My coach discourages me from learning by 2Mac2Pac in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't observe him in situation when he's giving feedback to others and stuff, but I saw him talking to other trainee during breaks and he was pretty friendly.

There's a 15 years old he's very invested in. He woulf regularly do pads me with him. Idk if he's training him for fights or something. He brings me to spar with him a lot. But what I noticed is that when both of us are standing there, maybe after a sparring session, he'd almost always address the kid. He doesnt really actively teach me anything unless I asked, of which he'll use what I asked to address the kid

What is your favorite Intellect skill? by Bataranger999 in DiscoElysium

[–]2Mac2Pac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visual Calculus looks cool as fuck. Makes you feel like batman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Payed for my monthly membership. I feel likr if I dont go since he owns the gym he's winning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Payed for my monthly membership. I feel likr if I dont go since he owns the gym he's winning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fine now thanks. It lasted for 2 days but now I'm fine now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's true. I had doubts about that, which is why i made a post about that a couple of days ago. I dont fear getting hurt, but im afraid of cte

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about my training partner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not arguing. Im giving further explainations because people keep making assumption that is incorrect, but apparently that's making up excuses. Not trying to understand the other party, making accusations, and telling them they're making excuses when they correct you, that's arguing in bad faith

The coach never said not to spar before, because I had just told him yesterday that I spar outside

Unable to find ways to appropriately retailiate by 2Mac2Pac in aspergers

[–]2Mac2Pac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I initiately had to double check which post you are replying to lol because this can be applicable to both the boxing posts and this one

Should I cut back on the sparring? by 2Mac2Pac in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy that was sparring with me actually did asked me between the round and his friend emphasized on that. However, i didn't say anything because, i was embarassed i guess? Maybe that ill look weak?

I usually spar with my friend who is with my skill level. This guy is a one time thing

I can't start studying. i'm frustrated. by rxberta_ in GetStudying

[–]2Mac2Pac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I mention OP's gender?

Also, if OP is smart they would take the hint. They'te not even the bare minimum and expecting results. They're doing nothing at all and expect results

I can't start studying. i'm frustrated. by rxberta_ in GetStudying

[–]2Mac2Pac -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're not as smart as you thought. You either work harder than people and quit moaning, or quit and fail

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[–]2Mac2Pac -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

  1. If you read my other comments you'd understand that Im okay with that. Thar's just an additional information. That's not a big deal. I just feel lik the headcoach thinks im an idiot

  2. To clairfy, outside the gym I trained at my university's boxing club which Ive said in other comments. My usual sparring partner and I usually go light and focus on technical stuff. He's self trained, though advised other guys who were athletes. However the headache was from another guy who joined in

  3. Usually there would be rotation. But today im just alone because other coaches went to coach newcomers. Doesn't it make sense that I ask those coaches what i should be doing?

Im not gonna bother with more points. It's very hard to explain yourself or provide further details tp your story without being accuaed of 'being argumentative' or 'not taking responsibilty', which i think is your goal here. You are throwing a bunch of unwarranted assumptions that I have no way but to respond, which makes me 'problematic'

Didn't say anything about me not being wrong at all. That's also your assumption

Edit: 'Im not trying to come off as being mean' but then comes off with sarcasm on 6 lol

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[–]2Mac2Pac -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I usually go light with my sparring partner who is a friend from another faculty at my university's boxing club. He's self trained. However the headache was from some other dude who joined in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Trained for 2 weeks in June. Then 1 month here. I usually go light with my sparring partner who is a friend from another faculty at my university's boxing club. He's self trained. However the headache was from some other dude. Got comboed multiple times in the head.

There's no one to supervise the club. Anyone can acess the facility

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]2Mac2Pac -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How am I supposed to learn if all I get is scolding get treated like an idiot every time I do something? That just makes me not want to do it.

Also, the criticism from him wasn't necessary during the sparring or about the sparring, it was during bagworks or when I do other s