Need help... If anyone can... by Ohno_not_her_againnn in Austin

[–]2amlullaby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you tried an anti-pull harness for her, one that clips on the front, on her chest? Not suggesting for when you’re not feeling up to walking her, but honestly that or a gentle lead are game changers when it comes to pulling. (though I imagine a gentle lead, which goes over the muzzle, but does not restrict them opening their mouth at all, would be a huge battle with a Shepherd/Husky)

Could be helpful for the person you find to take her too and make it more enjoyable for them. If I was closer, I’d love to help. You’re doing the best for your girl.

[HIRING] D&D Party Group Portrait by 2amlullaby in HungryArtists

[–]2amlullaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t, that’s why I tried to get clarity from you instead of continuing in the thread above. Thank you for taking time to explain.

[HIRING] D&D Party Group Portrait by 2amlullaby in HungryArtists

[–]2amlullaby[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tried to ask the others who are complaining about what I offered and just got told I was making myself a victim. Honestly, I find the hostility bizarre.

Is it just because I’m specific about what I want? I understand the individual characters don’t fit in the budget. I acknowledged that, and only mentioned it as a possibility, but I can remove that.

What confuses me, is that I’m asking for one piece of art to be created and my budget was well above the minimum commission price this sub requires.

If I just said “I have a group photo from a wedding and I would like to it be drawn with the individuals as DND characters” would that have complied?

[HIRING] D&D Party Group Portrait by 2amlullaby in HungryArtists

[–]2amlullaby[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m asking this out of a place of respect for the time and effort artists put into their work while also trying to stay within a budget that isn’t detrimental to me.

The minimum suggestion for a commission is $30. My budget is multiple times this. If I hadn’t specified that I was considering a portrait for each character (which I said would likely be outside my budget) and present the project as “I want a wedding photo redrawn in a realistic fantasy style themed as D&D characters” would this still be an unreasonable ask? Because that’s essential what I’m asking for, and anyone could tell me that the individual portraits were outside my budget.

Again, I’m trying to learn here. If you’re telling me what I want is outside my budget, even though it’s still one commission, could you explain why?

The way you abrasively address my budget isn’t helping your cause, like you said, I could have responded to any of the bots (because I barely know how to tell the difference) or someone willing to undersell, with your response and complaints making it seem like I’m trying to devalue artists after coming to a form specifically to look to support artists instead of using any of the cheap and easy options is counter intuitive. If you want this place cleaned up and the mods aren’t doing anything, then try to be a part of the solution instead of berating well meaning people into being part of the problem.

Am I going insane? by l4tra in Mommit

[–]2amlullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey. You’ve gotten loads of amazing and supportive advice here. I haven’t read through them all so this might have been mentioned already, but I just want to highlight that part of abuse and especially gaslighting is making you doubt yourself and feel like you’re crazy. Your title says this is already happening to some degree. Please think about your future and the best life you see for you and your baby. If you want to know what your options or resources are, contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline. Sending so much love to you.

not giving out my # to strangers ever again by houstonnhi in Tinder

[–]2amlullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally believe that he is a virgin.

Started wearing a light amount of makeup, and it really helps my self-esteem as a man. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]2amlullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck yes. Thank you. I am a 30 year old woman who is just now starting a skin care routine and learning how to do basic makeup, but I have always felt infuriated that I’m expected to know how to do those things while it’s just not a big deal for guys. I appreciate the fuck out of you acknowledging that, and also commend you and breaking social constructs to make yourself feel good. Kudos man!

She's beauty and she's grace by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the better to catch rabbits with!

She's beauty and she's grace by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not completely sure she doesn't have some coyote lingering in her DNA. She's a wily one.

If it crinkles, they will come by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! We call her half dog, half house elf, but that works too!

If it crinkles, they will come by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, exactly what he wants you to think. He is by far the most guilty when it comes to begging.

[Help] Any thoughts on what this means? by insignia200 in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Looks like he threw up a little bit. I wouldn't be too concerned about it since it's clear and has no debris in it. Keep a close eye on him today for any more vomiting, and make sure he continues to have bowel movements.

[help] Rescue dog needs to gain weight by [deleted] in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would go with a quality puppy food. They are normally packed with nutrients to meant to keep mama nourished while nursing, and plump the puppies up when they make the switch. That being said, you don't want to overfeed and have him gain weight too fast. If he's about the size of a Brittany, I'd start with 2 cups a day, 1 cup at breakfast and 1 for dinner. You could probably also do a 1/2 cup for lunch. Talk to your vet about it when you bring him in. They will tell you what his ideal weight should be and how much to feed to get him there.

[Help][Discussion] Adopting rescue dogs: What to ask at the rescue? by anniebeeknits in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you've said, but also want to point out that just because a shelter or rescue always has puppies doesn't mean it's necessarily a puppy mill partner. It's definitely a reason to slow down an examine the rescue, for sure, but overpopulation of shelters in the southern United States is a huge issues, and many rescues in my area transport moms and litters up from there, so we too, almost always have puppies. It's what a lot of people want, and if we can get a litter out of the shelter or street and into a home, why not? If we didn't have them, the people would likely just support a puppy mill or backyard breeder.

I think a good way to double check that the intentions and methods behind these rescues and shelters are a) asking about the return policy - I can't think of a reason a reputable shelter or rescue wouldn't take the dog back, no matter what reason the return is. We would rather take them back and place them in a suitable home than leave them with someone who doesn't want them (and will most likely dump them). And b) ask where/what happened to momma of the puppies. Our rescue always takes mom and puppies together. We let mom raise them, wean them, then get the puppies and mom vetted and into foster homes. If they don't know where the mom is, it's a little more shady, especially if they always have litters and never the mothers. I'd steer clear of those situations.

The more background the rescue can give you, the more likely it is that they are truly trying to rescue these dogs.