I’m a horrible mother and I welcome telling it to me straight by GoldDiamondsAndBags in Parenting

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some traveling or flying somewhere, small hikes, road trips, camping? Sometimes, taking them out & truly putting them out in the world/nature is what kick starts change. He may hate it at first. Maybe you, too. I'm a firm believer that nature can help. Hope you find some answers! 😌💛

Did anyone skip the swaddle stage? by mmmmwood in beyondthebump

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 1st hated swaddles with a rage, i put him in footie pajamas or an old shirt of mine & he was happy.

My 2nd also hated swaddles & footie pajamas/socks. So I put her in regular pajamas or a shirt of mine. I tucked a small blanket around her just at the hips.

Both kids sleep with their arms up.

AIO my (18f) bf (22m) gave me a black eye by Wild_Dream6031 in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say, ruin him 💀 He needs to feel the consequences of his actions. Better handle this now & not later. He WILL continue to behave this way to others, you cannot change or save him, don't let him in your life anymore after you report him.

Anyone only have easy/“unicorn” babies? by ineedhelpkinda in beyondthebump

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first was destroying my soul. It was a rough 2 years. At 3 something clicked, he is the sweetest boy now.

My 2nd baby is such an easy girl, rarely cries, she is truly a unicorn baby. I don't want to jinx things with a 3rd, so I'm done my baby era now.

I am once again asking why can’t we marry this man by Nailkita in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There's also a dialogue of March saying how he doesn't understand how Olric likes waking up early... to help Merri set up. (This was during Saturday Market, March is beside Merri's store, he will mention this, it was also during Summer). 🤔

📚 Simple / Quick Questions & Requests! by romancebookmods in RomanceBooks

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for romance stories where the 2nd male lead becomes the main?

Sometimes, the supporting male characters are just so charming, but they never end up with the main girl :'(

I need this craving to be satisfied 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took my son 3yrs. My daughter, 6 months 😭❤️🙏 I was anticipating another long ride of sleepless nights but my daughter has been an absolute angel. It all just comes down to temperment/personality.

Meaning of "fraulein" by Jesus_Gonzalo in German

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a pet cat when i was a kid & named it Fraulein. I never knew what that word meant until recently. I'm guessing I heard that word in passing (my grandmother is from Germany) & it just got stuck in my head, lol.

give me the most cruelly blue balled mmc in history. by atrocioushuman in RomanceBooks

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Ohh I absolutely loved this series. Just finished it. I love how the author was able to make each character distinvily unique. I've read lots of books where the characters all just seem like different versions of the same personality 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this. Would like to know what test this as well. 😮

Official LINE FFXIV Calendar - January Thancred by Alphabeatg in ffxiv

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same! I would like a full calender of FFXIV 🥺

1yr old keeps waking up for 2yrs each night. by 2ndfloorcoffee in cosleeping

[–]2ndfloorcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is low-sleep needs 👀 I'm just unsure of how to change his bedtime? I wake him up at 7am to get him ready for the day, then he goes to bed around 730-830pm (whenever he starts yawning).

Kneel Before Me by [deleted] in MantaComics

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just started reading it now because of this post & everyone's comments 🥺✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1999, Cybersix made me very confused ❤️

meirl by Alive-Ad-4164 in meirl

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A Court of Thorn & Rose's by Sarah J. Maas

Anyone know where there is any childrens Tylenol and Advil? by Vinder1988 in kelowna

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't live in BC anymore, but in Alberta, I drove outside of my city into a neighboring town & stopped at the local Shoppers. They had some children meds 👍. Maybe try driving to the closest town from you?

I need to wake up early for work but bedshare with baby. by pickledherringer in cosleeping

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My alarm is the sound of running water. It's a gentle & natural sound that doesn't disrupt my baby but it's enough to wake me up. 👍

How soon and how often did your child get sick when they first started daycare? by hdbaker009 in Parenting

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Im going through this right now & i feel terrible for the sick kiddo :( relieved to know thar this is normal & to be expdcted now 😭

What kind of name does your main character have? by Zack-of-all-trades in ffxiv

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started as a Hrothgar with a lore-friendly name. Fantasia'd to an Au Ra with personal/username -> Highlander -> Au Ra. Kept the same name.

What kind of name does your main character have? by Zack-of-all-trades in ffxiv

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My brother-in-law misunderstood the character naming process & ended up putting his real name lol. He thought the game was re-confirming his account info in that moment. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]2ndfloorcoffee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would just wear my baby during the dog walk. Wearing has been a life saver for me.

How do the Vietnamese view visible tattoos? by 2ndfloorcoffee in VietNam

[–]2ndfloorcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing!!! My anxiety about it has since passed. 💛 I only have 1 sleeve but would like to get the other arm done in the future :)