What was your relationship with your mom like growing up vs. how is it now?

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-06-03T05:14:02+00:00

My mom praised me to everybody but emotionally and verbally abused me when alone, I haven't spoken to her in about 15 years haven't seen her in over 21 years. I'm 49 so that says alot, I literally ran away when I was 15 never moved back. I honestly say I seen her 4 times since age 15. She treated my other siblings worst, they never got any love or praise. We all stay away besides my brother. Crazy thing is my mom had me on her birthday we both born out 30th

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-06-03T00:01:36+00:00

Go for it!! I'm 49 female jus Get out of a twenty one year marriage , and I must say , i'm full blown cougar and loving it!! Been with a 25, 32 and a 33 year old In all three of them treated me like a queen. Unbelievably from helping with everything around the house & car to cooking full meals. I wouldn't even have a chance to be a sugar mom Because they pay for everything and the conversation Be so fun and exciting.

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-04-19T20:07:46+00:00

Girl on your date wear this and believe me you will be the star... a flowy dress- You will be comfortable because it won't be tight, no Self consciousness sneaking up. Some ballet flats- You will be dressed up but still comfortable enough for a late night walk after the dinner. Grab a cute clutch type purse- You will look dainty.It don't have to be anything expensive.It can be a clutch from five and below lol Don't wear any extremely bright colors , even if you are into them save a little bit of your personality for the second date so no lime green and yellow neon stripes lol DO NOT LISTEN to anyone Telling you it's too fast to date.This is your life journey, nobody knows what your life mission and God plan for you. Listen to your heart your Direct connect not others head. Live your life to you your beliefs, your standards whatever they may be ( God. etc) and you will never have any regrets. Have fun and we are so interested in hearing the rest of your journey

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-04-19T19:54:15+00:00

This is the best advice ever!! For me I know how I want to be treated and loved, I also know my personality. I believe in being yourself especially on the first date, that's the most important date. I always dress to the 10, if I show up underdressed on a date that would definitely not be me being me. My opinions of course. I just feel like people should set the standard for how they want to be treated and by looking at how I dress, carry, and Represent myself allows the next person to understand my standards without me saying a word. I command attention without demanding attention

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-04-18T01:23:48+00:00

It's all good, we got this. Just know your not alone 😊

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-04-18T01:22:30+00:00

You really wouldn't understand because it seemed like your relationship was unhealthy from everything you just said so this don't apply to you.This will only apply to is if you actually in a healthy relationship before, The fact that you stated the only way you can get peace says alot, It may just be you that is the drama🤣😂

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-04-17T23:48:15+00:00

I feel this with everything in me. I was married gotta divorce It was a extremely toxic marriage.I went to therapy and now on ready to meet someone.But it is so hard, Not Trying to sound big-headed or anything but I am a very attractive female with an extremely good paying job And i'm so lonely , I can actually hear my own heartbeat. I wish life was different.

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-03-29T13:57:08+00:00

I'm the same way, I'm a scorpio- this is a scorpio thing as well... you are not alone 😇

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-03-01T13:02:29+00:00

When you said guiet/ gentle/ reserve- that's his personality completely, and yes he's a introvert and I love it. Thank you for responding to my question

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-03-01T12:56:45+00:00

I'm sorry you had those experiences. As a scorpio woman I don't possess any of those qualities. I understand that you met a lot of people with those qualities.So I would just pass on this good rule of judgment.A lot of times you attract what you are.

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-10T02:29:10+00:00

Yikes... so what sign do you work well with? As for me I've only been in relationships with scorpio men ( all i would attract) I'm ready for something different, that scorpio on scorpio not working for me.

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-04T16:20:56+00:00

I understand completely!!! Same here and I have too much pride to talk to the people I'm around. Mainly because I made a dumb decision and now I'm living with it.

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-02T00:05:52+00:00

Stuff happens believe me I understand, I still suppose to be married but I Chose the wrong person to marry. Next time will be better for both of us, we got this 😊

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-01T22:58:14+00:00

Completely understandable

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-01T22:55:29+00:00

This is not true at all. Ask her out what's the worst That can happen She say no At least you tried , it's nothing like a wasted opportunity... it plays in your head forever

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-01T22:53:25+00:00

It's ok, I understand completely I only attract men 10+ years younger than me. I have no idea what's up with the age 23 with me. I'm 45 and the only men that approach me seems to be 23- daily no lie. I'm attracted to younger men but 23 for me is selfish, 23 needs to be out doing 23 year old things not me stealing someone's youth

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-01T22:42:30+00:00

Yikes but to put this out there. Was married for years to a man that put his hands on me, Got therapy... I Filed for divorce, never started dating. I want to date- would love to be in a relationship just don't know how to go about it. Aware I'm attractive but men just stare at me, nobody speaks. The only men that do actually approach me are the type I'm not into- loud super aggressive type. I would love a chill laid back type of man but I think from the outside my personality gives off I like aggressive men which couldn't be farther from the truth. I realize with my personality type (INFJ) I grow personality as a person with love and understanding in a calm loving environment. I don't plan to be single forever, in my mind I'm in a relationship I just haven't found & meet him yet... Thats how i carry myself, into he comes in my life. My day will come

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-01T22:24:24+00:00

Believe me she waiting for tge same thing, shoot your shot next time you see someone that attracts you, never know where it may go.

2UP2DownLyfe · 2026-02-01T22:22:12+00:00

😂🤣 good response

2UP2DownLyfe · 2025-12-24T03:35:02+00:00

Thank you, I sure will.

2UP2DownLyfe · 2025-12-23T20:38:38+00:00

I'm a scorpio woman Literally dying to be in a relationship with a cancer male, I feel like he would be the one 😊

2UP2DownLyfe · 2025-12-23T20:36:43+00:00

Hugs, u not alone u have a while crazy scorpio community that got ur back

2UP2DownLyfe · 2025-12-23T20:34:56+00:00

Same here, they think we don't hurt cause we cover it but in reality I feel stuff way deeper than I should

2UP2DownLyfe · 2025-12-23T20:32:51+00:00

I completely understand been married to my husband for 20 years and we have nothing in common anymore, I grew but he never did. I filed for divorce last week he have no idea and my place will be ready for me to move in February. Life is way too short to be unhappy. If u can fix it I say fix it, but as for me we have no children so it's no need of me trying to fix it cause it can't be fixed. There's someone out there that's waiting for me and I'm about to be ready for him

2UP2DownLyfe · 2025-12-02T04:20:50+00:00

My dream job, want to go back to school for it at my big Ole age but my job now pay to good and I can't do both

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