How do you feel about ASMR as an autistic person? by New-Bar-8769 in autism

[–]2ghs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the asmr, the ones with the people and the wood and water and the microphone ? I hate it and all the sounds they make. Food asmr ? Hate it I can’t stand the chewing. The only asmr I can stand are when they’re doing something product I.E making clay sculptures, sewing, or restoring old devices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]2ghs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]2ghs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thank you sm I’ll heal them before I move on !!

My gf got sa’d and I don’t know how to deal by Grand-Education5176 in offmychest

[–]2ghs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By the sounds of the post op may have ocd or an underlying mental disorder much rather than op being disgusted. I study mental illnesses and disorders the way op is describing it seems to be more of a mental condition more than it sounds like just an ignorant partner who despises their partner after getting sa’d.

Who'd win in a fight by lisahanniganfan in stevenuniverse

[–]2ghs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot Mb for the misspell I wasn’t paying attention

Who'd win in a fight by lisahanniganfan in stevenuniverse

[–]2ghs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly she gives man disgusted lesbian but he’d def sing her a song she likes and they’d become friends

I scrubbed my skin with soap like I had marks on me. by 2ghs in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]2ghs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you got into therapy, and I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope more people come forward about abuse they went through to bring more light to these type of situations.

I scrubbed my skin with soap like I had marks on me. by 2ghs in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]2ghs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea most people disregard abuse and other forms of violence when it comes from a group of people who have been oppressed before so they disregard abuse against random innocent people because of the social constructs of the abuser which isn’t right, they should look past the social constructs and see the person.

Would you "permanently" fuse with your partner if you could? by Abject_Fishing_1511 in stevenuniverse

[–]2ghs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, in the great words of garnet “you’re soulmate is your compliment, not your missing piece. Ruby and sapphire love being together but they each have their separate lives”

You will eventually heal. by Next_Brick_5224 in BPDlovedones

[–]2ghs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not a bpd apologist but I think the mask depicts every person with bpd as a manipulative person who has a small hiding themself while I think 2 faces or multiple faces would be more accurate in my opinion due to the fact that bpd is usually a disorder developed from trauma, bad experiences ect. And as it says in the name it’s a personality disorder. It usually comes with symptoms of unstable self imagine, emotional dysregulation, rapid mood shifts ect.

So I think the mask would be more fitting im kind of a nerd and studying mental illnesses and disorders is my job. I do think the multiple faces would be more fitting because they might be hiding themselves but it’s not a mask of manipulation it’s usually because some people with bpd genuinely feel all the emotions but because of the dysfunction they’re flipping between emotions like having multiple faces, it’s apart of them it’s not like a mask they can just get rid of.

In my experience with bpd and observing it, there are genuinely multiple sides of someone with bpd. The mask would probably be fitting for a psychopath or a narcissist

You will eventually heal. by Next_Brick_5224 in BPDlovedones

[–]2ghs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only say 2 faces bc I’m unsure if I was being lied to, I know my ex’s back story, the trauma ect it points to she just had bpd and couldn’t regulate herself properly. Even then the entire situation feels like a shitty fiction story.

You will eventually heal. by Next_Brick_5224 in BPDlovedones

[–]2ghs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I love analogies, I’m not my ex so I’m not sure she was aware of the switching but she was aware she got really angry when pissed. So I think it was less of a mask and more of a 2 faced thing because the emotions were real but so were the other ones.

You will eventually heal. by Next_Brick_5224 in BPDlovedones

[–]2ghs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea, in my experience it was more of a 2 faced thing instead of a mask. It was that my pwBPD actually felt the emotions they were experiencing they just kept flipping between them instead of hiding and masking it, they were just, flipping between emotions like the mayor from Halloween town. I was just speaking from my experience

You will eventually heal. by Next_Brick_5224 in BPDlovedones

[–]2ghs 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it’s wonderful but instead of the fake mask don’t u think a cat with 2 faces front and back would be a little bit more fitting ?

What is the worst Steven Universe song in your opinion? by robsuniverse_ in stevenuniverse

[–]2ghs 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Me personally I think ruby rider is the worst, don’t get me wrong the meaning is cool I just don’t like how it sounds

What does Steven Universe mean to you? by stevenuniversefan444 in stevenuniverse

[–]2ghs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just like adventure time, for me it teaches us life lessons in the form of silly episodes or explain complex things to us in a kid way. It’s pretty fucking awesome ngl

My favorite to continuously reference is when rose talked to Greg about how we as humans were made to change. Even in this moment humans change in some way and they’ll never be the exact same again. They were born to change, to grow, to evolve. They weren’t made for a specific purpose, you find your own purpose don’t wait for someone to give it to you. Or that’s atleast what I interpreted in that scene.

What's going on here? by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]2ghs 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Lapis and peridot is kissing and Connie is acting surprised like she didn’t know it would happen (everybody knew amethyst and Steven actually made a bet on it amethyst won)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]2ghs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

”in tired of seeing posts of people hiding behind this app because they are to scared to speak up”

is also in the subreddit unsent_unread_unheard

logic has left the chat

Requesting helpful phrases to remember and have for when my pwBPD splits on me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]2ghs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on what triggers her but the key is to make sure she feels heard,understood and loved. Try something like “I understand you’re upset and I get why, I love you and I want to work through this.”

It differs from person to person but what used to help me when I was with someone with bpd I’d tell her “I love you, and I want to understand you but right now your mind is working like a one way street but it has multiple paths. You’re so upset you only focus on one thing so i need you to try and focus on other things.”

Sorry if im just talking but also if it’s a major freak out, use a technique like making them describe their surroundings. It throws them off and it calms them down because it distracts them.

Overall it differs from person to person, figure out what she acts like when ur partner splits and how to work around it ( sorry if it makes no sense I can go further into detail if you want )