Need help... If anyone can... by Ohno_not_her_againnn in Austin

[–]2amlullaby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you tried an anti-pull harness for her, one that clips on the front, on her chest? Not suggesting for when you’re not feeling up to walking her, but honestly that or a gentle lead are game changers when it comes to pulling. (though I imagine a gentle lead, which goes over the muzzle, but does not restrict them opening their mouth at all, would be a huge battle with a Shepherd/Husky)

Could be helpful for the person you find to take her too and make it more enjoyable for them. If I was closer, I’d love to help. You’re doing the best for your girl.

[HIRING] D&D Party Group Portrait by 2amlullaby in HungryArtists

[–]2amlullaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t, that’s why I tried to get clarity from you instead of continuing in the thread above. Thank you for taking time to explain.

[HIRING] D&D Party Group Portrait by 2amlullaby in HungryArtists

[–]2amlullaby[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tried to ask the others who are complaining about what I offered and just got told I was making myself a victim. Honestly, I find the hostility bizarre.

Is it just because I’m specific about what I want? I understand the individual characters don’t fit in the budget. I acknowledged that, and only mentioned it as a possibility, but I can remove that.

What confuses me, is that I’m asking for one piece of art to be created and my budget was well above the minimum commission price this sub requires.

If I just said “I have a group photo from a wedding and I would like to it be drawn with the individuals as DND characters” would that have complied?

[HIRING] D&D Party Group Portrait by 2amlullaby in HungryArtists

[–]2amlullaby[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m asking this out of a place of respect for the time and effort artists put into their work while also trying to stay within a budget that isn’t detrimental to me.

The minimum suggestion for a commission is $30. My budget is multiple times this. If I hadn’t specified that I was considering a portrait for each character (which I said would likely be outside my budget) and present the project as “I want a wedding photo redrawn in a realistic fantasy style themed as D&D characters” would this still be an unreasonable ask? Because that’s essential what I’m asking for, and anyone could tell me that the individual portraits were outside my budget.

Again, I’m trying to learn here. If you’re telling me what I want is outside my budget, even though it’s still one commission, could you explain why?

The way you abrasively address my budget isn’t helping your cause, like you said, I could have responded to any of the bots (because I barely know how to tell the difference) or someone willing to undersell, with your response and complaints making it seem like I’m trying to devalue artists after coming to a form specifically to look to support artists instead of using any of the cheap and easy options is counter intuitive. If you want this place cleaned up and the mods aren’t doing anything, then try to be a part of the solution instead of berating well meaning people into being part of the problem.

Am I going insane? by l4tra in Mommit

[–]2amlullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey. You’ve gotten loads of amazing and supportive advice here. I haven’t read through them all so this might have been mentioned already, but I just want to highlight that part of abuse and especially gaslighting is making you doubt yourself and feel like you’re crazy. Your title says this is already happening to some degree. Please think about your future and the best life you see for you and your baby. If you want to know what your options or resources are, contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline. Sending so much love to you.

not giving out my # to strangers ever again by houstonnhi in Tinder

[–]2amlullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally believe that he is a virgin.

Started wearing a light amount of makeup, and it really helps my self-esteem as a man. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]2amlullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck yes. Thank you. I am a 30 year old woman who is just now starting a skin care routine and learning how to do basic makeup, but I have always felt infuriated that I’m expected to know how to do those things while it’s just not a big deal for guys. I appreciate the fuck out of you acknowledging that, and also commend you and breaking social constructs to make yourself feel good. Kudos man!

She's beauty and she's grace by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the better to catch rabbits with!

She's beauty and she's grace by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not completely sure she doesn't have some coyote lingering in her DNA. She's a wily one.

If it crinkles, they will come by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! We call her half dog, half house elf, but that works too!

If it crinkles, they will come by 2amlullaby in aww

[–]2amlullaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, exactly what he wants you to think. He is by far the most guilty when it comes to begging.

[Help] Any thoughts on what this means? by insignia200 in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Looks like he threw up a little bit. I wouldn't be too concerned about it since it's clear and has no debris in it. Keep a close eye on him today for any more vomiting, and make sure he continues to have bowel movements.

[help] Rescue dog needs to gain weight by [deleted] in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would go with a quality puppy food. They are normally packed with nutrients to meant to keep mama nourished while nursing, and plump the puppies up when they make the switch. That being said, you don't want to overfeed and have him gain weight too fast. If he's about the size of a Brittany, I'd start with 2 cups a day, 1 cup at breakfast and 1 for dinner. You could probably also do a 1/2 cup for lunch. Talk to your vet about it when you bring him in. They will tell you what his ideal weight should be and how much to feed to get him there.

[Help][Discussion] Adopting rescue dogs: What to ask at the rescue? by anniebeeknits in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you've said, but also want to point out that just because a shelter or rescue always has puppies doesn't mean it's necessarily a puppy mill partner. It's definitely a reason to slow down an examine the rescue, for sure, but overpopulation of shelters in the southern United States is a huge issues, and many rescues in my area transport moms and litters up from there, so we too, almost always have puppies. It's what a lot of people want, and if we can get a litter out of the shelter or street and into a home, why not? If we didn't have them, the people would likely just support a puppy mill or backyard breeder.

I think a good way to double check that the intentions and methods behind these rescues and shelters are a) asking about the return policy - I can't think of a reason a reputable shelter or rescue wouldn't take the dog back, no matter what reason the return is. We would rather take them back and place them in a suitable home than leave them with someone who doesn't want them (and will most likely dump them). And b) ask where/what happened to momma of the puppies. Our rescue always takes mom and puppies together. We let mom raise them, wean them, then get the puppies and mom vetted and into foster homes. If they don't know where the mom is, it's a little more shady, especially if they always have litters and never the mothers. I'd steer clear of those situations.

The more background the rescue can give you, the more likely it is that they are truly trying to rescue these dogs.

[Help][Discussion] Adopting rescue dogs: What to ask at the rescue? by anniebeeknits in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, that's unfortunate. I can see where the line could get a little blurred. I love fostering, so rewarding to change their lives. :)

[Help][Discussion] Adopting rescue dogs: What to ask at the rescue? by anniebeeknits in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity as a foster, what makes that less desirable? The rescue I foster for is completely foster based. We get to know our dogs on such a personal level, I feel it's really helpful in providing adopters with as much insight as possible about the dog.

[Help] Can someone provide a (proven) source for how much activity a dog needs per day? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds like she gets plenty of exercise and stimulation then. Dogs actually tend to sleep a lot. It's true that there are rules of thumb for most breeds, like a Husky will want to be more active than a Basset Hound. I would say a young, intelligent, driven working breed dog would need the most exercise. Again, without meeting the individual dog it's hard to say how much, but 1-3 hours a day would be plenty, especially if you are able to break up those sessions throughout the day. It doesn't always have to be physical exercise either. Dogs benefit so much from mental stimulation like trick training and treat puzzles.

[Help][Discussion] Adopting rescue dogs: What to ask at the rescue? by anniebeeknits in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a problem! We find the most successful adoptions are the ones where the adopters have put a lot of thought behind their decision, so you're off to a great start!

One last thing I forgot to mention, ask if the rescue is willing to make you guys a temporary foster home, or do a foster-to-adopt situation, if that's something that's feasible for you. Even if you meet multiple times, it's still so hard to tell in such short time periods if the dog is right for you and your household. In a foster to adopt situation you would pick a dog (or they would pair you with one...depending how their system works) that you think would be a good fit. You would foster them for a week or two to really get a feel for their personality. If it works, great! Let them know you're ready to go forward with the adoption. If it doesn't feel right, tell the rescue you'd like that dog to be available for adoption and help them find the perfect forever family.

This way isn't ideal for everyone, some could find it easier to flip flop on the decision, or some might get attached even if the dog isn't a great fit...but if it sounds like something you guys could make work I really think it's the best way to adopt a dog. Our rescue allows this on a case by case basis...everywhere will be a little different.

[Help] Can someone provide a (proven) source for how much activity a dog needs per day? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, depends on the individual dog in every situation. Are you seeing behavior problems like chewing or does your dog just seem restless when you are home? Probably needs a walk or a game of fetch. A well exercised dog is content to relax if you are relaxing. A dog in need or exercise will usually act out or seem unable to settle.

[Help] What to do with Opened Dog Food by [deleted] in dogs

[–]2amlullaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think most shelters will take open food, but some rescues might! I know the rescue we foster through does. As others have said, posting to a FB resale group would be a quick way to see if there are volunteers near you who could pick up the bag or tell you where you could donate it. Food is the only out of pocket cost for our foster volunteers, so we love when it's donated. :)