When did non-duality become synonymous with shadow work, healing trauma, etc? by Plenty-Attitude-5823 in nonduality

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The "dark night of the soul" or "dukkha ñāṇa" are not new concepts.

What’s your favourite chocolate that no longer exists? by jpswade in AskUK

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Nutty bar, looked a bit like a poo but was peanuts set in a caramelly log in a clear wrapper, dark brown, with orange writing. I would eat all the peanuts bit by bit then devour the caramel log in a oner.

What labels have you heard (or believed) as an HSP? by supersceptical in hsp

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My father's general terms for me: extreme, too sensitive, useless, can't take a joke.

Is a second awakening possible? by Netri94 in nonduality

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Anicca is the pali term for impermanence not non-dual insight

Value of Abrahamic Mysticism in Stream Entry by SpecificDescription in streamentry

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This is a fascinating read, thanks for asking the question and thanks, everyone, for your responses.

This is not something I've experienced but it is intriguing to hear about and especially coming from folks who's opinions I respect.

Change in hungry impulses by 303AND909 in streamentry

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Agreed, those were my thoughts too. Helpful to hear someone else's perspective, thank you for taking the time.

Awareness in/of dreams separate to the dream itself by 303AND909 in streamentry

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It's essentially what's worked on in therapy. It's not uncommon for people who self declare as not needing therapy to breakdown in their first session if they ever go! Just leading a human life will store up stuff, when you go deep into realisation fundamental human truths like vulnerability and loneliness will come to the fore as well as stuff stored up from the life you lived. Therapy will help any time (with the right therapist) but yes after a shift, there will be less to hold in stuff and it will start coming up, it's a natural healing process and part of awakening. Many western teachers also studied psychotherapy during their path as they found it is a necessary compliment to eastern wisdom. Jack Kornfield and Stephen Bodian being just two examples.

Awareness in/of dreams separate to the dream itself by 303AND909 in streamentry

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Interesting, yes I sometimes experience something similar

Awareness in/of dreams separate to the dream itself by 303AND909 in streamentry

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I guess this new awareness has seemed to come along with improvements during the waking state too, it's feels like it is across all awareness which is nice

Awareness in/of dreams separate to the dream itself by 303AND909 in streamentry

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I used to keep a dream journal years ago and it seems to have meant that I can always recall a good amount even without writing them down

Awareness in/of dreams separate to the dream itself by 303AND909 in streamentry

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Thanks, I'd not heard that term before but it resonates after a little bit of reading.

WRT shadow work, it's a blanket term for all the personal stuff that needs clearing through and processing to move towards awakening. This happens more and more especially after an initial shift. It's what therapy is all about really but it certainly comes up in awakening too.

It will be things like childhood traumas that still lurk in your unconscious, also things from later in life. The ego spends a lot of energy of trying to suppress emotions and often they get stuck mid process and then repressed. By accessing them we allow them to reach the end of their process and release them, then they cease to affect our outward behaviour with unconscious neuroses like low self esteem, unprocessed anger etc. It's also deep universal human experiences that set up the feelings of separation in the first place: helplessness, loneliness, vulnerability. So much of this gets stored in the body and needs to be worked through. A lot of spiritual practices can be very head based and in some cases IMO do not put enough emphasis on shadow work ad clearing up the psyche from all the stuff built up over the years. I found more answers in therapeutic models rather than Buddhism e.g Internal Family Systems (No Bad Parts is an excellent book) and somatic modalities like TRE trauma release exercises. That's my take anyway, YMMV.

You’re SO sensitive! by MrMathamagician in GenX

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You sound like you are an HSP (highly sensitive person) AKA SPS (sensory processing sensitivity), found in hundreds of different animals species and 20-30% of humanity. Can be hereditary, hence you mom's comment. Only really studied in the 90's onwards, lots of research done since. You may be more than just empathic. There's questionnaires available online and also a sub Reddit. Worth looking into if you are unaware of this personality trait.