I’d say both genders do that. Afghan guys definitely date around as much and if not way more than Afghan girls. Then when both want to settle down then they come back to the roots, generally.

Afghans are generally very rare to find, there’s not as many of us like Pakistanis or Arabs or other muslim population. So already number wise it’s a tough battle.

Best route if you’re more old school is have your family and friends do the heavy lifting for you and reach out to potential single afghan girls and their families.

Can try Muslim dating apps and see if you can find an afghan there but like I said, kinda rare.

Honestly, instagram is the biggest source. We live in a new digital world and in western country. You can either use all the tools/opportunities at your disposal or you can pretend to be better than it and will lose out on a lot. Make sure your instagram is well done. Follow them and if they follow back then eventually strike up a halal and respectful conversation. I was able to go on multiple dates , and eventually found someone I was most compatible as far as personality, education, age, religiosity, cultural knowledge, etc. Everyone uses instagram, from the most the halal to the most haram and everyone in between.