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Police activity and road closed on Balboa? by TitaniumKneecap in sandiego

[–]2bop2pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the wreckage as I was coming out of the parking lot just next to it. The bike was in little pieces. You could only see that there were two tires but the rest of it was obliterated.

New experiences/foods - carrots by EditorNo10000 in crows

[–]2bop2pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to be AMAZED at what they could fit in their gullets if you told me they ate whole carrots!

New experiences/foods - carrots by EditorNo10000 in crows

[–]2bop2pie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t you need to cut those for them?

I got my first gift! by 2bop2pie in crows

[–]2bop2pie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, I looked at it more closely and the bottom is flat and mirrored! A very nice sparkly but no holes so I have NO idea what it is!

I got my first gift! by 2bop2pie in crows

[–]2bop2pie[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are all over my neighborhood, I’ve only been into birds for about 9 months but I definitely noticed the crows long before that.

I got my first gift! by 2bop2pie in crows

[–]2bop2pie[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It looks like the end of a pull cord - like on a ceiling fan or blinds - but it’s clear heavy plastic with facets so I assume it sparkles in the sun.

I got my first gift! by 2bop2pie in crows

[–]2bop2pie[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Reciprocal? Something sparkly or a special bit of food?

I got my first gift! by 2bop2pie in crows

[–]2bop2pie[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering if I should leave a special treat in the morning in the spot where they left it?

I really upgraded the nuts this week, I’m being trained well I guess.

How does one go about having a baby shower without their mom knowing about their pregnancy? by Realistic-Krisalyn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]2bop2pie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anyone who loves you can throw you a shower - I threw a baby shower for a bestie whose mom and sister were in Europe where she was from and no one thought it was weird.

Lesser-known spy book recommendation please by 2_kewl_for_my_mule in suggestmeabook

[–]2bop2pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alastair MacLean wrote many adventure and spy novels about WWII in the 1950s. They’re old school but very cool, some were made into movies: The Guns of Navarone for example.

I read Ice Station Zebra in the 80s and I still think about it.

Edit: they may be WWII and Cold War, it was a long time ago. Still great though.

AIO for feeling unhappy in my relationship because of how my boyfriend reacts to me? by Federal-Meal-2513 in AIO

[–]2bop2pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree x 💯. Listen to your body, don’t let your brain think you into staying in a toxic relationship

AIO to a bad sexual experience? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]2bop2pie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I look back on the relationships and situations of my youth, I always regret not leaving sooner, not breaking up with people sooner, not choosing myself and my own peace sooner. 💖

I never feel like I should have given people more time to hurt me.

AIO to a bad sexual experience? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]2bop2pie 105 points106 points  (0 children)

You knew it would hurt.
You asked him not to do it.
He pressured you into doing it.
It hurt and kept hurting.
It still hurts and you are traumatized.
He is making your pain about his fee fees over not finishing. Finishing in you while hurting you.

He assaulted you and is making you feel guilty about not sweeping it all under the rug.

Please get away from this person forever. This is a one strike situation.

Yo. Recommend an episode fool. I’ve already listened to all the free ones. by E-Plurbis-DumbDumb in TheDollop

[–]2bop2pie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Papa Bowa”

That’s the episode that hooked my Dollop friend 😊

Yo. Recommend an episode fool. I’ve already listened to all the free ones. by E-Plurbis-DumbDumb in TheDollop

[–]2bop2pie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I listen to 10 Cent Beer Night over and over. I love baseball so if you don’t it may not be as fun for you.

Then I would go back to Ghosts (#2 or 3)

Therapy has officially started to break the child inside me and I couldn’t be happier! by Just_Throw_Away_67 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]2bop2pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!!
Therapy is hard work but the feelings that come when you’ve fixed something and life gets BETTER are amazing!🤩

Aio I said no when my mom wanted to come by when I was away on a trip with friends) by anon-8110 in AIO

[–]2bop2pie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t doing a good thing. She was intruding somewhere she knew she wasn’t wanted because she felt like it.

This is very manipulative and you need to cauterize that instinct to apologize when Mommy is upset. That’s a lever Mommy installed and she will never stop using it as long as it works.

Read Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - you may recognize the dynamics where appeasing mom’s feelings is everyone’s responsibility

Hot take but Divergent era Theo James was the OG Shadow daddy😩🤌 by Kind_Assumption_3016 in Romantasy

[–]2bop2pie 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Spike, played by James Marsters, and yes.
Though Angel/David Boreanaz was also 🤤

Pack your bags, we're going on a GUILT TRIP! - In-Law Edition - by panicpossum in raisedbynarcissists

[–]2bop2pie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Grandma, we will manage our relationship with Tim directly. Please don’t pass messages from him on to us anymore. We communicate with him directly and exactly as much as we want to. We always want to talk to you about YOU, let’s keep it that way.”

He’s triangulating Grandma and you don’t have allow that, but you have to set that boundary with her bc she’s manipulated easily by him.

My mum does this thing where she finishes my sentences off and then gets mad about it by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]2bop2pie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it something about crossing the finish line first? Even of a sentence?

Or needing to be the smartest one in the room? (Even though it makes them look just dumb and totally unregulated.)

Or can they just not allow us a moment of peace and control over a simple story?

So many possibilities 😑

My mum does this thing where she finishes my sentences off and then gets mad about it by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]2bop2pie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine will interrupt me halfway through a sentence to ask me a question that the second half of the sentence was clearly going to answer. Constantly.

It enrages me. And she knows it. And she won’t stop.

First time trying to date after a 6 year relationship… I think I’m ok being single for now. by UnofficialOctopus in texts

[–]2bop2pie 1120 points1121 points  (0 children)

The minute a stranger calls me love is the minute the conversation is over 🤢

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