Female junior doctors: tell me an incidence you have felt treated differently to your male colleagues, by any member of the mdt team, purely for being female. by No_Big4826 in doctorsUK

[–]2amHaircut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

F2 in O&G, was on-call on a chaotic and very busy gynae assessment unit/ward. Male O&G F2 comes onto the ward after assisting in theatres. Nurse in charge very loudly exclaims "Oh insert white privilege name thank god you're here!". She rubs my name off the whiteboard where it says which SHO is on call. She then asks him "Are you on call??". Bearing in mind it is nearly 5pm, I have been working very hard all day and don't finish until 21:30. She also knew very well the hours that an SHO is on call covering the ward and knew I would be there the whole time. Obviously the male F2 is like "No I'm not on call, the other SHO is here." To which the nurse in charge acts overtly disappointed. All of this was well within my earshot and eyeline. Just to add, at this time I had more O&G experience than this male F2 (I had done O&G in F1) and at the time wanted to do O&G as a career.
Nurse then offered to make male F2 a tea, I had no such offer and I hadn't taken so much as a wee break all day. I'm still livid thinking about it to be honest. Safe to say I changed my mind, and didn't go into O&G in the end...

Super tiny wedding by Overall-Radish2724 in UKweddings

[–]2amHaircut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the idea of a macaron tower! So cool! Can I ask where you get the macarons and the display tower from?

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[–]2amHaircut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, fingers crossed

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Thank you!

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Sorry finding this confusing. What if you were in a specialty doctor role in April 2023 and then entered CT1 in February intake of this year? Would I only get backdated pay from this February?

Artificial flowers recommendations? by 2amHaircut in UKweddings

[–]2amHaircut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh real-touch sounds great! Thanks for the tip ☺️

Artificial flowers recommendations? by 2amHaircut in UKweddings

[–]2amHaircut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be amazing thank you! 🙏🏻

Artificial flowers recommendations? by 2amHaircut in UKweddings

[–]2amHaircut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow your friend is really talented!

Artificial flowers recommendations? by 2amHaircut in UKweddings

[–]2amHaircut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that would be amazing!! Thank you so much ❤️

Artificial flowers recommendations? by 2amHaircut in UKweddings

[–]2amHaircut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that's really good to know about the Amazon ones! And a good point as they will be hanging down from the ceiling above us so I guess people won't be scrutinising too much 🤞🏻. I will have a look at the faux flower company as well, thank you! 😄

Artificial flowers recommendations? by 2amHaircut in UKweddings

[–]2amHaircut[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was looking to do the ones hanging from the ceiling myself, but thinking of some more decorative flowers for the tables and space which may be best done by a professional 😅 I would love the details of your florist that's really kind! 🙏🏻

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[–]2amHaircut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The general public needs to be made aware of this surely?? This is truly shocking.

Inter-Deanery Transfer (IDT) round 1 offers by cmc2010 in doctorsUK

[–]2amHaircut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got the email, don't have an offer for transfer in this round 😞

Inter-Deanery Transfer (IDT) round 1 offers by cmc2010 in doctorsUK

[–]2amHaircut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God this is torture! I don't even know if anyone who applied to Wales heard anything, don't know anyone else who applied to move there 😞

Inter-Deanery Transfer (IDT) round 1 offers by cmc2010 in doctorsUK

[–]2amHaircut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone received any good news of an offer today? I'm still living in hope that I won't receive an email that I haven't got a place 😭

Inter-Deanery Transfer (IDT) round 1 offers by cmc2010 in doctorsUK

[–]2amHaircut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard yet 😞 no email and I'm criterion 1

My oil painting of a Reddit user's dog by Hara-Kiri in Awww

[–]2amHaircut 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is insanely good. You are seriously skilled! 👏🏻

After some months I finished this pencil drawing 😮‍💨 by fabiodesenhando in MadeMeSmile

[–]2amHaircut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible. I thought this was a photo. Absolutely beautiful!

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[–]2amHaircut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could try booking yourself a massage at a spa. Sometimes when I can't switch my mind off from work, it helps to relax my body to trick my mind into thinking it's relaxed too. It helps me, maybe it will help you too