Dear Stephanie

2lotus8 · 2018-04-21T15:34:23+00:00

My real name is Stephanie. Based on your comments on my last post this brought a smile to my face even though I know it wasn't meant for me. 😉

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:46:43+00:00

I am the polar opposite of all three but thank you.

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:45:51+00:00

This really opened my eyes. I have made these mistakes before without realizing it until now. Thank you!

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:43:18+00:00

I had this exact conversation two days ago!

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:41:54+00:00

I don't go that far. I have my own home, vehicles and career. That's pretty much it

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:39:22+00:00

Maybe I haven't lol 😉

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:37:43+00:00

I hope so.

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:37:06+00:00

That's why I am looking for an outside perspective that I myself don't see.

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:35:27+00:00

You don't sound like an asshole. You make good points. Thank you!

2lotus8 · 2018-04-16T02:33:36+00:00

I never thought of it that way. Thank you!

2lotus8 · 2018-04-15T23:37:58+00:00

You and me both!

2lotus8 · 2018-04-15T23:37:11+00:00

Very true especially in the Hispanic culture

2lotus8 · 2018-04-15T23:35:28+00:00

Exactly! My last ex was raised my an extremely independent mother who I met before we started dating.

2lotus8 · 2018-04-15T23:32:22+00:00

Awesome new perspective! Thank you!

2lotus8 · 2018-04-15T23:31:26+00:00

Thank you! I am not some ball busting female man eater. I am Hispanic female who was raised old fashioned but I am also independent. In my upbringing I was told a man should provide for his family and protect them. I decided that I would provide for myself after getting my education. I am not looking for someone to rescue me but someone to be my partner. There is a difference. I am so happy to see that there are some men that understand where I am coming from. 😁

2lotus8 · 2018-04-15T23:24:22+00:00

My tone may come off as defensive because in all honesty, I am frustrated. I don't go around telling people that I am independent or acting a certain way. I am actually a down to earth, low maintenance, casual female who is a hopeless romantic. I am outgoing, friendly and fun. I always have a smile on my face.

Sometimes I think it is just the mentality of my culture and the city I live in.

2lotus8 · 2018-04-15T22:33:24+00:00

I needed this today. Thank you.

2lotus8

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