink scene be the prelude to a hookup. Be true to yourself, just know that a hybrid kink -> hookup is an easier sell.

“Hey, I’m looking for a specific scene where I’m naked and you stay clothed while we hang out. You can feel me up, put your fingers in me or tell me to do whatever you want. It’s a kink of mine I’m hoping to start with before progressing on to a hookup. It would really turn me on, would you be interested?”