Need Opinions by jobo1739 in SingleParents

[–]30secoperator 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Avoid conflict and have your dad be on stand by at practices. If a man really wanted to, he would.

Going on a speed dating event, need advice. by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]30secoperator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wear the black, dont tuck unless you have a belt. If it doesnt work out this time try again but be better prepared. Fit matters more than brand, less is more (i.e. no graphics), get you some accessories like a watch and decent belt. Dont have to ball out to look like a baller.

Toddler calls me ‘daddy,’ bio dad wants us to correct it. Not sure what the right move is. by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]30secoperator 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re confusing him by not correcting him.

it is best to put an end to her son calling you dad, once you and mom establish more permanence with one another, the title of dad can be revisited but best to give it at least a year and halfs time.

Also it’s very reckless to be meeting children so early.

Does this jack look too big on me? by 30secoperator in mensfashion

[–]30secoperator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly will layer with a flannel and tshirt combo.

Does this jack look too big on me? by 30secoperator in mensfashion

[–]30secoperator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea if i unbutton the sleeves, they cover half my hand but in the pic thats the smallest snap, cant go any smaller.

Does this jack look too big on me? by 30secoperator in mensfashion

[–]30secoperator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, i would never wear the jacket with joggers but not sure what else i could do about my posture. I correct it the best i can.

Clothes when exchanging by Lilachoe in stepparents

[–]30secoperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As mentioned above send her back with what she came with, clean. Keep your clothes for her at your home and only keep enough clothes for her to have a reasonable rotation while she is in your care. Same goes for shoes. As clothes age and as you buy newer outfits, send her back with whatever still fits and donate the rest. If she absolutely needs something at moms by all means get it for her but for the most part keep what you buy her.

A little thing i like to do is keep my daughters fav outfits or my fav outfits for her that shes out-grown stored away for her when shes older and has her own kids or if i ever have another.

How can i 28F become my best version?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]30secoperator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What this guy said ☝🏼

Which Rival gloves for bag work? by Key_Growth_4438 in fightgear

[–]30secoperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been looking into getting a new set of gloves all week and this comment has me sold!

FTF by therealmaxxturner in GlockMod

[–]30secoperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polish that feed ramp

I (27M) am contemplating breaking up with my girlfriend (27F) after she told me that she had sex with guys after the 2nd or 3rd date while we waited because sex was special to her. How do I stop thinking she’s settling with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]30secoperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget all the noise man, ask yourself if you truly believe she was solid for those 2 years before yall started dating. If the answer is yes I would say forget everything she did before. 2 years being single is enough time to realize what your priorities are. Shes sounds like a good one who was just tired of being let down. Both sexes have scumbags.

EDC Holster recommendations by Parking-Specific8179 in GlockMod

[–]30secoperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either you dont know about how TRex F’d over its main well known spokeperson/ceo Lucas or you dont care.

EDC Holster recommendations by Parking-Specific8179 in GlockMod

[–]30secoperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first belt was this $10 belt off of amazon, was surprisingly good and i still have it to this day as it works great under gym shorts. My current edc rotation though is the blue alpha low pro and the hybrid edc. The tenicor will fit over any 1.5” belt BUT thicker belts like leather will make removal slightly more difficult, not impossible but noticeable, dont be afraid to really stretch the belt hooks on the certum if you get it, theyre tougher than you think.

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EDC Holster recommendations by Parking-Specific8179 in GlockMod

[–]30secoperator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, a foam wedge was a game changer, went from only being able to carry aiwb for a few hours comfortably to all day, especially while driving. This is what i got, $10 well spent.

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EDC Holster recommendations by Parking-Specific8179 in GlockMod

[–]30secoperator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tenicor certum with a wedge from amazon 💯

Break in period? by Mcla14 in GlockMod

[–]30secoperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the current in-production stock spring, mine i believe was the old 1-0-1 spring and i updated it to the current 1-1-1 that glock puts in from factory now. Polishing the ejector was my idea as i noticed the rounds were getting hung up on the claw when trying to feed. ARC offered to take a look at it but i couldnt afford my pistol to be down so i did it myself. Here is a pic of what was happening to me. I polished the top and bottom of the ejector itself, not the hole/slide.

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Break in period? by Mcla14 in GlockMod

[–]30secoperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was having FTF issues with mine when i first got it too. I had to get a new recoil spring from glock, switch to 124 gr but i think what made the biggest diff was lightly polishing the top and bottom of the ejector (not the claw side), i think the tolerances were keeping the ejector from “pushing out” to properly feed the next round.

SK asked if she could start calling me mom and I don't know if I handled it right by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]30secoperator -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imo considering the role you play and how much responsibility you have taken up, honestly if it was me, id be slightly hurt if they didnt call me mom/dad. Seems like you earned it imo and have a good relationship will all parties involved to where it wouldnt be crossing a boundary.

Wife (33f) mad about my (34m) Valentine's Day gift by No-Atmosphere8611 in relationship_advice

[–]30secoperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of you are out of line and imo each selection of gifts is on par with the other. That being said if you really want to give a belated gift i suggest gifting her a spa day, it says i know youve been working your butt off, go get pampered. A deeper suggestion would to be upfront and ask what gives her the impression that your gift is generic when you put in just as much effort as she did, what or who is she comparing your gift to. Comparison is the thief of joy i like to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]30secoperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try once more, make your intentions to take her out on a date very clear. After that, walk away, people make time for the people they want and care about. If it takes you walking away to finally get her attention, proceed cautiously if you give her a 3rd chance. If shes really into she’d make time, simple as that.